Pregnancy risk

You said you are 10% ok with it. That isn't much. When I encouraged my wife to bareback with other guys and she wasn't on birth control I was 100% sure I wanted other men her to get pregnant and we had talked and agreed that we were both ok with it.

Your wife saying she "doesn't think he will ask" is definitely not proof that she won't let him. In fact, that is essentially avoiding giving a direct answer. The only reason she would do that is if she is ok with him going bare and she doesn't know how to say it without possibly upsetting you and ruining the entire thing.
 
Thank you all for your reply. The more we talk about it, the less I am convinced I want it and the more I am afraid she doesn’t care. She is not saying it directly but I have strong suspicions that she is not telling me the truth. I am the one in charge to select the bull (she doesn’t want to know anything about him and just want to be offered to him in the hotel room - blindfolded and both hands tied). She recently changed her mind and wants only white bulls (before she did not care) for her first time. She said it’s because she is afraid of bbc but she is pre-selecting only guys with the biggest cock (I shown her few local candidates penis). I think I will postpone the first time with another man, get her pregnant and then, she can do whatever she wants.
 
Thank you all for your reply. The more we talk about it, the less I am convinced I want it and the more I am afraid she doesn’t care. She is not saying it directly but I have strong suspicions that she is not telling me the truth. I am the one in charge to select the bull (she doesn’t want to know anything about him and just want to be offered to him in the hotel room - blindfolded and both hands tied). She recently changed her mind and wants only white bulls (before she did not care) for her first time. She said it’s because she is afraid of bbc but she is pre-selecting only guys with the biggest cock (I shown her few local candidates penis). I think I will postpone the first time with another man, get her pregnant and then, she can do whatever she wants.
We talked about it tonight. We planned to go for our first threesome next Thursday and I asked her to prepare messages for her future bull. She wrote on this one « you will have the right to cum on my belly ». I asked her why she wrote it and she answered me « he cannot cum inside, he will have to cum outside ». I told her « what about the condom » and she said « it’s just in case, we never know »
 

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You usually only hear about couples that are into the extreme taboo of having a baby from someone other than the husband. They are usually associated with the notion that the husband will stay at home and take care of the kids while the wife does whatever pleases her. If both parents aren't fully on board for the job of raising your own kid becomes difficult at best. Raising a ...... that's not your own will be a constant reminder for decades. You almost never hear about the everyday business of raising that ....... That's because that part isn't sexy. Being a responsible parent is hard work. It requires sacrifice. I know, I am a parent.

I can see how the "doing" of it would/could be a thrill, all that thinking about how you can't hide it if your white wife has a black baby. The opportunity to share with her girlfriends the truth about getting fucked by a black man and embracing her wildness. Those and other thrills will fade long before that ...... leaves home.

I get that this taboo/kink is not for everyone. I'm a retired classroom teacher and I saw lots and lots of messed up kids and many times after I met their parents I knew why. I knew many of those parents didn't take their job of raising their kid seriously. Great fantasy but not really practical in the long run.
 
Hi there,

My wife and I are willing to do our first threesome with a bull (I will be most of the time watching her). We have one ......, 1 year old, and we are thinking to have another ....... She stopped taking the pill so she is not under birth control anymore. I asked her if she is turned on by the idea that another man could get her pregnant (in my head there was 0 risk that it could be a turn on for her) and she said "don't worry, he will wear a condom". I added "but what if he wants to take it off while fucking you" and she said "I don't think he will ask for it, so you don't have to worry". I insisted "ok, but what if he wants to do it" and she answered "we'll see how it goes". Sorry for sharing this but I don't know how to handle this. Part of me is over scared that my wife it taking it this way, ok, like most of the guys, I fantasized about the idea of seeing her being fucked bareback... but now that she is not under birth control and seeing that she is not "100% this is not going to happen", I am having second thought about the idea to share her (until I get her pregnant).
Thank you for your opinion
I think that you are right to be scared, if she gets pregnant by chance/accident and you accept it for the thrill for now, who knows the future, relationships evolve, feelings change and it would be a very difficult conversation even if you suspect that any ...... is not yours, say there is a split a few years from now, what happens then.
 
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You usually only hear about couples that are into the extreme taboo of having a baby from someone other than the husband. They are usually associated with the notion that the husband will stay at home and take care of the kids while the wife does whatever pleases her. If both parents aren't fully on board for the job of raising your own kid becomes difficult at best. Raising a ...... that's not your own will be a constant reminder for decades. You almost never hear about the everyday business of raising that ....... That's because that part isn't sexy. Being a responsible parent is hard work. It requires sacrifice. I know, I am a parent.

I can see how the "doing" of it would/could be a thrill, all that thinking about how you can't hide it if your white wife has a black baby. The opportunity to share with her girlfriends the truth about getting fucked by a black man and embracing her wildness. Those and other thrills will fade long before that ...... leaves home.

I get that this taboo/kink is not for everyone. I'm a retired classroom teacher and I saw lots and lots of messed up kids and many times after I met their parents I knew why. I knew many of those parents didn't take their job of raising their kid seriously. Great fantasy but not really practical in the long run.
Well said and it is a really serious issue. The thrill will likely wear off soon and then what, if there is divorce down the track, then who pays for maintenance?
 
