I think husband needs to see me flirting

My wife felt thst she wasny sexy any more. I tild her I would prove it to her we wemt away for a weekend I sent her to get her hait and nails donr. I told thecsalon which we knew give herca totsl.makeover I.bought het a very sexy outfit short skirt high heel boots and a form.fitting top. When she wss getting dressed i told her you need to.up.your nakeup.and jewelry.. We ent to the lounge in the hotel..I told here you need to sit alone i will be close by
It wasnt lomg before she wss getting hit on
She textrd me i told her dance etc have fun. She texted me later to.meet me descretly. I.meet.her.snd she said that she wss getting excited
I told. Her go.with yout feelings ..She dance kissed a little A few hours later she left
I followed her when ee got home she said he wanted her. She told me she was thimking about calling me. I told her go for it..She asked me are you sure I.told her I was. She called him.thry agreed to.meet the following weekend..I TOLD HER SEE I PROVED YOU WRONG. ,""Enjoy"" I think a hidden side of her come out

.





Z
Thanks for the supporting evidence. I loved reading your post and I can tell you were jacking off while while writing it.
 
  • Like
Reactions: toolman2c
I mean when you wrote the orginal post about your wife getting fucked. It was so hot and fresh I could tell you were jerking while writing it.
Yes she realy gets me goi going when she goes out she had been a hotwife for 5 years Its beem an awesome experience she has changed so much Feel free to ask me anything..you can.pm.me if you want..i have stories of out lifsstyle on Lush stories i write under the name construction65
 
Question for anyone in this thread - and asking advice. How would I convince my long term girlfriend to flirt with other men? We're in a bit of a sexual rut, and she isn't really over sexual or confident right now. Would it make sense to have a guy flirt with her to build her confidence?
Before taking those big steps, look first internally. Is she having physical or mental health issues? How are things going at work? Is she stressed out? Are you both doing well financially? Is she experiencing hormonal issues or are the confidence symptoms happening when she is on her period and bloated? Or when she is PMSing and not feeling sexual?

Without knowing anything I always make a suggestion to eat healthy and get daily exercise. Those two things alone can do wonders. Reduce alcohol if it’s consumed in large quantities or on a regular basis also does wonders for the sex drive.
 
Before taking those big steps, look first internally. Is she having physical or mental health issues? How are things going at work? Is she stressed out? Are you both doing well financially? Is she experiencing hormonal issues or are the confidence symptoms happening when she is on her period and bloated? Or when she is PMSing and not feeling sexual?

Without knowing anything I always make a suggestion to eat healthy and get daily exercise. Those two things alone can do wonders. Reduce alcohol if it’s consumed in large quantities or on a regular basis also does wonders for the sex drive.
Thanks for taking the outside chance there is more than just wanting to be fucked wrong here... But always good to keep in mind there are more than just desires at play here.
 
Thanks for taking the outside chance there is more than just wanting to be fucked wrong here... But always good to keep in mind there are more than just desires at play here.
Right 😛, so many possibilities to examine. I know this because I personally see so many of those influencing my situation, there is no way other people aren’t experiencing them in their journey.
 
  • Love
Reactions: toolman2c
No i wasnt jacking off wife was getti.g ready for bed we were noth horny and we fucked eaxh others brains out
Its even better when you are not horny but fuck anyways. The rush is in building up and enjoying each other, the pure enjoyment of each other as you spend time together. When Horny, it is all over before you realize the moment is gone.
 
Well yes I enjoyed it. No we did not exchange numbers.

Last weekend husband asked if I was up going back in that club and do some flirting. I said ok but what are the limits of what I can do ? he replied he had no limits and that I decide myself what my limits are depending of who I meet.

We went and to my surprise the same guy was there and came to greet me. He said he had hope that I would come back. He explained that he is a friend of the owner so he hangs around here often. In a way I was glad he was there because I had enjoyed our last meeting. I explained what was going on, that my husband had asked me to flirt with someone that he gets turned on seeing me flirting with other men. He was a bit surprised but said that he is not alone getting turned on seeing their wife flirting. Let's give him a show he said. after a couple of drinks we started dancing, kissing etc. it did not take long before I felt his cock . I discreetly lowered my hand and rubbed it over his pants. I must say I was turned on and it showed I guess.

