This is the kind of Hotwife I have been looking for.
My wife has asked for an open affair
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You say that there is little chance of her picking him over you? I'm sorry to say and I dearly hope I'm wrong but I think she has made her choice and she is choosing him over you, I know that may not be what you want to hear but you asked for opinions,again I hope I am wrong and its your life but please be careful, 👍
Great assumption on our personal situation that you know absolutely nothing about.
I can guarantee with absolute certainty that she won't choose him. Neither.of us would risk our relationship
Zippycup,I ment no offence you asked for opinions and I give you mine, I truly wish you and your wife all the best and I hope it all works out for you,
It just that sometimes things don't always go to plan and all I'm saying is be careful, that's all ,👍
It just that sometimes things don't always go to plan and all I'm saying is be careful, that's all ,👍
No. She was asking.
If I said no we would.have continued down the path we were on.
The difference is now they can share intimate moments. She now calls him her boyfriend instead of her fuck buddy, they now spend the night instead of a few hours
This is certainly true. Are you sure she has told you all of the things she wants, and ALL of her plans?
Things change. However. We are very open. No secrets and nothing is off the table when discussing options
How do you feel about it? Him ...... with your wife in your bed?
How did your wife feel about it?
Was she happy with you for giving her this little break from being a ...... and wife?
Did you have reclaim sex with her?
How do you feel about it? Him ...... with your wife in your bed?
It was like reliving the first team she ever cucked me. I was nervous, excited, doubtful, jealous, extremely turned on.
She's slept with him before in our bed, but he's never spent the night. That was the difference. Knowing she's waking up beside a different man for the first time in 20 odd years.
How did your wife feel about it?
She was really excited but tried to hide it (for me more than anything) I told her to enjoy it and she doesn't have to hide her feelings towards him or the night ahead.
Was she happy with you for giving her this little break from being a ...... and wife?
Very. I think that's the main reason we've gone down this route. She can have the excitement of feeling young again. Having great sex and letting herself go and being a woman (not a mum or wife) for a short time.
She's a fantastic wife and an even better mum. She deserves this.
Did you have reclaim sex with her?
Always. We fuck first after and that's when I hear all about it. That's the kinky .......
Them we make love. For me that's the reclaim
Thats terrific! When my hotwife goes away on a date we call it her “Dick Vacation”. or Dick Holiday.
A time for her to just be a slut. A time to forget about kids, hubby, and any and all everyday stress and worry.
Have you ever hear the term “Limerence”
I think many Hotwives and FWB’s experience this emotion:the state of being obsessively infatuated with someone, usually accompanied by delusions of or a desire for an intense romantic relationship with that person:
Thats part of my wife's pleasure as a Hotwife. She enjoys experiencing that “ New Relationship Energy” Lust-Passion-Sexual energy, Limerence with a FWB.
Understand that this comes from a situation where there was absolutely NO chance their affair could ever be nore than an affair, the company would not have survived them becoming a couple so I KNEW that was not on the table......
But J's affair with her Boss/Lover lasted 11 years. It only ended because of Covid and he got REALLY weird during it. But they WERE a couple when they were together. They traveled extensively for work during this time together, and acted very much like husband and wife if it was just the two of them. He preferred suites at hotels, and one time they only had the "Bridal Suite" available, so he booked it without telling her. When they arrived, everyone was calling her Mrs. Lovers last name, and offering congratualations, and she was LOVING it!! They got all kinds of freebies and gifts, etc. While they were out walking around Checy CHase, he suddenly guided her in to a small jewelry store and bought her a small diamond ring to wear on their "honeymoom"!! Which she did for the rest of the trip (which they extended from a weekend to the rest of the following week). And she continued to wear "their ring" when they traveled together, and wore it aroudn her neck on a chain when they were at home (still does even tho the relationship has ended).
It was during this trip also that they made the decision to completely STOP any pretense of birth control (she has a diaphragm which she used during her most fertile times) but was not using the rest of the time and just let nature happen. So this was a very serious relationship and I loved it.........but again, KNOWING it could never be "more".
And he was never aware I knew about their affair, he would NOT have been comfortable with that. It actually was ongoing for 2 years before I knew (as in she told me, I suspected prior to being told) and the only reason she told me was because she wanted the relationship to transition from "just when they travel" to a full time anytime including when at home relationship. And they made good use of "working late" regularly at his Lake Home which was only a few miles down the street from our home.
Could write a couple more pages of other aspects of this relationship, but the point is this situation can be EXTREMELY exciting and rewarding too if handled properly AND there is no possibility of the emotions carrying over to them deciding they would be better together permanently. That risk is always there, and it tends to add to the sexcitement of the lifestyle. Emotion takes this to a whole new level as does allowing them to act together as a couple without you present.
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But J's affair with her Boss/Lover lasted 11 years. It only ended because of Covid and he got REALLY weird during it. But they WERE a couple when they were together. They traveled extensively for work during this time together, and acted very much like husband and wife if it was just the two of them. He preferred suites at hotels, and one time they only had the "Bridal Suite" available, so he booked it without telling her. When they arrived, everyone was calling her Mrs. Lovers last name, and offering congratualations, and she was LOVING it!! They got all kinds of freebies and gifts, etc. While they were out walking around Checy CHase, he suddenly guided her in to a small jewelry store and bought her a small diamond ring to wear on their "honeymoom"!! Which she did for the rest of the trip (which they extended from a weekend to the rest of the following week). And she continued to wear "their ring" when they traveled together, and wore it aroudn her neck on a chain when they were at home (still does even tho the relationship has ended).
It was during this trip also that they made the decision to completely STOP any pretense of birth control (she has a diaphragm which she used during her most fertile times) but was not using the rest of the time and just let nature happen. So this was a very serious relationship and I loved it.........but again, KNOWING it could never be "more".
And he was never aware I knew about their affair, he would NOT have been comfortable with that. It actually was ongoing for 2 years before I knew (as in she told me, I suspected prior to being told) and the only reason she told me was because she wanted the relationship to transition from "just when they travel" to a full time anytime including when at home relationship. And they made good use of "working late" regularly at his Lake Home which was only a few miles down the street from our home.
Could write a couple more pages of other aspects of this relationship, but the point is this situation can be EXTREMELY exciting and rewarding too if handled properly AND there is no possibility of the emotions carrying over to them deciding they would be better together permanently. That risk is always there, and it tends to add to the sexcitement of the lifestyle. Emotion takes this to a whole new level as does allowing them to act together as a couple without you present.
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