My secret affairs.

So I have full permission to ...... with whoever I want, this also being able to have affairs. I always tell my husband after the affair has ended, normally they last a few months, the longest being about nine months. They usually end when they either find out Im never going to leave my husband, or that even though he doesn’t know I’m having an affair it’s perfectly ok in my relationship with my husband. I even had one guy say if I didn’t leave my husband he was going to tell him that we had been seeing each other. I joking said, go ahead! That ended that relationship!!!
But I must admit I love having secret affairs, I love the fact that it’s a hot secret! I love the sneaking around, the quick hot passionate sex. The knowing little smiles when other people are around.
Is it just me or do other people feel the same?

Bee x
 
So I have full permission to ...... with whoever I want, this also being able to have affairs. I always tell my husband after the affair has ended, normally they last a few months, the longest being about nine months. They usually end when they either find out Im never going to leave my husband, or that even though he doesn’t know I’m having an affair it’s perfectly ok in my relationship with my husband. I even had one guy say if I didn’t leave my husband he was going to tell him that we had been seeing each other. I joking said, go ahead! That ended that relationship!!!
But I must admit I love having secret affairs, I love the fact that it’s a hot secret! I love the sneaking around, the quick hot passionate sex. The knowing little smiles when other people are around.
Is it just me or do other people feel the same?

Bee x
Very hot
 
So I have full permission to ...... with whoever I want, this also being able to have affairs. I always tell my husband after the affair has ended, normally they last a few months, the longest being about nine months. They usually end when they either find out Im never going to leave my husband, or that even though he doesn’t know I’m having an affair it’s perfectly ok in my relationship with my husband. I even had one guy say if I didn’t leave my husband he was going to tell him that we had been seeing each other. I joking said, go ahead! That ended that relationship!!!
But I must admit I love having secret affairs, I love the fact that it’s a hot secret! I love the sneaking around, the quick hot passionate sex. The knowing little smiles when other people are around.
Is it just me or do other people feel the same?

Bee x
Not at all Bee, I have been a serial adulterer since the third month of our marriage.

It's intoxicating and very addictive.
 
My wife hasnt cheated (technically) but we have been sharing her with one of her ex boyfriends for a few years. It’s definitely exciting when she goes to see him alone without me knowing in advance.
My wife has had several affairs and one nighters with randoms from her clubbing days with her slutty friends, but would never admit to any of them.

I have irrefutable proof and just the knowing is enough for me in fact it's a bigger thrill for me that she continues to deny it,nothing turns me on more than thinking of her in those days.
 
So I have full permission to ...... with whoever I want, this also being able to have affairs. I always tell my husband after the affair has ended, normally they last a few months, the longest being about nine months. They usually end when they either find out Im never going to leave my husband, or that even though he doesn’t know I’m having an affair it’s perfectly ok in my relationship with my husband. I even had one guy say if I didn’t leave my husband he was going to tell him that we had been seeing each other. I joking said, go ahead! That ended that relationship!!!
But I must admit I love having secret affairs, I love the fact that it’s a hot secret! I love the sneaking around, the quick hot passionate sex. The knowing little smiles when other people are around.
Is it just me or do other people feel the same?

Bee x
My wife says she always gets an erotic rush fucking when I don't know about them. She usually tells me later but the secret fucking really turns her on. And me.
 
Even though my wife and I both agreed before getting married that we would probably fuck other people, and we've both have always been upfront with each other about people we've fucked there's been a few affairs I've had that I've kept secret from my wife,

One affair was because it involved her best friend, that was something my strictly didn't want to happen, another affair involved a young co-worker we both knew, my wife never really explained why she didn't want me to fuck her just that she didn't like her and she like the way she acted,

There's been other affairs I've had that I didn't tell my wife about because they were just short runs and nothing really exciting, I don't really know if she's had any affairs that she's never told me about and I'm not gonna push or go looking,

I completely understand the excitement of having an affair with someone that married though, I've had a few of those before I was married.
 
Not at all Bee, I have been a serial adulterer since the third month of our marriage.

It's intoxicating and very addictive.
Yes you’re right intoxicating and addictive is right! It’s something I’ve always done in every relationships. Ever since I was about 18 I’ve always enjoyed sex with different guys, or multiple guys. I’m just so happy that I’m in a relationship that not only supports my sexual desires but also is so supportive and loving!
 
