agree with 702, for me no condom and the other man cumming in my wife is truely fucking her. If she said a condom or nothing I would have no problem with the condom. but for me its way hotter with noneIt seems you both want him to "cum in her pussy" so why not find a guy who is tested and has proof of current test? That way you can
forget about the condom and enjoy the experience, especially if it's' only going to be "one and done". If the first experience isn't great or 'goes sideways then it would be a shame to give up on it. Meetings don't always work out that well, but many are fantastic.