Man I can relate to that. Same situation my soft size never really increased and the kids in gym class were relentless in pointing out how small I was. Luckily I proudly own it now.I am 4" in length fully erect and a little over 4 " in girth.. My soft size is best described as babysized. I never got much bigger than I was in early high school and I was smaller than everyone in my phs ed ckasses.