Here is what is happening: we married young, now I'm late 20 and husband early 30. we had a great sex life until recently. 7-8 months ago his libido has gone down while mine has gone up. At the same time he started mentioning things about us playing some games. When I asked what games he mentioned going to a club and me flirting with guys. I asked if it would turn him on, he said yes , a lot.
I do flirt with men sometimes but nothing out of ordinary. Flirting with my husband watching would be very awkward for me and I asked him to give me some time to think about it. I also asked what he meant by flirting. He explained we go to a club, he sits alone, I go to the bar and wait for a guy to come and talk with me and I flirt with him while he keeps an eye on me. If I like the guy I flirt, we could dance and flirt more, etc.
When I started thinking about this king of scenario it did turn me on but I was not sure if I could do it in public. Time passed and one night I told him we could try in a club where nobody could recognize me but I wasn't sure if it would work out. He said ok we try it.
He really seem eager to go and we prepared on a weekend and went to a place he knew. We did what he had said, I went to the bar and in no time a guy came over and started talking with me., had a few drinks, I was hoping for a guy not my type to make easier for me to put a stop if I wanted but this guy was good looking and charming. We danced , he pulled me close to him,went on kissing my neck etc. I took a look at my husband and he nodded a yes with his head. It was getting really hot, I was really turned on soI decided it was time to stop. When we returned at our place he asked me if I wanted to go for a last drink at his place. I declined politely, I don't know why I said maybe next time. I left and went to see my husband. That was great he said. That night we had great sex.
Now I am worried he will need that to be turned on if yes I don't know how it will end.
Anyone here had this kind of experience with their husband and what they did about it?