UPDATE: First solo dates

Another update from this past Friday. A little tension but we are talking through it and maybe working through it.
From her:
So this past Friday, my new guy and I decided to get together again. I drove down to see him this time. We met in a Kroger parking lot. He picked me up and we went out for a drink. After having one drink at the bar, we had all eyes on us because we were looking hot!šŸ„µ he made the comment of just clearing off the bar, laying me across it and fucking me in front of everybody who is sitting there having drinks. That had me instantly wet.
After our drink at the bar, we went to get dinner. We found a place that we went to eat at, but the wait was over an hour long and it was already 8 oā€™clock at night. I wanted to make sure to be home at a decent time because I had to pack my bags for a conference still and leave early morning the next morning. While we were sitting in the parking lot, thinking of a different place to go to eat for dinner, he asked what we should do to pass the time being a little sly.
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I told him I was ready to go if he was. He was asking how we could make that happen in the front of his truck. He made sure to mention that his windows were tinted and that his windshield was also tinted.
I told him to take his pants off, as I took mine off. I crawled over and started giving him head. After a few minutes, I told him to lean his seat back, and I climbed on top of him. I rode him for maybe 10/15 minutes. I came within the first few minutes and he also came filling me up like I asked him to.
After we found a quick sandwich shop and had a small dinner. He drove me back to my car. When I got out to go to my car, he came around, picked me up, pinned me against the car and made sure to leave me with a hot šŸ„µ last impression.

After returning home, Rob was asleep in the recliner and I startled him awake. We went into the room and had some discussion about what happened. However, things were a little tense between us. Rob let me know that he wasnā€™t really happy with how things have been going recently in this lifestyle. In his defense recently, things have been pretty one-sided with me going out with my boyfriends instead of involving him like how it used to be. I have started to find out recently that Iā€™m more like the polyamorous type of lifestyle instead of just being involved in one night stands with different guys.
After some discussion and lots of tears, Rob and I probably had the best night of sex that weā€™ve ever had in a very very very very long time. We started with just making love slowly and passionately with me riding him. After he put me on my back and made love to me, which then turned in to fucking hard. I know I came at least three times. I lost count after that. After fucking hard for about an hour, he flipped me over on all fours and fucked me hard from behind as well. He asked me where I wanted him to cum and I told him to fill me up as well. He came hard. It was pouring out of me when he was done. šŸ„µ

Hottest night ever.
 
Another update from this past Friday. A little tension but we are talking through it and maybe working through it.
From her:
So this past Friday, my new guy and I decided to get together again. I drove down to see him this time. We met in a Kroger parking lot. He picked me up and we went out for a drink. After having one drink at the bar, we had all eyes on us because we were looking hot!šŸ„µ he made the comment of just clearing off the bar, laying me across it and fucking me in front of everybody who is sitting there having drinks. That had me instantly wet.
After our drink at the bar, we went to get dinner. We found a place that we went to eat at, but the wait was over an hour long and it was already 8 oā€™clock at night. I wanted to make sure to be home at a decent time because I had to pack my bags for a conference still and leave early morning the next morning. While we were sitting in the parking lot, thinking of a different place to go to eat for dinner, he asked what we should do to pass the time being a little sly.
šŸ˜
I told him I was ready to go if he was. He was asking how we could make that happen in the front of his truck. He made sure to mention that his windows were tinted and that his windshield was also tinted.
I told him to take his pants off, as I took mine off. I crawled over and started giving him head. After a few minutes, I told him to lean his seat back, and I climbed on top of him. I rode him for maybe 10/15 minutes. I came within the first few minutes and he also came filling me up like I asked him to.
After we found a quick sandwich shop and had a small dinner. He drove me back to my car. When I got out to go to my car, he came around, picked me up, pinned me against the car and made sure to leave me with a hot šŸ„µ last impression.

