Myself as reference At 8” and sober no issue 45 min in normal times. Add a public restroom or risky behavior and I can bust off in 15min. Other factor is the night of events, a wedding or night out with some alcohol in both of us solid hour is no problem. We have a few vacations that have experienced another couple in same room, swapped ladies a couple times and only once did the other guy keep up stamina with us. My wife wants the woman’s attributes to be appealing sexually, the men just have to be respectful. I’ve definitely been significantly larger than the other cock majority of times. 20 min is standard before its 2 woman sharing myself.
Do big cocks last longer?
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Wow you huge guys last incredibly longer than us... 🙄
CuriousCathy
Couple
My experence is yes, bigger lasts longer ! Maybe its the man's confidence ?
Yes, I think that is one of the key points. But according to the link at the beginning of the thread, there is a biological reason related with the nerves.
In my case I think I suffer both. Some months ago my GF slept with a hung guy and after that event, either I get flaccid in 2 minutes or I cum in the same time. And that's the confidence effect, because before that I could last 5 minutes pounding well.
Had a flashback! I came and kept an erection. And May is sore.
Why? You mean Caucasian and black ones complain?? And Asian wives don't?? I never read about this
Me neither... I had ver long sessions with different wifes. No matter which race was... Asian, caucasian, ebony... I think the duration of the sexual session depends more on three main reasons.
1. The capacity of the woman to lube by herself. And if she is not able, take a big bottle of lube at your side. It will be her best friend!!! With that you can fuck three hours with no pain at all.
2. The sensibility of the internal vagina of each lady. Each woman is different and has a different skin type. That's why the lube is so important. Lets think that if you are huge, the grip is huge as well... If you lube it properly, they only feel the pleasure and forget about the pain/irritation.
3. The experience of the lady taking big dicks. An experienced woman, can vary during sex in the was she takes your dick. Or at least, she is able to tell you how to penetrate in other way if she starts to feel pain.
And this morning she caught me jerking off after she turned me down. Good girl that she is, she took my cock from my hand and sucked it.
I never seen my wife with a bigger cock but if there any indication how she responds to her 8 inch thick dildo she wants bigger.
Do you still talk to your ex? Did she remarry and if so to a smaller dick guy? You would have to assume, statistically any guy after you would be smaller. She ever comment to you about new lovers?
Yes, exactly. This is what I understood from the studies that were attached in the first post.
There is a physiological reason, and that's related with the distribution of the nerves in the penis.
A 9 inches penis has exactly the same nerves as mine (4 inches), so in my case the concentration of nerves per surface is much higher. So that's why I cum faster.
A big dick needs to pump a lot to reach the climax.
theGherkin
Male
I am definitely in the short pencil category and once again you have ticked a box for me with your research. I have always had a problem with intercourse stamina but am generally able to last much much longer with any other type of sex play particularily masturbation. ( I have tried both the wank just before sex solution to better longevity and the slow grind as opposed to fast and furious with no particularily noticeable results in either my stamina nor their pleasure level)I have a theory heavily influenced by my predilection for size humiliation. I refer to the below article which arouses me more than any porn - a women's magazine effectively saying size counts while providing a big cock user guide for their readers.
6 things you only know if you have had sex with someone with a huge penis
From high-fiving to 'ouucchh', having sex with the well-endowed can be V complex.www.cosmopolitan.com
The main thing they emphasise is the requirement to take your time with a huge one ("gone are the days of quick poundings with your knickers still halfway down your legs"). Not only does going slow allow the receiver to adjust to the monolith going inside them it also ensures the sex lasts longer (obvs), which is pretty darn important given "likelihood or consistency of partnered orgasm is associated with penile-vaginal intercourse duration".^1
From my experience as a pencil dick it's literally seconds before I'm able to be fully inserted and can obviously move to full throttle (and thus ejaculation) much sooner than would a competently applied thick one. Thus, I am usually done in the 3-5 minutes it would take a woman to adjust to a big one (in my case this is exacerbated by intercourse for me usually being either the footnote to my wife getting off with her vibrator or her just getting it over with by tickling my balls).
A lot of the naysayers in the size counts debate are women who say they tried a big one and it was uncomfortable. I think these experiences though are the result of the well hung individual not taking their time. As per the article if a guy with a big cock has "played by the foreplay rules, then you're pretty much guaranteed to have totally amazing orgasms. With a penis that size it's impossible not to hit the spot."
Would love to hear from those with first hand experience whether this theory holds up in real life.
^1 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19170844/
My ex wife told me she actually had no problem with me cumming quick because it shortened the time she had to fake her enjoyment level. Considering she didnt always require a big dick to penetrate her for a long time before she had an orgasm longevity was not solely responsible for her disatisfaction. She also said she prefers the long a luxurious fuck with the bigger guys because she is pretty much guaranteed multiple orgs where as a more wham bam style could still get her off but usually not to the same heights.
If you read the attachment on the first post, there is a scientific explanation about this. The nerves distribution and concentration. Plus the quantity of blood accumulated inside.
In conclusion, and agreed with all of my wives. 95% of the times, a big dick last longer. But as always in life, there are exceptions 😉
Guys that are well endowed tend to ahve a lot more confidence when in bed (some TOO much confidence!!) while smaller endowed guys get a LOT less sex because they lack the confidence to ask for it. Many are Incels. Those guys are so over-excited that they are jsut GETTING some, that they generally last a couple minutes max and the overall expereince is a let down. Hell, I've had small endowed guys get SO excited they cum in their pants just from touching thru our clothing!!
Well endowed guys tend to last longer because the get more sex and its not such a SURPRISE when they finally get lucky and score, so they can take their time, make it good for u, and good for them too. Just my expereince.
J (the wife)
Well endowed guys tend to last longer because the get more sex and its not such a SURPRISE when they finally get lucky and score, so they can take their time, make it good for u, and good for them too. Just my expereince.
J (the wife)
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As has been said it's mostly confidence. Being confident makes you relaxed. If you're relaxed, your muscles aren't all tensed up, if you're not all tensed up, you last longer. But there's something to be said about being bigger, and having to slower to start. It kinda forces me to calm down and take it easy so that I don't hurt her. Her warm up time, getting used to me, is a good warm up time for me, too. It's like exercise and sports. If you properly stretch and warm up before a game or workout, then you tend to be able to play/workout more before you get gassed. The same seems to apply to sex in my experience.
Also! Bulls, generally, tend to be in really good physical shape. It's part of the confidence, but also stronger legs and pelvic floor muscles mean more stamina, too. I strained a pelvic floor muscle in an accident about 6 years ago, and it took years for me to get my stamina back from that. The muscles just didn't listen to me anymore. Lots of squats, kegels, and stretches over about a 2 year period before I had my stamina back, and it's still, even now, not completely 100%. Every once in a while the it just will not be controlled.
Also! Bulls, generally, tend to be in really good physical shape. It's part of the confidence, but also stronger legs and pelvic floor muscles mean more stamina, too. I strained a pelvic floor muscle in an accident about 6 years ago, and it took years for me to get my stamina back from that. The muscles just didn't listen to me anymore. Lots of squats, kegels, and stretches over about a 2 year period before I had my stamina back, and it's still, even now, not completely 100%. Every once in a while the it just will not be controlled.
Interesting perspective and it's borne out by my recent experience. I've definitely been getting less sex over the last 6 months and when it does happen I'm generally so anxious that I can't last more than 30 seconds once inserted. As you day a smaller cock is more likely to produce anxiety which in turn can lead to PE.