UPDATE: First solo dates
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Another update from this past Friday. A little tension but we are talking through it and maybe working through it.
From her:
So this past Friday, my new guy and I decided to get together again. I drove down to see him this time. We met in a Kroger parking lot. He picked me up and we went out for a drink. After having one drink at the bar, we had all eyes on us because we were looking hot!🥵 he made the comment of just clearing off the bar, laying me across it and fucking me in front of everybody who is sitting there having drinks. That had me instantly wet.
After our drink at the bar, we went to get dinner. We found a place that we went to eat at, but the wait was over an hour long and it was already 8 o’clock at night. I wanted to make sure to be home at a decent time because I had to pack my bags for a conference still and leave early morning the next morning. While we were sitting in the parking lot, thinking of a different place to go to eat for dinner, he asked what we should do to pass the time being a little sly.
I told him I was ready to go if he was. He was asking how we could make that happen in the front of his truck. He made sure to mention that his windows were tinted and that his windshield was also tinted.
I told him to take his pants off, as I took mine off. I crawled over and started giving him head. After a few minutes, I told him to lean his seat back, and I climbed on top of him. I rode him for maybe 10/15 minutes. I came within the first few minutes and he also came filling me up like I asked him to.
After we found a quick sandwich shop and had a small dinner. He drove me back to my car. When I got out to go to my car, he came around, picked me up, pinned me against the car and made sure to leave me with a hot 🥵 last impression.
After returning home, Rob was asleep in the recliner and I startled him awake. We went into the room and had some discussion about what happened. However, things were a little tense between us. Rob let me know that he wasn’t really happy with how things have been going recently in this lifestyle. In his defense recently, things have been pretty one-sided with me going out with my boyfriends instead of involving him like how it used to be. I have started to find out recently that I’m more like the polyamorous type of lifestyle instead of just being involved in one night stands with different guys.
After some discussion and lots of tears, Rob and I probably had the best night of sex that we’ve ever had in a very very very very long time. We started with just making love slowly and passionately with me riding him. After he put me on my back and made love to me, which then turned in to fucking hard. I know I came at least three times. I lost count after that. After fucking hard for about an hour, he flipped me over on all fours and fucked me hard from behind as well. He asked me where I wanted him to cum and I told him to fill me up as well. He came hard. It was pouring out of me when he was done. 🥵
Hottest night ever.
From her:
So this past Friday, my new guy and I decided to get together again. I drove down to see him this time. We met in a Kroger parking lot. He picked me up and we went out for a drink. After having one drink at the bar, we had all eyes on us because we were looking hot!🥵 he made the comment of just clearing off the bar, laying me across it and fucking me in front of everybody who is sitting there having drinks. That had me instantly wet.
After our drink at the bar, we went to get dinner. We found a place that we went to eat at, but the wait was over an hour long and it was already 8 o’clock at night. I wanted to make sure to be home at a decent time because I had to pack my bags for a conference still and leave early morning the next morning. While we were sitting in the parking lot, thinking of a different place to go to eat for dinner, he asked what we should do to pass the time being a little sly.
I told him to take his pants off, as I took mine off. I crawled over and started giving him head. After a few minutes, I told him to lean his seat back, and I climbed on top of him. I rode him for maybe 10/15 minutes. I came within the first few minutes and he also came filling me up like I asked him to.
After we found a quick sandwich shop and had a small dinner. He drove me back to my car. When I got out to go to my car, he came around, picked me up, pinned me against the car and made sure to leave me with a hot 🥵 last impression.
After returning home, Rob was asleep in the recliner and I startled him awake. We went into the room and had some discussion about what happened. However, things were a little tense between us. Rob let me know that he wasn’t really happy with how things have been going recently in this lifestyle. In his defense recently, things have been pretty one-sided with me going out with my boyfriends instead of involving him like how it used to be. I have started to find out recently that I’m more like the polyamorous type of lifestyle instead of just being involved in one night stands with different guys.
After some discussion and lots of tears, Rob and I probably had the best night of sex that we’ve ever had in a very very very very long time. We started with just making love slowly and passionately with me riding him. After he put me on my back and made love to me, which then turned in to fucking hard. I know I came at least three times. I lost count after that. After fucking hard for about an hour, he flipped me over on all fours and fucked me hard from behind as well. He asked me where I wanted him to cum and I told him to fill me up as well. He came hard. It was pouring out of me when he was done. 🥵
Hottest night ever.
