Minor update, but it's not a great one. She agreed to go to a sex club when we are in Europe this summer, and she said she'd love to have sex in front of people as long as nobody touched her. 🙁
She seems receptive....now what?
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So the wife and I are going to California next week, and I brought up having a MFM threesome while we are away. She responded with "I don't think I'd like the way I feel after it was done"
Looking for some feedback from other women who may be able to help me understand that comment.
Looking for some feedback from other women who may be able to help me understand that comment.
Sounds promising! ... That's how my wife and I got started, and she has progressed by baby steps since then
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Is she Irish? Sub optimal attitude IMHO. Not trying to be negative but I find many of her comments reveal a disappointing disposition. Catholic guilt trip and quite self centered. The aversion to being touched by anybody else is not a sanguine sign.
You've given her the family life she wants but shes reticent to give you the bit of kink you desire. In the west that's the norm, the culture of sacrifice by the husband to maintain marital bliss , but in other countries it is not so. Im no machista nor misogynist, I love women and treat them like princesses, but pleasure and preferences are too important to subordinate.
And you are only in your early 40s, so those urges will just get stronger I assure you. And her body will . . . .not get better. So unless her attitude improves I think you gotta get a mistress who is more willing to satisfy your desires rather than selfishly focusing solely on herself.
A decade ago went to sexy Halloween party with Colombian MILF ex. Horny as all get out, loved doing it in public . She did tell me "im not into swapping". So at the party it started slow. Finally things started heating up and two girls were going at it as a crowd gathered around them. I tried to pull her in closer excited at this progress. She pulled back when she saw what was happening nd said lets go.
My interest in her vitiated in a nanosecond and I asked her to move out not too much after that epiphany that she was not the one.
You've given her the family life she wants but shes reticent to give you the bit of kink you desire. In the west that's the norm, the culture of sacrifice by the husband to maintain marital bliss , but in other countries it is not so. Im no machista nor misogynist, I love women and treat them like princesses, but pleasure and preferences are too important to subordinate.
And you are only in your early 40s, so those urges will just get stronger I assure you. And her body will . . . .not get better. So unless her attitude improves I think you gotta get a mistress who is more willing to satisfy your desires rather than selfishly focusing solely on herself.
A decade ago went to sexy Halloween party with Colombian MILF ex. Horny as all get out, loved doing it in public . She did tell me "im not into swapping". So at the party it started slow. Finally things started heating up and two girls were going at it as a crowd gathered around them. I tried to pull her in closer excited at this progress. She pulled back when she saw what was happening nd said lets go.
My interest in her vitiated in a nanosecond and I asked her to move out not too much after that epiphany that she was not the one.
Unfortunately, I would agree. It's been 4ish years of me making comments and she doesn't seem to be budging. Or I should say she hasn't budge off of "I'm not ready"
Xenon44 PM me, I'd love to hear what baby steps worked for you.
Xenon44 PM me, I'd love to hear what baby steps worked for you.
The other thing that keeps going through my mind (If you read my initial post) is she loves her ass played with and really wants a DP so I feel like my mountain to climb is a little smaller. But I can't get her past just wanting to use toys! UGH
I believe you are on the right track. Anything I’ve learned is it take time, sometimes a lot of time. Take a vacation and start with a pizza delivery guy date or hanging out at a hotel bar apart and see if she can break the ice that way.
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