So long sorry short my boys of a decade has brought up watching me get fucked by another man. He's very confusing because he's never said anything remotely like that before. He also seems super into it sometimes but others not so much. How do I know if he is serious? And how do I convince him to make it reality?
I want to convince him
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Honestly talk to him. Listen to what he says and explain how you feel. Easier said than done I know.
Definitely easier said than done. I'm Afraid to ruin everything.
Only mention it when he is already super sexually aroused and only mention it as a fantasy topic. You might point out that today, with everyone owning a smartphone, young women can not only tell their boyfriends and or husbands about their previous lovers, but show videos of the events. Ask if your husband would like to such videos of your previous encounters with other men. If he seems to like the idea, tell him that if you ever suck another man's cock again, you will be sure to capture the event on your phone for your husband's benefit. Act as if you are joking. Next time, breakout you phone and hunt down a blowjob video on pornhub and tell your husband that you want him to pretend that it you in the video, while you suck his cock.
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Dude, she's asked a serious question. Give her a thoughtful answer
As has been said, open conversation is key. I suggest telling him you aren't opposed but you are worried about..... Then set some ground rules and dip your toes in. Baby steps. Maybe flashing a stranger. Or going out and just flirting.
My personal advice is never friends. It's a rare friend who can be a third and not ruin a friendship.
My personal advice is never friends. It's a rare friend who can be a third and not ruin a friendship.
What a luck guy that you are willing to fuck another man, I wish you were my girl,
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You need to be sure he wants to experience you befing fucked by another man. We were the other way: I wanted her to have sex with me and another man and it took a year and half to convince her to try it.
He must likely is serious. He doesn't know if you are. Take an active role in bringing it up. Start dressing more provocatively at home and when you go out. Get details in what he's wanting to do. Go from there
Just be open with him when he is super sexual charged and brings it up, go with it and ask him how he specifically wants it to go down/happen. Then when the moment is over casually bring the subject up again.
With me I would bring the howife subject up while fucking my wife. During this " super sexually changed" moment I would ask her while fucking her how would she like a big new cock to fuck. At first she would say I was all she needed, but as the years went on she started to say yes I would love to have new cock/ a boyfriend that can fuck me anytime I need it.
I would have to admit when she started responding like that I was feeling like wow she really wants this and started to feel a little worried and uneasy. However, the worried/uneasy feeling was not greater than the excitement or passion I had hearing her respond in that way. Also, her pussy would get so wet I knew she was getting extremely turned on.
What happen next is she started to ask me after sex if I was serious. She stated to take advantage of the situation (after we were done having sex) and would stroke my cock and ask me specific guestions about: who, what, were and when I would want to have this happen.
She really kind of forse my hand on the subject, but like I said I was more excited than worried/uneasy. So I was just honest with her that I was very turned on by her being sexually pleasured by another man.
At that point we had very open discussions and she came up with a few rules: never at home, never with men we know, she decides with who and when and a threesome with me and another guy was not on the table yet (she felt like she wanted to explore on her own first.)
With me I would bring the howife subject up while fucking my wife. During this " super sexually changed" moment I would ask her while fucking her how would she like a big new cock to fuck. At first she would say I was all she needed, but as the years went on she started to say yes I would love to have new cock/ a boyfriend that can fuck me anytime I need it.
I would have to admit when she started responding like that I was feeling like wow she really wants this and started to feel a little worried and uneasy. However, the worried/uneasy feeling was not greater than the excitement or passion I had hearing her respond in that way. Also, her pussy would get so wet I knew she was getting extremely turned on.
What happen next is she started to ask me after sex if I was serious. She stated to take advantage of the situation (after we were done having sex) and would stroke my cock and ask me specific guestions about: who, what, were and when I would want to have this happen.
She really kind of forse my hand on the subject, but like I said I was more excited than worried/uneasy. So I was just honest with her that I was very turned on by her being sexually pleasured by another man.
At that point we had very open discussions and she came up with a few rules: never at home, never with men we know, she decides with who and when and a threesome with me and another guy was not on the table yet (she felt like she wanted to explore on her own first.)
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