A bit later he proposed that we continue in a back room that this place has and that his friend would let him use it if he asked. Lets do it I said but should I let my husband know have him wait and wonder where I had been. Tell him he said. I went over and told him I would disappear for a while. He was ok with that. So we went and started making out like teenagers. The sex was great.I really enjoyed sucking his cock and fucking (with a condom naturally) .

This time yes we exchange numbers. I went back with my husband, he said when we get back home you tell me everything, I will I said.
Super hot!! Definitely a thing to do. Did you husband take you that night?
 
Here is what is happening: we married young, now I'm late 20 and husband early 30. we had a great sex life until recently. 7-8 months ago his libido has gone down while mine has gone up. At the same time he started mentioning things about us playing some games. When I asked what games he mentioned going to a club and me flirting with guys. I asked if it would turn him on, he said yes , a lot.

I do flirt with men sometimes but nothing out of ordinary. Flirting with my husband watching would be very awkward for me and I asked him to give me some time to think about it. I also asked what he meant by flirting. He explained we go to a club, he sits alone, I go to the bar and wait for a guy to come and talk with me and I flirt with him while he keeps an eye on me. If I like the guy I flirt, we could dance and flirt more, etc.

When I started thinking about this king of scenario it did turn me on but I was not sure if I could do it in public. Time passed and one night I told him we could try in a club where nobody could recognize me but I wasn't sure if it would work out. He said ok we try it.

He really seem eager to go and we prepared on a weekend and went to a place he knew. We did what he had said, I went to the bar and in no time a guy came over and started talking with me., had a few drinks, I was hoping for a guy not my type to make easier for me to put a stop if I wanted but this guy was good looking and charming. We danced , he pulled me close to him,went on kissing my neck etc. I took a look at my husband and he nodded a yes with his head. It was getting really hot, I was really turned on soI decided it was time to stop. When we returned at our place he asked me if I wanted to go for a last drink at his place. I declined politely, I don't know why I said maybe next time. I left and went to see my husband. That was great he said. That night we had great sex.

Now I am worried he will need that to be turned on if yes I don't know how it will end.

Anyone here had this kind of experience with their husband and what they did about it?
you should test him a bit , flirt and see how he will reacte
 
This is a cuckold site. Every guy here will tell you you should have gone home with that guy. Every girl here will say something similar but usually with a great deal more class than the men. There are a lot of men here trying to live their fantasies vicariously and others who are hoping to hook up with another man's wife. I am the latter type. I will say that your husband will likely want to do it again. Men are very single minded in their desires. He will likely suggest another man and going all the way at some point. This is something you should only do if you want to and it does come with its own set of challenges. Seek out the most level headed here for advice. Read other posts. You will see quite quickly who is best suited to offering advice that makes sense for you. The fact that you enjoyed the attention of another man does not say anything bad about you, and what works for you and your husband is uniquely your relationship. Don't let others project their baggage onto you guys
Sound advice, here. As one who knows, going to the next level can have its challenges. Yes, it’s great to live out a fantasy but there are real life scenarios that sometimes clash with that - what if you fall for the guy? What if you’re mistreated? What if your husband can’t cope with being jealous, or feels like he can’t please you as much?

Take your time, there’s no rush 😉
 
Do yourself a favor and take it slow. When I ventured into the lifestyle with my ex, she went head over heels. Even the best of relationships will be tested. Its important that you can keep your jealousy in check and she can remain level headed or things can go wrong fast. The watching and having experiences at the bar is a great start. Maybe have her talk to the guy over the phone later might be an additional option. Taking small steps gives you a chance to review both of your progress and feelings.
I learned this the hard way in my first marriage and just want to supply you with food for thought.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Cuckindeep