I cheated on my husband (repost)
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To forget this happened. I'm happy where I'm at and whom I'm with.
But I know I can't, so just keep moving forward and not tell anyone about it. Besides yall lol.
Everyone makes mistakes. What matters is what you do with that and what you learn from it.
You are happy with the person you are with. And you do not want to cause harm. These are important.
Truth... is a funny thing. It has this way of working itself to the surface... You will think all is well and Bam. Up it pops. If you try to carry it, it will be a burden weighing you down. You are already showing the stress of that.
Honesty is important. So Be Honest With Yourself. Ask yourself the hard questions. Be ready to accept the hard answers.
No one is given a handbook for life that clearly lays out some wisdom. We often learn the hard way.
The Open Lifestyle truly Is Not For Everyone. It is for some and not others. Humans are diverse. And our diversity is a strength. It may be a part of your future or it may not be. That is not for anyone here to try to influence.
Only you and your partner can figure that out - together - sharing each other intimately with each other, first.
But what you can do, for now, is begin working on letting go of the guilt. It will weigh you down and given time, you may begin to resent him for the burden you carry. And that is not right.
There are long term problems with “forgetting.” It just doesn’t work. Mysteriously, you end up in similar situations, similar outcomes.
The best case scenario is: you figure out what is acceptable to you, and live with that. The parts that aren’t acceptable, you change.
Were u a good lil slut and talk dirty to him...you loved being his toy didnt u....its ok some women are play things for a man's use
Well… as I told you ……..you keep it in you and learnEd from this point on what you can handle . No one needs to know😎
That's hot, can you share some pics of yours. It can be privately.
I said what I said, not because I’m urging you to cheat or damage your relationship but you said yourself that you now avoid going out drinking because you know it could easily happen again. And your comment that you think it was the size of the other guys cock that pushed you over the edge just makes me think that no matter how good your sex life with your husband is, you crave more. It sounds to me like it might be a case of when not if this happens again and then how do you deal with it. Do you confess and deal with the consequences or keep quiet and deal with the guilt. I’m afraid no one else can answer that for you.
And if it does just end up being a one off indiscretion, I’d definitely keep it to yourself. Everyone makes mistakes and is it worth risking a relationship over one event that happened in the heat of the moment.
Lynn x
I did unfortunately, I'm a talker and I'm vocal when I have sex and it's worse when I'm drinking.
I agree and thank you. I use to love big cock and my husband is average. I think me seeing a big one, it just took over.
Quiet acting like you didnt enjoy it...you were fucked by a better dick and turned into the true slut u wanna be so no saldly I'm a talker or ob I don't want this again. You loved it and it's fine your hubby knows you get wild when ...... so deep down he knows this is a real possibility. Also I wanna see some pics too...nude or not no difference to me
I am starting to think that you are not here just to vent.
Beware the toys that will play on your mind.
You have said that you are happy with who you are with and your life. Is that true?
If it is true, why are you here teasing at ending that?
I think you need to make a choice. Either come clean to your husband and try to get him on board with this or decide you have vented successfully. Because above, we clearly see the internet pic collectors casting their lines and you ain't exactly shunning their bait.
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