Wonderful way to start a conversation between the two of you. We discussed our fantasies before we married, and her flirting and being with another man was my main one. Alarmed at first, she finally understood my thinking..as best she could. Our first time much like yours, on a bar stool, a nice younger man beside her who happened to be in wifes profession. Talking led her to feeling nicely about herself, and I convinced her to cross her legs a little higher with her short skirt and heels on...That night she had an almost see thru white blouse on, no bra..When he left for restroom, wife and I talked about the situation and she agreed to asking him to join us at a club with a great DJ and dancing.
We met him there, got a booth, her in between us. She and I danced,and I asked her to invite him to dance with her too..a couple of drinks later she did, and they spent 20 minutes together, almost putting on a sex show to others. He was a great dancer, and she was having a great time. Could see her putting her leg between his, and him massaging her cute butt, kissing her neck and her snuggling up to his chest and neck. We lived about 90 minutes from there, so when time to leave so I got up, and told her I would meet her by our car. Soon they came out together, hand in hand...he took her away from the main entrance and started kissing her softly and touching her breasts thru the blouse. No hesitation or resistance on her part either.
When we did leave, we had a lot to talk about..she readily admitted it was fun being naughty and having a younger man want her. That started our journey of sharing her with 11 different men, some many times..
Good luck, keep us posted