My wife has asked for an open affair

[samsar]

No

Lol, I just mean are you crazy to walk into this blind, no offence ment but you are handing your wife over to this guy ,
I'm sorry but I could never do what you are suggesting letting your wife have a night with a guy or you playing together with another couple or going out picking up a guy for sex yes,but handing her over to another guy completely sorry but no not for me,
Look that's just me you know your wife and your situation better than I do I would just erge caution that's all,👍

 

[samsar]

No

Sorry man that was ment for zippycup,I didn't mean you were crazy, lol 👍

 

[cuck52]

Sorry man that was ment for zippycup,I didn't mean you were crazy, lol 👍

Nothing turns me on more than for the guy she's fucking to ask me how does it make you feel to know I'm fucking your wife and there is nothing you can do about it?

 

[samsar]

Nothing turns me on more than for the guy she's fucking to ask me how does it make you feel to know I'm fucking your wife and there is nothing you can do about it?

It takes all kinds of people, and I can't say what is right and what isn't for others all I know is how I feel,
You see I have no problem with my wife fucking others but it's the, I'm fucking your wife and there is nothing you can do about it,
That is were I differ if a guy was to tell me that I would have a big problem with him,
To me that's being disrespectful to me and my wife because if I have no say in it neither does she,
He is going to fuck her no matter what we think that's the way it comes across to me,
I know that is what some guys want and I'm ok with that,👍

 

[cuck52]

It takes all kinds of people, and I can't say what is right and what isn't for others all I know is how I feel,
You see I have no problem with my wife fucking others but it's the, I'm fucking your wife and there is nothing you can do about it,
That is were I differ if a guy was to tell me that I would have a big problem with him,
To me that's being disrespectful to me and my wife because if I have no say in it neither does she,
He is going to fuck her no matter what we think that's the way it comes across to me,
I know that is what some guys want and I'm ok with that,👍

It's he's going to fuck her because that's what she wants and needs and there is nothing I can do to stop her..

 

[samsar]

It's he's going to fuck her because that's what she wants and needs and there is nothing I can do to stop her..

Maybe not,👍

 

[cuck52]

It takes all kinds of people, and I can't say what is right and what isn't for others all I know is how I feel,
You see I have no problem with my wife fucking others but it's the, I'm fucking your wife and there is nothing you can do about it,
That is were I differ if a guy was to tell me that I would have a big problem with him,
To me that's being disrespectful to me and my wife because if I have no say in it neither does she,
He is going to fuck her no matter what we think that's the way it comes across to me,
I know that is what some guys want and I'm ok with that,👍

It's he's going to fuck her because that's what she wants and needs and there is nothing I can do to stop her

Maybe not,👍

On the first date with my wife she told me she needed a boyfriend that would be faithful to her while she fucked whomever she wanted. If I wanted her I would deal with it. I got a hard on and she laughed at me. I asked her to forse me to take it from her. If that's what she needed..She wanted me to be turned on but also very jealous and insecure..

 

[keylife022]

Go for it. Even better she shouldn't give you any choice

Cuck52
Can I borrow your wife?

 

[keylife022]

My Hotwife and her boyfriend are currently in this type of “open affair” relationship.
They say that they love each other, He visits for week or more in our home where they ...... together in the master bedroom while I travel for work or stay in the guest room. They go out as a couple and speak on the phone daily. Its a polyamorous relationship.
Im happy that she has Great Sex with him and shares everything with me. So Im more than good with it. I hope he takes her to a lifestyle resort for vacation in the future.

That’s the ideal relationship.

 

[cuck4life]

I have been a cuckold for most of my adult life. We have agreed that as long as I do not feel our marriage is being threatened she can do as she pleases. If she is seeing a guy and their relationship gets to a point where they consider it to be an affair I would ask her to stop seeing the gentleman.

 

[samsar]

I have been a cuckold for most of my adult life. We have agreed that as long as I do not feel our marriage is being threatened she can do as she pleases. If she is seeing a guy and their relationship gets to a point where they consider it to be an affair I would ask her to stop seeing the gentleman.

But if she develops feelings for a guy would she stop seeing her affair partner if you ask ?

 

[Radaco]

My wife wants to have an open affair with her boyfriend.

I'm not entirely sure if I want to so, I'm looking for advice from people who have been in a similar situation.

If I say no say no Then we simply continue with our lifestyle. I'd just like to add that there is little chance that my wife would ever pick him over me.

If I say yes; They become a couple in all but name. I Will still know everything that's happening.
They start a relationship. Which means.
Weekends away
No protection sex (he will be tested)
Nights in our house with me in the spare room (after they go on a date.etc)
Invite to parties (affair will.be kept hidden from others)
Christmas in our home.
A non sexual and sexual relationship (Movie nights. Casual nights in)
They can both say they love each other
Swap gifts.
Etc

Thoughts?

This sounds like a big change all at once and it doesn't need to be and IMO shouldn't be. It's like two single people going from casual dating to moving in together in a single step. My advice is exactly the same I'd give to a good friend or my kids in a few years - take it slowly. Start off with maybe unprotected sex and movie nights. Work up to the other stuff naturally. You all need time to grow comfortable with the idea. I'd be a little concerned with giving up your bed. That's a sacred place for you and your wife and where she "comes back to you".

Best of luck and admirable for considering this.

 

[cuck4life]

But if she develops feelings for a guy would she stop seeing her affair partner if you ask ?

I actually think that if she started to feel she’s getting emotionally attached she would stop.

 

[samsar]

I

I actually think that if she started to feel she’s getting emotionally attached she would stop.

I certainly hope so 👍its a risk you have to take,

 

[cuck52]

She has the right. Give it to her. My wife has never been faithful to me and I have always been faithful to her. I have no interest in a woman that doesn't cheat on me.

 

[dinoo-2]

But if she develops feelings for a guy would she stop seeing her affair partner if you ask ?

No I wouldn't ask her.
We have only one rule: if our marriage would suffer from it, she should stop her affair.
We trust on this rule because our bond is one of trust and honesty. Since before we were married. It works very well.

 

[samsar]

it is about pleasing her

It's about giving her away that's what it is about. 👍