Not sure why my Husband is pushing so hard for this...need someone else who can talk to him about why this is in his head so hard. He just tells me he thinks its hot.
Need someone who can talk to my Husband
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I have been in multiple sharing relationships as a couple and as a 3rd with other couples as well. I would be glad to answer any questions you have.
i promise ..you wont regret it ..i got hooked to watch my wife with other men the first time i ever saw her with one
Nas69
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myjuicywife
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Nas69
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myjuicywife
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@Nas69 , I don't follow your comment. Lynn asked if someone was available to talk to her husband because he's pushing something on her. I asked whether she was opposed to the idea, perhaps to get her angle / perspective / receptiveness to the topic.
Lynn2000:
Two questions: First, has anyone taken up your request and actually broached this with your husband?
And second, would YOU consider writing someone on this?
I ask the later question because by the time he works up the nerve to raise this with you, I suspect that he has saturated his mind with cuckold blogs, cuckold images and cuckold stories. He may have followed these things for months or even years. It now controls his response.
He is way past enjoying a taste of the cuckold lifestyle. Once he admits his yearning to himself, once he pushes through his angst to embrace the pleasure the idea gives him, once he learns that OTHER men's interest in you so totally arouses and enthralls him that any resistance TO your involvement is CRUSHED -- he is at that point completely helpless to stop. Once that point is reached -- that's it. This scenario now defines his imaginative, psycho-sexual response. Even if he sometimes agonizes over the implications of it, he will never stop wanting to convince you to cuckold him. Nor will he ever understand why ANY woman would resist such an arrangement. There is really very little you or anyone else can do to save him.
Even if he never mentions it again, it will be there. Even if you never see it, it will be eating, goading, tempting him. Always. He's HOOKED. Straight vanilla sex with you will NEVER fill the void. He may enjoy 'one on one' intimacy, but he will NEVER again be fully satisfied with that alone. Never. He may repress these desires for months or even years. But it is always there -- just waiting for circumstances or an opportunity to 'trigger' that disposition. Eventually, something will set it off. He'll fall off the wagon, and his cuckold tendency will reignite a whirlwind of cuckold desire. In a solitary instant, he will succumb to his latent cuckold fetish! He will return to all his favorite cuckold blogs. Because there is absolutely no better sexual high for him, he simply cannot b e convinced that there could be any better sex for you on the planet. His desire for you to spend yourself in long, slow, pumping, juicing, throbbing orgasms on a very well-endowed man will burn in him with sacred vengeance! He will be completely convinced of the utter beauty, rightness and goodness of it.
Whether this makes sense to you is irrelevant. What matters is that it makes TOTAL sense to your hubby. That IS his reality. So the only question is this:
What will be your response? Basically, you have three options regarding your husband's cuckold lifestyle issues:
1. You can resist it.
2. You can ignore it.
3. You can accept it.
It's easy to rule out option 3 initially and say "but I'd never do that!' But each option has consequences.
Options 1 and 2:
Offer NO WAY to move past this relational roadblock.
BLOCK communication between you and your husband.
Guarantee FRUSTRATION and RESENTMENT for you both.
It's easy to rule out option 3 initially and say "but I'd never do that!'
But refusing option 3 retreats back to 1 and 2.
And 1 and 2 are not 'resolutions' at all.
That's where option 3 becomes VERY compelling.
Why?
Because his cuckold desire isn't going to quit or leave. Not ever! That's the rub. That's the strength of option 3. Only option 3 pushes through this issue to move toward marital maturation. That is the only option with a difference. Since his cuckold desire ISN'T going to change, you can stay stuck on 1 or 2 permanently, OR you can move on to 3. The choice is yours.
So -- maybe you need to write someone yourself. Just a thought.
Take care and keep safe!
Two questions: First, has anyone taken up your request and actually broached this with your husband?
And second, would YOU consider writing someone on this?
I ask the later question because by the time he works up the nerve to raise this with you, I suspect that he has saturated his mind with cuckold blogs, cuckold images and cuckold stories. He may have followed these things for months or even years. It now controls his response.