So I have full permission to ...... with whoever I want, this also being able to have affairs. I always tell my husband after the affair has ended, normally they last a few months, the longest being about nine months. They usually end when they either find out Im never going to leave my husband, or that even though he doesn’t know I’m having an affair it’s perfectly ok in my relationship with my husband. I even had one guy say if I didn’t leave my husband he was going to tell him that we had been seeing each other. I joking said, go ahead! That ended that relationship!!!
But I must admit I love having secret affairs, I love the fact that it’s a hot secret! I love the sneaking around, the quick hot passionate sex. The knowing little smiles when other people are around.
Is it just me or do other people feel the same?

Bee x
No Bee, it’s not just you!
My first wife was a cheat. She’d have affairs and one off encounters without my knowledge. I’d get very excited when I found out, and the sex we’d have was amazing. She knew that and knew that I’d always forgive her. I’m sure that there were many more that I sadly never found out about.
Lynn my current wife of many years, is free to fuck whoever she wants. I’d be very open to her having a secret affair or affairs but she’s not interested. She cheated on her first husband throughout their marriage and says the thing she values is being able to have her freedom in an open and honest relationship. I’m very happy with that and being able to share in her slutty adventures but I must admit a part of me misses the cheating.
James
 
No Bee, it’s not just you!
My first wife was a cheat. She’d have affairs and one off encounters without my knowledge. I’d get very excited when I found out, and the sex we’d have was amazing. She knew that and knew that I’d always forgive her. I’m sure that there were many more that I sadly never found out about.
Lynn my current wife of many years, is free to fuck whoever she wants. I’d be very open to her having a secret affair or affairs but she’s not interested. She cheated on her first husband throughout their marriage and says the thing she values is being able to have her freedom in an open and honest relationship. I’m very happy with that and being able to share in her slutty adventures but I must admit a part of me misses the cheating.
James
Matt loves hearing about my affairs once they are over, I would never lie to him and if he asked me point blank ‘are you ...... with …….’ I would tell him. I love the freedom to have an affair, the trust Matt has in me is so empowering. I would never do anything to hurt him, but he knows I’m very capable of loving more than one person at a time, and when I have an affair it’s because I have feelings for that person.
The strangest affair I’ve ever had was with a woman, I would say I’m bi-situational and never had any desires to be with another woman unless it was part of two couples playing together and the very occasional ffm. But had an incredibly intense affair with Anna who was a friend of a friend. We had a drunken kiss on a hen night, we were sharing a room after the kiss I couldn’t take my eyes off of her while she undressed for bed. My pussy was soaking and I couldn’t help playing with my clit. She noticed and made me blush and stop when she asked me what I was doing.
She got in bed next to me and I had my first just girl on girl sex. Must admit I was totally smitten by her!
 
So I have full permission to ...... with whoever I want, this also being able to have affairs. I always tell my husband after the affair has ended, normally they last a few months, the longest being about nine months. They usually end when they either find out Im never going to leave my husband, or that even though he doesn’t know I’m having an affair it’s perfectly ok in my relationship with my husband. I even had one guy say if I didn’t leave my husband he was going to tell him that we had been seeing each other. I joking said, go ahead! That ended that relationship!!!
But I must admit I love having secret affairs, I love the fact that it’s a hot secret! I love the sneaking around, the quick hot passionate sex. The knowing little smiles when other people are around.
Is it just me or do other people feel the same?

Bee x
My wife also has permission, though so far she's only taken baby steps (all of which I love). She also knows I would love her to "cheat" on me behind my back, see men without telling me, but then (if she wishes) telling me sometime down the road, a month, a year, whatever. I'm surprised that the idea turns me on so much.
 
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My wife also has permission, though so far she's only taken baby steps (all of which I love). She also knows I would love her to "cheat" on me behind my back, see men without telling me, but then (if she wishes) telling me sometime down the road, a month, a year, whatever. I'm surprised that the idea turns me on so much.
I honestly couldn’t believe Matt when we first talked about it, I know he loves to watch me get fucked and also if he knows I’m going out on a date he’s like an excited little puppy 😂
But I didn’t know what he was getting out of me having an affair, but it’s about him not holding me back and supporting my desires. I do love it, and he knows that. Also he said something to me that I will never forget, he simply said, it doesn’t always have to about what he gets out of it, if it fulfills me sexually, emotionally or something else then then he would be happy!
 
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I honestly couldn’t believe Matt when we first talked about it, I know he loves to watch me get fucked and also if he knows I’m going out on a date he’s like an excited little puppy 😂
But I didn’t know what he was getting out of me having an affair, but it’s about him not holding me back and supporting my desires. I do love it, and he knows that. Also he said something to me that I will never forget, he simply said, it doesn’t always have to about what he gets out of it, if it fulfills me sexually, emotionally or something else then then he would be happy!
Would you hear more about your affair, and I envy Matt