How often do you have sex with your wife ?

I'm getting less and less turned on by her to be honest. Thinking of other guys having her gets me going but just being with her doesn't get me going as much as it used to.
These days I'm leaving it up to her to initiate sex so it doesn't happen very often.
 
How often varies depending on how often I want it. Sometimes it'll be once a month or so. Other times it'll be every couple of days for awhile. She rarely says no if I ask
 
I'm getting less and less turned on by her to be honest. Thinking of other guys having her gets me going but just being with her doesn't get me going as much as it used to.
These days I'm leaving it up to her to initiate sex so it doesn't happen very often.
I know what you mean. I love the thought of my wife being fucked by another guy and then when we are going to bed, I sometimes lose the urge to have sex with her. It could be my age (55) or the fact that I have diabetes. When I am home alone or travelling, I’ll wank constantly whilst watching wife sharing or wife interracial porn on the internet. I have spoken to her about her being with another guys and she’s agreed to it in principal but only when we are on vacation somewhere, so we are unlikely ever to bump into the guy again. I’ve even made it easier for her as I admitted to her one day that I had played around previously when she asked me, when we had both been drinking. She didn’t ask for the details and I didn’t give any. I do love her but sometimes the urge to fuck her just isn’t there.
 
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So, before hotwifing, 3 times a week, sometimes 4. Since she and I decided to take the leap and got on the apps, 5-7 times a week. After our first “date” with a third, we fucked 4 times in 24 hours.
Our situation is very similar. Our sex life was good. Since we started inviting our friend to join us it's fantastic. Took quite a few times to get comfy with the whole deal but it's very good now. Wife is horny as fuck for days after he's been with us.
 
Our situation is very similar. Our sex life was good. Since we started inviting our friend to join us it's fantastic. Took quite a few times to get comfy with the whole deal but it's very good now. Wife is horny as fuck for days after he's been with us.
It is exactly what we hoped, and we are being careful to minimize the possibility of getting feels. It took a while, and many discussions, but she can now view sex as sex and not love.
 
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It took a while, but she can now view sex as sex and not love.
My wife has learned to do exactly that. We are very normal and conservative. We started doing mfm with a guy we know. First times were VERY weird and awkward as hell. But wife was horny as fuck after he left and for days after. She said she felt guilty after, always said it was wrong and didn't want to do it again. I guess she'd get the itch and we'd call him. WHILE we were doing it with him she was SO into it, after horny as hell.
We've done it quite a few with him, it's better now. Sometimes I think she likes the sex with him a little too much, I get jealous feelings. He gets more sex time with her but I get plenty. It's a huge turn on for me seeing her get so into the sex. Sometimes it's like she can't get fucked enough, she wants it all night.
It's good fun for us.
 
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....she can now view sex as sex and not love.
That shit is key right there... A good fucking isn't going to pay your mortgage, take care of you when you're sick, pick up your kids from school, help you when there's a death in the family... A lot of people including myself start to figure that shit out naturally as you get older and life kicks you in the balls repeatedly.
 
Bueno, mi esposa y yo tenemos relación una vez al mes, pero mi esposa como tiene mí permiso de ser compartido con los amigos tiene relaciones de mínimo de 3 hasta más de 10 veces a la semana. Ahorita por ejemplo no está se fue a coger con un amigo
 
My Wife hasn't touched My Little Dick since She got Her first BBC.
It's been over 15 years since I have had any Pussy but I am ok with it.
I now enjoy Dick as much as She does.