How NOT to bring up hotwifing/cuckolding to the wife...
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I think a lot of the time it DOES come down to the man in question. Does your wife fancy him like really! or is it just for you. Mine had a lover for 20-25 years on and off both when he was single then married with ........ ( i ithink they liked each other). never cheated though. both always told me they were meeting/ having fun. stuff she would NEVER do with me. even when i was with them!!! fun times but you need to get on your wifes level. it is really important and worth it x
My wife is also very much into roleplay to the point she has multiple orgasms. I asked her during one play session if she wished Bob (her dildo) was a real cock with me watching she said yes, after we finished with her dildo and I had my cock buried in her pussy I asked her again if she wished her dildo had been a real cock she told me yes again. However, after we had finished, I told her if she really wanted to find someone to fuck her while I watched we could but she then said no. At this point even though she is into the roleplay I think she is afraid to make it a reality.
that this was exactly our case and then the imagination turned into reality Well, it's still going on
I think there are a lot of women out there would really enjoy various versions of this kink, but they're too afraid of breaking societal norms. If that's where you think your wife is at, keep working to set her mind at ease and make sure she's comfortable. No judgment and no need for anyone else in her life to know about her fantasies. After all, we all have sexual fantasies.
Be patient and go slow. Always make her feel sexy and most importantly, make sure she knows that you are not interested in other women. Only her being shared.
Even if your wife would/will really enjoy a large cock during sex, it's not likely to be a big turn on to her talking about it. That may be your fantasy as a cuck, or maybe great for an experienced hot wife. But for your shy conservative wife, not a great starting point for convo.
Be patient and go slow. Always make her feel sexy and most importantly, make sure she knows that you are not interested in other women. Only her being shared.
Even if your wife would/will really enjoy a large cock during sex, it's not likely to be a big turn on to her talking about it. That may be your fantasy as a cuck, or maybe great for an experienced hot wife. But for your shy conservative wife, not a great starting point for convo.
More or less, yes. We had sex only once the year before, and maybe 2-3 times the year before that. She simply checked out once we got married, slowly at first but it did become clearer over time that I wasn't her cup of tea sexually, I think she probably settled for me because I provided financial and housing type security. I was very forthcoming about my fetishes early on when we were dating. She actually had some of her own, we played some of them out (not with others though). She knew what I was about when we got married, and she had to consciously decide to stamp out sex. Truth be told, she more or less pushed me into marriage, I wanted to take more time.. I stalled for about 3 years when she started pushing after 1, but I did finally give in and agree to marry.
Sometimes I'm really bitter about it, and marriage in general. Most times though, I just look through it all and started living out my fantasies with others about 5 years ago (after 15 years of denial in marriage). If she doesn't want me, then she has no claim on my dick, it's simple math to me. And, well, it's MY dick, not hers. I do what I want with it 🙂
Ok.. so that was a little bitter lol. Truth be told, our marriage outside the bedroom is fairly peaceful, we get along, like roommates I guess.
She was open to similar (less matured) kinks when we dated, we were younger, but we did fantasize and play some out. I don't write very well, often miss important detail, there's a LOT to this story that could turn it into a novel, but she knew what I was into. We did bi play, light bdsm, and some domina play early on, and she's not conservative haha, she taught me a thing or two and I was fairly versed. I also tied her up regularly, spankings, she loved it before marriage. Maybe she just got annoyed with something about me that turned her off, not a sexual thing, but maybe I'm just an asshole or something and she just doesn't like me, or as I said in another reply- she probably just settled, even knowing she was finding something about me unattractive (personally, I think).
Thats not cuckold OR a Hotwife (unless
she's fucking and you don't about it).
Thats just a hopeless situation.women, people
Sometimes just become disinterested in sex.
Happened to me. It sucks. Not unaware it
could be me. But she told her Dr. She's just
lost her libido.
she's fucking and you don't about it).
Thats just a hopeless situation.women, people
Sometimes just become disinterested in sex.
Happened to me. It sucks. Not unaware it
could be me. But she told her Dr. She's just
lost her libido.
Bringing it up on the first or second date is not good either. always ease in the conversation slowly you may scare away a good one
That sounds like my wife, she really gets into our role play using her dildos but not interested in making it real. Hopefully she will change her mind one day.
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