Sex with others

[Spice]

This question is for either husband or wife, does your spouse have a regular he or she sees strictly for sex with no involvement or commitment whatsoever? Maybe in the past or still going on after marriage? Maybe you know about it and you're ok with it or you suspect but don't mind.

With my wife she once told me that before we met she used to have a guy she would see for just sex, she told her was a co-worker she knew from a previous employment, she said he was in his mid 40's and divorced, she told me she would go see him when she got time off and needed to fuck, I asked her when was the last time she saw him and she said she saw him the following week after our first date and a few times during while we were dating, being curious I asked her if she saw him after we got married and she just smiled and said she stopped seeing him after he got married.

 

[werekinky2]

My wife now will have a regular guy to fuck we recently met

 

[Dublinmale]

My wife then Girlfriend used to go out on a girls night every Friday night, if she hadn’t met anyone, she had a friend who would fuck her, they would spend the night at friends of ours. I didn’t know until a few years married she heard he had died in an accident and it came out then. Most of her friends were the same as her. This was 30+ years ago

 

[Ht805cpl]

We or she has both regular and random guys we play with or perhaps a better statement I share her with.

 

[italkedherintoit]

all of the partners I have had over the years have had regulars and occasionals and new meets. Now with Jo its usually just John.

 

[MOJO]

We or she has both regular and random guys we play with or perhaps a better statement I share her with.

Same with my wife.

 

[Ht805cpl]

Same with my wife.

The beat way I think!

 

[MOJO]

The beat way I think!

For sure.

 

[Ht805cpl]

For sure.

Like to chat message me, you sound like fun couple

 

[Catholic_Wife]

There two of her male friends that wife sees frequently or regularly as you said.

 

[andysmith]

random guys normally arranged by me is the best solution. Regulars is not a good idea

 

[werekinky2]

random guys normally arranged by me is the best solution. Regulars is not a good idea

Why do you feel regulars is not a good idea?

 

[Ht805cpl]

Why do you feel regulars is not a good idea?

Good question. We feel regular are the best

 

[Eerect]

My wife has a group of friends she goes out with and on short holidays, they generally just fuck with random guys they meet in bars,clubs etc..if she is on holiday she may fuck the same guys several times for the duration of her stay, she just uses them for sex, nothing else.

 

[mabelnfred]

This question is for either husband or wife, does your spouse have a regular he or she sees strictly for sex with no involvement or commitment whatsoever? Maybe in the past or still going on after marriage? Maybe you know about it and you're ok with it or you suspect but don't mind.

With my wife she once told me that before we met she used to have a guy she would see for just sex, she told her was a co-worker she knew from a previous employment, she said he was in his mid 40's and divorced, she told me she would go see him when she got time off and needed to fuck, I asked her when was the last time she saw him and she said she saw him the following week after our first date and a few times during while we were dating, being curious I asked her if she saw him after we got married and she just smiled and said she stopped seeing him after he got married.

During our dating time, she did have a couple of regulars, mostly ex-boyfriends or former seniors at work. She was very open in that sense and we both knew about her love/sex style. After we got married, she kind of stopped and I was pleased to have satisfied her, until now that I am already 58 and she's still just 38, I have difficulty catching up with her needs and so we started a new lifestyle early last year.

 

[Jerryteroga]

This question is for either husband or wife, does your spouse have a regular he or she sees strictly for sex with no involvement or commitment whatsoever? Maybe in the past or still going on after marriage? Maybe you know about it and you're ok with it or you suspect but don't mind.

With my wife she once told me that before we met she used to have a guy she would see for just sex, she told her was a co-worker she knew from a previous employment, she said he was in his mid 40's and divorced, she told me she would go see him when she got time off and needed to fuck, I asked her when was the last time she saw him and she said she saw him the following week after our first date and a few times during while we were dating, being curious I asked her if she saw him after we got married and she just smiled and said she stopped seeing him after he got married.

Yes my wife has had a sex only partner during our marriage that lasted for a little while. I knew every bit about it and it was fun and enjoyable for her and me.

 

[divaD]

random guys normally arranged by me is the best solution. Regulars is not a good idea

My wife is meeting a guy next week, we have agreed a discussion afterwards if he will be regular or move onto next on the list. With regular you have a fear of an attachment, but that could just be my mind.

 

[Elja1]

My wife meets with up to 4 guys for extra, not at same time , but when there schedules align. Strictly for sex with 3 of them, one she goes on dates and does things outside the bedroom, but still the main thing is sex

 

[Quarky]

My wife had a fuck buddy before we met.

We haven't been with anyone else since.

 

[italkedherintoit]

My wife had a fuck buddy before we met.

We haven't been with anyone else since.

Do you want her to find one now?