How do women control themselves?

[JHotbrewer]

Society would have it that men are driven by sex more than women. In fact, evidence suggests this is true.

• Men are generally rapists, not women.
• Men chat women up more
• Men will take advantage of women sexually more
• Men seek multiple partners and affairs more than women
• Men masturbate more
• Men seek out prostitutes, buy sexual massages and happy endings
• Men are apparently more physical, whereas women look more for emotional attachment#

BUT.... is it that simple? My experience of women suggests that:

• women can enjoy sex much more than men if liberated to do so, with multiple, more intense orgasms
• women can and do chat up men..... more through physical flirting than words, i.e. it's more overtly a sexual come-on
• women are attracted to cocks and balls as much as men are to tits and cunts
• women do/would enjoy sexual massages as much as men if only they were available.

I could go on but my point is that women are driven by sex as much as men but it's expressed differently, due to societal expectations, biological reality (hey get pregnant) and physical reality (they are weaker).

Your thoughts please?

 

[divaD]

My wife doesn't control herself, that's why we are in this lifestyle. On the other hand I have no intrest in anyone but my wife.

 

[andysmith]

your premise is entierely wrong. women have far less nterest generally. many fuck around xuz men want them to, others do it necause they are unusual

 

[Catholic_Wife]

Society would have it that men are driven by sex more than women. In fact, evidence suggests this is true.

• Men are generally rapists, not women.
• Men chat women up more
• Men will take advantage of women sexually more
• Men seek multiple partners and affairs more than women
• Men masturbate more
• Men seek out prostitutes, buy sexual massages and happy endings
• Men are apparently more physical, whereas women look more for emotional attachment#

BUT.... is it that simple? My experience of women suggests that:

• women can enjoy sex much more than men if liberated to do so, with multiple, more intense orgasms
• women can and do chat up men..... more through physical flirting than words, i.e. it's more overtly a sexual come-on
• women are attracted to cocks and balls as much as men are to tits and cunts
• women do/would enjoy sexual massages as much as men if only they were available.

I could go on but my point is that women are driven by sex as much as men but it's expressed differently, due to societal expectations, biological reality (hey get pregnant) and physical reality (they are weaker).

Your thoughts please?

Well, we would agree in many comments that you brought up about women. Men and women are pretty much alike, but there are some key differences that change the ways one or another pursue their interests. Specially in sex.

Men often have to seek out acceptance after all if they insist without any given validation it would become a r*pe, then. So women are the ones who do the trials and even more, they might try any approach to a man without a prior acceptance by him. By another hand, women still is more judge whenever they act with such freedom in sex matters.

Funny thing is in fact women use to gather multiple partners specially during youth, while just a few men get to enjoy a bunch of them.

 

[SCBlknNsty]

Well, we would agree in many comments that you brought up about women. Men and women are pretty much alike, but there are some key differences that change the ways one or another pursue their interests. Specially in sex.

Men often have to seek out acceptance after all if they insist without any given validation it would become a r*pe, then. So women are the ones who do the trials and even more, they might try any approach to a man without a prior acceptance by him. By another hand, women still is more judge whenever they act with such freedom in sex matters.

Funny thing is in fact women use to gather multiple partners specially during youth, while just a few men get to enjoy a bunch of them.

Truly, the other side of the same coin!

In our evolution, men started as the 'hunters', taking women as we pleased, including to the point of killing other men over women. Women had little say so, but always assessing the 'hunters' on what security they could provide for her and her children.

Social evolution now surrounds scientific discovery in evolving the dynamics...women fighting for equality, technology leveling the direct need for physical strength, birth control and abortion.

Today, women are throwing off the "moral shackles" built into society to enjoy sex for the simple pleasure of it-finally as men have since the beginning of human existence.

Thoughts?

 

[Catholic_Wife]

Truly, the other side of the same coin!

In our evolution, men started as the 'hunters', taking women as we pleased, including to the point of killing other men over women. Women had little say so, but always assessing the 'hunters' on what security they could provide for her and her children.