After returning home, Rob was asleep in the recliner and I startled him awake. We went into the room and had some discussion about what happened. However, things were a little tense between us. Rob let me know that he wasnā€™t really happy with how things have been going recently in this lifestyle. In his defense recently, things have been pretty one-sided with me going out with my boyfriends instead of involving him like how it used to be. I have started to find out recently that Iā€™m more like the polyamorous type of lifestyle instead of just being involved in one night stands with different guys.
After some discussion and lots of tears, Rob and I probably had the best night of sex that weā€™ve ever had in a very very very very long time. We started with just making love slowly and passionately with me riding him. After he put me on my back and made love to me, which then turned in to fucking hard. I know I came at least three times. I lost count after that. After fucking hard for about an hour, he flipped me over on all fours and fucked me hard from behind as well. He asked me where I wanted him to cum and I told him to fill me up as well. He came hard. It was pouring out of me when he was done. šŸ„µ

Hottest night ever.
Wow! You guys have been in the lifestyle for a while now right? It must have been some hard discussions if there were tears involved. At least you acknowledge that things have been "pretty one-sided" of late. I can only guess that he must feel little left out. Did you come up with any adjustments to address how he was feeling?
 
Wow! You guys have been in the lifestyle for a while now right? It must have been some hard discussions if there were tears involved. At least you acknowledge that things have been "pretty one-sided" of late. I can only guess that he must feel little left out. Did you come up with any adjustments to address how he was feeling?
We are still talking about options.
 
When we first started a couple of years ago there was no way I'd have let my wife go on her own. Now she goes on her own fairly regular. She's seeing two regulars this week on her own and to be honest if that's what she wants I don't mind at all. It's all recorded anyway so I still get to watch it all
 
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We are still talking about options.
That's really good to hear. Can anyone that truly loves their partner claim to have had the best experience ever if their partner doesn't share that same excitement and enthusiasm? The sex is just a part of the bigger goal of being happy and content. It makes me think of the quote by actor John Barrymore, ā€œSex: the thing that takes up the least amount of time and causes the most amount of trouble.ā€
 
When we first started a couple of years ago there was no way I'd have let my wife go on her own. Now she goes on her own fairly regular. She's seeing two regulars this week on her own and to be honest if that's what she wants I don't mind at all. It's all recorded anyway so I still get to watch it all
One of the issues was that they never took pics or recorded or anything and my wife is notoriously bad about retelling things so it was a wash for me
 
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One of the issues was that they never took pics or recorded or anything and my wife is notoriously bad about retelling things so it was a wash for me
Ultimately that's how it is. There needs to be enough that you're happy with things. If you're getting pics and video and that's what you wanted then it's all good. A smart wife knows she has to keep things interesting. She knows if she ignores her husband it won't last. That's why I've always believed it takes a smart wife to pull this off. A smart wife knows how good she's got it and does all she can to keep it on the rails. When she doesn't it shows that she's moved on, or NOW wants something different. I read about it here all the time! Wives that are smart know better and know a good thing when they have it!
 
One of the issues was that they never took pics or recorded or anything and my wife is notoriously bad about retelling things so it was a wash for me
To be honest she goes on her own a fair bit now. Most of her dates take place at our static caravan which has cameras fitted in the bedroom so I can watch it all from home. If she was to go on a date where I couldn't watch I don't think I could handle that. After all isn't that all part of the thrill, being able to watch our other halves fucking
 
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Update from Rachel:
So these last couple of months have been nothing but life full of stress in Rob and Iā€™s personal lives. And we all know what crazy amounts of stress do to oneā€™s libido. So needless to say, not much has happened recently. We have been discussing the possibility of going back into a contract situation like we had done before. One of the things I have really enjoyed and wanted to get back to. We just havenā€™t had the time until this week with the weather being bad enough to cancel schools.

Today though, I woke up wanting him badly. I had one of those super realistic dreams that I texted him and told him to come fuck me. Then in the dream he did come in, started with kissing me up my legs, my inner thighs, and started eating my pussy. Making me moan loudly with pleasure. And since our ...... wasnā€™t home I was very, very loud.

I woke up from my dream and checked my phone to see if it was real or not. I in fact did not message him. I took that opportunity, knowing I was soaking wet and ready to go, to send him a message saying I needed him. NOW. He told me to take a specific picture and send it to him while I was waiting for him to come into the room. I did so. Maybe Iā€™ll have him post the picture in our pictures feed. I was laying on the bed on my stomach when he came in. He came up behind me, rubbing my legs as I laid there. I got up, ran to the restroom real quick (I wanted to make sure that this was going to last without any interruptions
šŸ˜…
). After I freshened up, I came out and he slowly undressed me. I also undressed him. We walked over to the bed while making out. He threw me down on the bed and started right in with eating my pussy.

