Post 17 was me waking up and realizing that I had the perfect material for a hotwife.. But, rather than encouraging her to be promiscuous, my possessive jealous behavior over the years influenced her to settle into faithful monogamy.. (Which she may well have wanted to do anyway..) That is what I was confessing to..Dang, Simon! So post #17 is where you two are really and truly at? The 2 of you need to sit down and have an honest and open talk about it.. If you decide to jump into the hotwife lifestyle, the 2 of you need to decide on some hard and fast rules and stick to them.. Our only rule is no old boyfriends, girlfriends that we had an emotional attachment to.. Like 2 wheel said, a lot of people look back later in life and say "I wish......" We are 2 of those people.. We got married in our 30's........started swinging in our late 30's, and didn't really evolve into the Hotwife life until our late 40's or early 50's.. Suz is an absolute horny assed fuck machine, and wishes we had been hotwifing exclusively the whole time.. She has had more cock than most women can dream of, and wants more every day! We are early 60's, and know time is running out, and wish we had more of it.. I guess I said all that to say this........don't waste what precious time you have.. The 2 of you should be what you want to be, be each others best friends, make a fun game of the Hotwife lifestyle, and enjoy every second of it.. Remember........it's just a fun game, and you and the beautiful Mrs.. Ward are co-captains of your team.. Now, go have a FUN game!
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She may have been unfaithful over the years, who knows? I've harbored suspicions like any husband.. They may well be paranoid delusion powered my suppressed (until now) desire for them to have solid foundation.. If she has been unfaithful she is keeping it well under wraps and she isn't going to open up about it..
Recently I have said some things that have clearly been suggestive that she is free to have sex with whomever she wants and that she should do just that.. Laid in bed the other day she told me that she does not want to have sex with anyone other than me..
Unfortunately that is where we are at.. Basically nowhere after all my effort over the last 14 months.. As per my confession (post 17) I only have myself to blame for this..
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