Social evolution now surrounds scientific discovery in evolving the dynamics...women fighting for equality, technology leveling the direct need for physical strength, birth control and abortion.

Today, women are throwing off the "moral shackles" built into society to enjoy sex for the simple pleasure of it-finally as men have since the beginning of human existence.

Thoughts?

Oh yes, women now might deal pretty much with the same liberty or openess degree to any moral issue related to sex. At least in more liberal countries.

But we are not sure if the past history was all about men getting what they want and having fun while the women stayed restricted. Seems that women always had their ways to find sex, conquest and amusement in past societies, epoches or cultures, too.

Ourselves as a simple example. We are catholics living in a not so opened culture for sex and feminism (Latin America), but Wife would easily win a race or contest against husband about who's had a sex life earlier, or about variety, risks or experiences in general. Despite no one would say so - in fact, people would probably say otherwise.

Husband lost his virginity with 19 yrs old, and stayed loyal with the same women(gf) until 22. Just after his 23-24 yrs that casual sex and more twisted fetishes became a reality for him. But husband is seem now by friends and other people as a man who had lived and enjoyed quite a deal of sexual adventures before the marriage. Now lets see Wife's.

Wife lost her cherry 5 yrs younger than husband (a simple math to discover). By 18 she already had allowed 10 different men or so to get deep inside her moist body spots. She had left one boyfriend for another and used to sustain an affair with a much older married man. And she was able to do all of it in secrecy from her different bfs, parents and new men she kept meeting. But nowadays Wife is seem by friends and close people as a demured, quiet and non-extravagant women. Hell, some people might even think she is frigid.

What do we mean? Women probably always had their ways to kiss, fuck and cum whenever they needed and wanted. Of course, back then it perhaps was riskier and daring to do so! But they managed to.

 

[divaD]

Funny thing is in fact women use to gather multiple partners specially during youth, while just a few men get to enjoy a bunch of them.

Interesting you should say that, I lost my virginity to my wife at 20, she had multiple sex partners in her youth and she is now continuing that trend after 8 years of marriage.

I would go as far to say women are more sexual pro active than men.

 

[dickhurtz]

it seems the evolution of women & their sex lives started when more women entered the work force.

more opportunity morphs into participation. back in the stone ages, (60s) most moms did not work. of all my school friends, only two mothers worked. all the rest were home all day.

 

[Spice]

Society would have it that men are driven by sex more than women. In fact, evidence suggests this is true.

• Men are generally rapists, not women.
• Men chat women up more
• Men will take advantage of women sexually more
• Men seek multiple partners and affairs more than women
• Men masturbate more
• Men seek out prostitutes, buy sexual massages and happy endings
• Men are apparently more physical, whereas women look more for emotional attachment#

BUT.... is it that simple? My experience of women suggests that:

• women can enjoy sex much more than men if liberated to do so, with multiple, more intense orgasms
• women can and do chat up men..... more through physical flirting than words, i.e. it's more overtly a sexual come-on
• women are attracted to cocks and balls as much as men are to tits and cunts
• women do/would enjoy sexual massages as much as men if only they were available.

I could go on but my point is that women are driven by sex as much as men but it's expressed differently, due to societal expectations, biological reality (hey get pregnant) and physical reality (they are weaker).

Your thoughts please?

Don't forget women especially married ones can fuck other men and never say a word about it whereas men especially married one will fuck another woman and minutes later go bragging to his friends about it, women keep secrets better.

 

[Spice]

it seems the evolution of women & their sex lives started when more women entered the work force.

more opportunity morphs into participation. back in the stone ages, (60s) most moms did not work. of all my school friends, only two mothers worked. all the rest were home all day.

Don't forget back in the 40's and 50's when men would go to work and women would stay home and take care of the house and kids, but that didn't mean they didn't get a little action on the side, a good example, have you ever heard the term milkman's baby?