Wow! You guys have been in the lifestyle for a while now right? It must have been some hard discussions if there were tears involved. At least you acknowledge that things have been "pretty one-sided" of late. I can only guess that he must feel little left out. Did you come up with any adjustments to address how he was feeling?Another update from this past Friday. A little tension but we are talking through it and maybe working through it.
From her:
So this past Friday, my new guy and I decided to get together again. I drove down to see him this time. We met in a Kroger parking lot. He picked me up and we went out for a drink. After having one drink at the bar, we had all eyes on us because we were looking hot!🥵 he made the comment of just clearing off the bar, laying me across it and fucking me in front of everybody who is sitting there having drinks. That had me instantly wet.
After our drink at the bar, we went to get dinner. We found a place that we went to eat at, but the wait was over an hour long and it was already 8 o’clock at night. I wanted to make sure to be home at a decent time because I had to pack my bags for a conference still and leave early morning the next morning. While we were sitting in the parking lot, thinking of a different place to go to eat for dinner, he asked what we should do to pass the time being a little sly.I told him I was ready to go if he was. He was asking how we could make that happen in the front of his truck. He made sure to mention that his windows were tinted and that his windshield was also tinted.
I told him to take his pants off, as I took mine off. I crawled over and started giving him head. After a few minutes, I told him to lean his seat back, and I climbed on top of him. I rode him for maybe 10/15 minutes. I came within the first few minutes and he also came filling me up like I asked him to.
After we found a quick sandwich shop and had a small dinner. He drove me back to my car. When I got out to go to my car, he came around, picked me up, pinned me against the car and made sure to leave me with a hot 🥵 last impression.
After returning home, Rob was asleep in the recliner and I startled him awake. We went into the room and had some discussion about what happened. However, things were a little tense between us. Rob let me know that he wasn’t really happy with how things have been going recently in this lifestyle. In his defense recently, things have been pretty one-sided with me going out with my boyfriends instead of involving him like how it used to be. I have started to find out recently that I’m more like the polyamorous type of lifestyle instead of just being involved in one night stands with different guys.
After some discussion and lots of tears, Rob and I probably had the best night of sex that we’ve ever had in a very very very very long time. We started with just making love slowly and passionately with me riding him. After he put me on my back and made love to me, which then turned in to fucking hard. I know I came at least three times. I lost count after that. After fucking hard for about an hour, he flipped me over on all fours and fucked me hard from behind as well. He asked me where I wanted him to cum and I told him to fill me up as well. He came hard. It was pouring out of me when he was done. 🥵
Hottest night ever.
We are still talking about options.
When we first started a couple of years ago there was no way I'd have let my wife go on her own. Now she goes on her own fairly regular. She's seeing two regulars this week on her own and to be honest if that's what she wants I don't mind at all. It's all recorded anyway so I still get to watch it all
That's really good to hear. Can anyone that truly loves their partner claim to have had the best experience ever if their partner doesn't share that same excitement and enthusiasm? The sex is just a part of the bigger goal of being happy and content. It makes me think of the quote by actor John Barrymore, “Sex: the thing that takes up the least amount of time and causes the most amount of trouble.”
One of the issues was that they never took pics or recorded or anything and my wife is notoriously bad about retelling things so it was a wash for me
Ultimately that's how it is. There needs to be enough that you're happy with things. If you're getting pics and video and that's what you wanted then it's all good. A smart wife knows she has to keep things interesting. She knows if she ignores her husband it won't last. That's why I've always believed it takes a smart wife to pull this off. A smart wife knows how good she's got it and does all she can to keep it on the rails. When she doesn't it shows that she's moved on, or NOW wants something different. I read about it here all the time! Wives that are smart know better and know a good thing when they have it!
To be honest she goes on her own a fair bit now. Most of her dates take place at our static caravan which has cameras fitted in the bedroom so I can watch it all from home. If she was to go on a date where I couldn't watch I don't think I could handle that. After all isn't that all part of the thrill, being able to watch our other halves fucking
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