He is way past enjoying a taste of the cuckold lifestyle. Once he admits his yearning to himself, once he pushes through his angst to embrace the pleasure the idea gives him, once he learns that OTHER men's interest in you so totally arouses and enthralls him that any resistance TO your involvement is CRUSHED -- he is at that point completely helpless to stop. Once that point is reached -- that's it. This scenario now defines his imaginative, psycho-sexual response. Even if he sometimes agonizes over the implications of it, he will never stop wanting to convince you to cuckold him. Nor will he ever understand why ANY woman would resist such an arrangement. There is really very little you or anyone else can do to save him.
Even if he never mentions it again, it will be there. Even if you never see it, it will be eating, goading, tempting him. Always. He's HOOKED. Straight vanilla sex with you will NEVER fill the void. He may enjoy 'one on one' intimacy, but he will NEVER again be fully satisfied with that alone. Never. He may repress these desires for months or even years. But it is always there -- just waiting for circumstances or an opportunity to 'trigger' that disposition. Eventually, something will set it off. He'll fall off the wagon, and his cuckold tendency will reignite a whirlwind of cuckold desire. In a solitary instant, he will succumb to his latent cuckold fetish! He will return to all his favorite cuckold blogs. Because there is absolutely no better sexual high for him, he simply cannot b e convinced that there could be any better sex for you on the planet. His desire for you to spend yourself in long, slow, pumping, juicing, throbbing orgasms on a very well-endowed man will burn in him with sacred vengeance! He will be completely convinced of the utter beauty, rightness and goodness of it.
Whether this makes sense to you is irrelevant. What matters is that it makes TOTAL sense to your hubby. That IS his reality. So the only question is this:
What will be your response? Basically, you have three options regarding your husband's cuckold lifestyle issues:
1. You can resist it.
2. You can ignore it.
3. You can accept it.
It's easy to rule out option 3 initially and say "but I'd never do that!' But each option has consequences.
Options 1 and 2:
Offer NO WAY to move past this relational roadblock.
BLOCK communication between you and your husband.
Guarantee FRUSTRATION and RESENTMENT for you both.
It's easy to rule out option 3 initially and say "but I'd never do that!'
But refusing option 3 retreats back to 1 and 2.
And 1 and 2 are not 'resolutions' at all.
That's where option 3 becomes VERY compelling.
Why?
Because his cuckold desire isn't going to quit or leave. Not ever! That's the rub. That's the strength of option 3. Only option 3 pushes through this issue to move toward marital maturation. That is the only option with a difference. Since his cuckold desire ISN'T going to change, you can stay stuck on 1 or 2 permanently, OR you can move on to 3. The choice is yours.
So -- maybe you need to write someone yourself. Just a thought.
Take care and keep safe!
Nas69
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I can talk to him if he agrees to have threesome with you so we can take turns on ur holes
If you leave him at some point you are any way going to have sex with another man. Isn't it?
You are missing out on the best sexual encounters of your life. You look so sexy any cuckold husband would love to see you having sex of lifetime.
Cuckold is technically when a man gets aroused by watching his partner engaged in erotic acts . I can't really understand how they like that but I would like to meet a hotwife let him watch and video .
The couple could have a threesome, husband watches, or just let the wife video. Communication is important because the couple needs to be in agreement to be satisfied.
HotAsianwife
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Why not give it a try instead of trying to psychologically dissecting it. Are you a wife or a psychologist?. If you can’t bring yourself to try it to make your husband happy…….refuse. That simple. But don’t blame anyone but yourself if the marriage goes stale. It’s your fault for not having an open mind. Think about your husband and his needs.
I know you want someone to talk with him. But….
I suspect most of us guys would say we understand his point of view.
What is motivating his desire? You! He wants to see the greatest object of his desire being pleasured by another man. It validates his choice in partner. It also gives him the voyeur’s point of view - a very personalized live porn show.
So, what’s in it for you?
I'm sure he is being honest but maybe not going being specific. You could try asking what he means by hot .
I have 9 inches and love eating pussy if I can be of service for you. My main goal is pleasuring my lover 😉
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Not sure about this post. It is inconsistent with previous posts where she asks how to find out if hubby has any cuckold thoughts, as in her opinion he was small in cock size. Looked there as if she was the one wanting to get hubby interested.