My wife and l dated for four years and the fantasy of sharing her or watching her fuck another man began soon after we began dating.
I took the job of trimming her pubic region early on. I would tell her how other men would give their left nut to see her finely trimmed bikini triangle, landing strip, racing stripe, or even heart-shaped mound. She soon grew confident enough to go without panties and l would make her aware of new fans she'd acquired.
Six weeks into our courtship we befriended a man with a video camera recorder at a nudist festival. He accepted our invitation to follow us back to our hotel to get some really good footage.
After cumming inside her the third time and my cock still within, l asked if she could show some mercy and appreciation for our cameraman? I assured her he would be forever grateful to her and us if he could ease his manhood in her and thrust in and out a few times to see how truly wonderful her pussy was. She deliberated a few minutes and agreed. I was delirious in lust and anticipation! The cameraman declined thrusting his cock in and out of my 6 week new girlfriend, then opted for some head from her.
Our fantasy talk only grew from then on. Fifteen months into our marriage l saw signs coming together that with some gentle nudging, might land us the extracurricular cock we fantasized about.
Nature took its course that night. A few minutes before l would hand her off to our lucky friend....."Birthcontrol" popped into my thoughts. She'd been off it ten months. As l was handing her off l whispered to our friend that if things progressed as they seemed they would....He would need to pull out at the appropriate time.
I left the room to afford them privacy. Twenty minutes later l peeked in to see my bride on top. Grinding down on him like there was not tomorrow. On her upstroke l could make out his scrotum, he was positively buried deep within. Even if he were inclined to honor my wishes, she was not about to let him up.
The next morning they both sheepishly admitted to inseminating her once. They were alone from 11pm to 6am. Both in their late twenties. Up to that time at least, she was the finest pussy our friend had ever had
I suspect three to four more inseminations. l added my own healthy load of seed. Then we made a pact. We dearly loved one another. We chose this lifestyle together. We would never have a DNA test performed. Regardless, any offsp;ring produced would positively be half hers. If the children enjoyed some proud uncles in their lives, all the better.
A month later l came home to a friend's truck in our drive. He lived some blocks away. I went to the rear of the house and looked thru the window to see my sexy bride sitting on the neighbor's lap. They were in a deep french kiss.
I feigned drunkenness as l entered the household. I gave them an incoherent wave and turned into our bedroom, collapsing on the bed. They both investigated me and agreed l was out for the count.
Fortuitously they did not shut the bedroom door completely. This allowed me a few minutes later to peer into the living room to see our friend standing, pants down around his ankles. I could not see my bride's face, but her curly, reddish brown locks were swaying in a defined rhythm.
My Bride eventually rose to her feet and led her guest into our guest bedroom. During the next two hours l heard the unmistakeable grunt of a man ejaculating into one tight pussy. I heard this four distinct times.
After adding my own healthy load of semen l asked if she'd got back on the birth control pills since our last foray?
Nope.

A few months after that we met a nice couple in a bar. They invited us to their house for a few more drinks. My wife and the male counterpart rose and left me and his beautiful girlfriend in the living room. I supposed he was giving g my wife a tour of their home. Specifically where the bathroom was........
On our ride home my wife told me she had let him inside her. I was immediately turned on. "Did he cum inside you?"
She wasn't sure. Then l think back on the first nite we met. I came in her twice that night.
Then l think,"If a man got his cock up in that sweet tight pussy....how could he NOT of cum?"
l ask if she'd resumed birth control pills.

Nope.


Our only protection was me adding voluminous loads of seed right afterward. All offspring display distinctive characteristics known of my family.
We were lucky for sure. ...Folks, it was so damn hot to be married to that woman.
 
I understand where you're coming from, but your wife is not being reckless. She has taken the responsibility to protect herself and any potential partners involved seriously. And that's awesome. In fact, it shows that she cares about the other person's health and well-being as much as she does her own. So I wouldn't stress too much about the potential risk of getting pregnant.

You two have a great and mature conversation about the topic. And you both seem very comfortable and confident with each other. This is exactly what every couple should strive for.So go ahead and enjoy the experience, because it sounds like you both are ready for it. Just remember to use protection and follow safe sex practices to ensure that no one gets hurt.

Good luck with your first threesome and welcome to the community!
Very well said
 
Hi there,

My wife and I are willing to do our first threesome with a bull (I will be most of the time watching her). We have one ......, 1 year old, and we are thinking to have another ....... She stopped taking the pill so she is not under birth control anymore. I asked her if she is turned on by the idea that another man could get her pregnant (in my head there was 0 risk that it could be a turn on for her) and she said "don't worry, he will wear a condom". I added "but what if he wants to take it off while fucking you" and she said "I don't think he will ask for it, so you don't have to worry". I insisted "ok, but what if he wants to do it" and she answered "we'll see how it goes". Sorry for sharing this but I don't know how to handle this. Part of me is over scared that my wife it taking it this way, ok, like most of the guys, I fantasized about the idea of seeing her being fucked bareback... but now that she is not under birth control and seeing that she is not "100% this is not going to happen", I am having second thought about the idea to share her (until I get her pregnant).
Thank you for your opinion
Hi Jennifer here. Congratulations on your wife wanting and willing to test the waters. Honestly, unless you know the man you are inviting into the bed EXTREMELY well, he should wear a condom the entire time. Pregnancy in one thing but the chances on contracting an STD are higher. And her having to be treated (nearly all states require the STD's be reported) and ending up on a database will ...... the desire to do it again rather quickly. I know their are a lot of things at play when swinging, but ultimately, if she wants them to wear a condom, then they need to -- regardless of how much they want to take it off. Sean and I have a very simple approach. The man we invite into the bed is our guest and as any good guest, he should play by the house rules.