Sending sexy pics of your wife to vanilla guys is a BAD idea. Even worse would be "X rated, porn type pics". In the lifestyle we are accustomed to such things, but "normal" people often consider this a very creepy and odd behavior. It could also send them running away from the situation. That goes double for "cheesy" sexual innuendo along with pics of your wife. Honestly, she's quite sexy and would have absolutely NO PROBLEM making this happen on her own, if she so desired. Invite the guy over for a drink or coffee or something, but leave anything sexual out of it. Those things happen easy enough when all are comfortable. Also, and this is likewise even in the lifestyle, husbands pushing their wives onto other guys is just considered "odd" and often disrespectful. There are many wives who participate in the LS just to make their husbands happy. This situation is obvious and disturbing when we come across it. We would leave this alone and let normalcy and nature take it's course...this whole thing smacks of desperation..plus...if he's really uncomfortable and perhaps isn't really attracted to her sexually, or thinks you "want something" from him, you could lose your parking space...lol