I like your perspective but statistically it’s not correct. There are plenty of people who work incredibly hard at something yet never achieve it because of physical or mental capacity reasons. Easy example is if everyone in the world trained harder than Usain Bolt, how many do you think could actually be faster? Start going over examples and it becomes clear it’s not just all hard work. I have met people that just don’t have the mental capacity or ability to go to Harvard and become a doctor. It’s just reality, life is not based on fairness. This is the reality, life is messy and people are all different in an unfair world.
There are going to be plenty of women who can’t get off or enjoy a 2, 4, 6 or 8” penis. It’s not necessarily about size, it’s about finding a person where you mutually “fit” (for lack of a better term)…now plenty of people don’t click in the sexual area but do in many other areas of life. That imo puts them at a higher prevalence for third party sexual encounters (condoned or not). If a spouse doesn’t meet their partner’s social activities desire, chances are they are going to go out and be more social without them. The issue here is that the second one is not considered wrong while the sex outside the marriage or partnership typically is…this is why I think it’s important to click with someone sexually but also get along on many other levels.
