My wife loves to tease me with dirty talk about her taking other men. Lately she tells me about one guy she found attractive recently and tells me she would have let him smash and fill her up with cum. She knows that kind of thing drives me wild. Then when I talk about going online and finding a potential guy together and taking our time with it, she scoffs at the idea and says "no, I'm not doing that." She loves to say it in bed but doesn't have the will to try I guess. I don't know whether to keep trying to gently convince her or if I should just accept the fantasy as fantasy and forget about the possibility of making it a reality.