He had me shaking in pleasure. Itā€™s one of my favorite things to receive! And he is very very good at it. After a while he grabbed my wand and told me I had to hold it on my clit while he fucked me. I followed orders and did so. I came on his cock while he was slowly penetrating me.

We kept going. Hard, then slow and intimate for a while. I came again and bit him on the shoulder as I was cumming. I honestly was worried I bit so hard I hurt him but he loved it. I nibbled on his neck a bit as well.

He had me get up on all fours and he started spanking me while I still had the wand on my clit. He asked if I wanted more and of course I replied with ā€œYes Sirā€. I actually came while he was spanking me hard. This was a first for me. I love being spanked but never had a guy do it so well that I orgasm from that and the vibrator alone. He took me from behind continuing to spank me. My ass was so red and welted from him spanking me while we were in doggy. He bit my back as well while he was going hard.

Something so hot about primal sex between Rob and I. Not sure I would want that from any of my other guys. But he sure knows how I like it and gives it like that every time. He came inside me after I asked him to fill me up. Afterwards he went to get an ice cube to cool down my ads cheeks as well as the bite mark on my back. He also started the shower for me and made sure that I was taken care of. It was pure bliss.
 
Update from Rachel:
So these last couple of months have been nothing but life full of stress in Rob and Iā€™s personal lives. And we all know what crazy amounts of stress do to oneā€™s libido. So needless to say, not much has happened recently. We have been discussing the possibility of going back into a contract situation like we had done before. One of the things I have really enjoyed and wanted to get back to. We just havenā€™t had the time until this week with the weather being bad enough to cancel schools.

Today though, I woke up wanting him badly. I had one of those super realistic dreams that I texted him and told him to come fuck me. Then in the dream he did come in, started with kissing me up my legs, my inner thighs, and started eating my pussy. Making me moan loudly with pleasure. And since our ...... wasnā€™t home I was very, very loud.

I woke up from my dream and checked my phone to see if it was real or not. I in fact did not message him. I took that opportunity, knowing I was soaking wet and ready to go, to send him a message saying I needed him. NOW. He told me to take a specific picture and send it to him while I was waiting for him to come into the room. I did so. Maybe Iā€™ll have him post the picture in our pictures feed. I was laying on the bed on my stomach when he came in. He came up behind me, rubbing my legs as I laid there. I got up, ran to the restroom real quick (I wanted to make sure that this was going to last without any interruptions
šŸ˜…
). After I freshened up, I came out and he slowly undressed me. I also undressed him. We walked over to the bed while making out. He threw me down on the bed and started right in with eating my pussy.

He had me shaking in pleasure. Itā€™s one of my favorite things to receive! And he is very very good at it. After a while he grabbed my wand and told me I had to hold it on my clit while he fucked me. I followed orders and did so. I came on his cock while he was slowly penetrating me.

We kept going. Hard, then slow and intimate for a while. I came again and bit him on the shoulder as I was cumming. I honestly was worried I bit so hard I hurt him but he loved it. I nibbled on his neck a bit as well.

He had me get up on all fours and he started spanking me while I still had the wand on my clit. He asked if I wanted more and of course I replied with ā€œYes Sirā€. I actually came while he was spanking me hard. This was a first for me. I love being spanked but never had a guy do it so well that I orgasm from that and the vibrator alone. He took me from behind continuing to spank me. My ass was so red and welted from him spanking me while we were in doggy. He bit my back as well while he was going hard.

Something so hot about primal sex between Rob and I. Not sure I would want that from any of my other guys. But he sure knows how I like it and gives it like that every time. He came inside me after I asked him to fill me up. Afterwards he went to get an ice cube to cool down my ads cheeks as well as the bite mark on my back. He also started the shower for me and made sure that I was taken care of. It was pure bliss.
My wife and I just got through having sex and her favorite is with her wand pressed against her clit while I'm in her. Sometimes she'll get so revved up I can only get in five or six strokes before she has another orgasm. I'm glad you and Rob had fun together and how you obviously cherish him!