She admitted it.

[Ben&cherry]

Tonight was a bit of a turn from the wife.

We were messaging back and forth as I am at work. The talk turned about sharing her again with other men. I jokingly sent her a video off X app saying bet you would like to be that woman.

Well she didn't reply. About a hour later she sent me a message saying " You want to see me in the positions whilst watching and enjoying."
I sent back fuck yeah.
She followed with" me bent over being fucked by another bloke while you sit and wank."

I was shocked at what she wrote as she has never said anything like that.

Chat went on and I said I would like sloppy seconds and she said we'll may e 1 day you will.

I asked if she would enjoy it and she said maybe.

I asked if she was wet.

She said yes a bit. The thought of it turns her on.

Now the thought turns her on but actually doing it she said she is not ready and not comfortable being intimate with another person.

This is now where I am stumped. So she gets turned on with it but won't open up to trying it as she does not feel comfortable.

How or what can I say/do/suggest to her to make her feel comfortable and get past that point?

 

[Aznhubby]

Tonight was a bit of a turn from the wife.

We were messaging back and forth as I am at work. The talk turned about sharing her again with other men. I jokingly sent her a video off X app saying bet you would like to be that woman.

Well she didn't reply. About a hour later she sent me a message saying " You want to see me in the positions whilst watching and enjoying."
I sent back fuck yeah.
She followed with" me bent over being fucked by another bloke while you sit and wank."

I was shocked at what she wrote as she has never said anything like that.

Chat went on and I said I would like sloppy seconds and she said we'll may e 1 day you will.

I asked if she would enjoy it and she said maybe.

I asked if she was wet.

She said yes a bit. The thought of it turns her on.

Now the thought turns her on but actually doing it she said she is not ready and not comfortable being intimate with another person.

This is now where I am stumped. So she gets turned on with it but won't open up to trying it as she does not feel comfortable.

How or what can I say/do/suggest to her to make her feel comfortable and get past that point?

That is great that she can talk to you in a way she knows it turns you on 🙌

 

[Jon Day]

My wife is the same. She gets turned on by it but the next step is just too much. Shame. We live in Suffolk UK

 

[Aznhubby]

My wife is the same. She gets turned on by it but the next step is just too much. Shame. We live in Suffolk UK

Hopefully there will be a perfect time and place she will feel comfortable and confident enough to take that step 👍

 

[Jon Day]

Hopefully there will be a perfect time and place she will feel comfortable and confident enough to take that step 👍

I hope so. She knows just how much I want her to have other guys. I don't want to be there but would if she wanted. I just need her to be a slut for me and me to clean up when she comes home. Her best friend knows how much it means to me.

 

[Vincenzo]

Tonight was a bit of a turn from the wife.

We were messaging back and forth as I am at work. The talk turned about sharing her again with other men. I jokingly sent her a video off X app saying bet you would like to be that woman.

Well she didn't reply. About a hour later she sent me a message saying " You want to see me in the positions whilst watching and enjoying."
I sent back fuck yeah.
She followed with" me bent over being fucked by another bloke while you sit and wank."

I was shocked at what she wrote as she has never said anything like that.

Chat went on and I said I would like sloppy seconds and she said we'll may e 1 day you will.

I asked if she would enjoy it and she said maybe.

I asked if she was wet.

She said yes a bit. The thought of it turns her on.

Now the thought turns her on but actually doing it she said she is not ready and not comfortable being intimate with another person.

This is now where I am stumped. So she gets turned on with it but won't open up to trying it as she does not feel comfortable.

How or what can I say/do/suggest to her to make her feel comfortable and get past that point?

Maybe have a buddy over and when she leaves the room have him strip naked for when she comes back in

 

[naughtydaniella]

Tonight was a bit of a turn from the wife.

We were messaging back and forth as I am at work. The talk turned about sharing her again with other men. I jokingly sent her a video off X app saying bet you would like to be that woman.

Well she didn't reply. About a hour later she sent me a message saying " You want to see me in the positions whilst watching and enjoying."
I sent back fuck yeah.
She followed with" me bent over being fucked by another bloke while you sit and wank."

I was shocked at what she wrote as she has never said anything like that.

Chat went on and I said I would like sloppy seconds and she said we'll may e 1 day you will.

I asked if she would enjoy it and she said maybe.

I asked if she was wet.

She said yes a bit. The thought of it turns her on.

Now the thought turns her on but actually doing it she said she is not ready and not comfortable being intimate with another person.

This is now where I am stumped. So she gets turned on with it but won't open up to trying it as she does not feel comfortable.

How or what can I say/do/suggest to her to make her feel comfortable and get past that point?

Just back off now and be patient in letting her bring it up, or you will run the risk of making her feeling forced and changing her mind.
The seed has been planted now just let it grow.
All the best.

 

[dickhurtz]

Tonight was a bit of a turn from the wife.

We were messaging back and forth as I am at work. The talk turned about sharing her again with other men. I jokingly sent her a video off X app saying bet you would like to be that woman.

Well she didn't reply. About a hour later she sent me a message saying " You want to see me in the positions whilst watching and enjoying."
I sent back fuck yeah.
She followed with" me bent over being fucked by another bloke while you sit and wank."

I was shocked at what she wrote as she has never said anything like that.

Chat went on and I said I would like sloppy seconds and she said we'll may e 1 day you will.

I asked if she would enjoy it and she said maybe.

I asked if she was wet.

She said yes a bit. The thought of it turns her on.

Now the thought turns her on but actually doing it she said she is not ready and not comfortable being intimate with another person.

This is now where I am stumped. So she gets turned on with it but won't open up to trying it as she does not feel comfortable.

How or what can I say/do/suggest to her to make her feel comfortable and get past that point?

it could happen organically. one day she might someone who rings her bell, next think you know.....