 

[divaD]

Don't forget back in the 40's and 50's when men would go to work and women would stay home and take care of the house and kids, but that didn't mean they didn't get a little action on the side, a good example, have you ever heard the term milkman's baby?

It's 2024, I go to work, my wife stays at home and looks after the kids, she has fun I just know about it.

 

[divaD]

it seems the evolution of women & their sex lives started when more women entered the work force.

more opportunity morphs into participation. back in the stone ages, (60s) most moms did not work. of all my school friends, only two mothers worked. all the rest were home all day.

My wife is housewife looks after our 4 kids, doesn't stop her being a hothousewife.

 

[dickhurtz]

it seems the evolution of women & their sex lives started when more women entered the work force.

more opportunity morphs into participation. back in the stone ages, (60s) most moms did not work. of all my school friends, only two mothers worked. all the rest were home all day.

apparently, the nit-pickers took exception to my original post. i hope you all feel better now that you corrected me with your infinite wisdom.

edit;
it seems the evolution of women & their sex lives became more prevalent when more women entered the work force.

it wasn't my intent to make a statement that applied in 100% of the cases.
of course, wives have been cheating all the way back to the Garden of Eden. yes, Eve took a bite of forbidden fruit, but i don't think it was an apple.

history, also, doesn't mention, metaphorically, the taxi driver when "Adam & Eve were Driven from the Garden of Eden".
possibly, Adam drove around the neighborhood while Eve did the driver in the back seat. i'm sure another genius will point out that there were no taxis 20000 years ago. more likely,it could have been a camel. although, camels don't have back seats.
now, someone will point out it could have been a two-hump camel. sorry, but, that is all the contingencies i can think of this early on Sunday morning.

& yes, we all know about the milkman, & the mailman, & the egg delivery guy, the upstairs, retired, neighbor, little league coach & every other occupation on the planet with access to stay at home moms.

 

[mikaelks]

Nice thoughts here.

My take and experience on this is simplified. Women would enjoy any opportunity to have good sex whenever the ocassion is filled with some discretion.

I would love to hear about your own experiences prior to have reached your conclusions. That would be hot!!

 

[dickhurtz]

Nice thoughts here.

My take and experience on this is simplified. Women would enjoy any opportunity to have good sex whenever the ocassion is filled with some discretion.

I would love to hear about your own experiences prior to have reached your conclusions. That would be hot!!

i reached my conclusions through observation. i knew several, employed, married women who cheated. some with me & others not. this goes back to the 60s. (the 1960s).

my wife experienced most of her dalliances after she started working. most were current, or previous, co-workers.

 

[Catholic_Wife]

i reached my conclusions through observation. i knew several, employed, married women who cheated. some with me & others not. this goes back to the 60s. (the 1960s).

my wife experienced most of her dalliances after she started working. most were current, or previous, co-workers.

Agreed. Work environments are the most active match-making site for any adult people. Married or not.

 

[mikaelks]

i reached my conclusions through observation. i knew several, employed, married women who cheated. some with me & others not. this goes back to the 60s. (the 1960s).

my wife experienced most of her dalliances after she started working. most were current, or previous, co-workers.

You must had seen quite interesting and surprising things back then.

 

[dickhurtz]

You must had seen quite interesting and surprising things back then.

yes it was. i had more than one business client's wife approach me. i never would have approach, or ever flirt, with a client's wife. bad for business.

let me add, they were very aggressive. there was no ambiguity about their intentions. surprised the hell out of me. other guys in the office had the same experiences.

 

[Funtofukurwife]

Well I've had the same experience my wife was a shy naive woman then she got a job and every guy there hit on her she told me of this one guy who she became friends with she said they were like bro an sis and she was helping him out with his girl problems I told her be's a guy he's waiting for an opportunity to swoop in and he got it one nite she was pissed at me for fooling around so he talked her into having a few beers which she never had done and then got in her pants in which she had been flirting with her boss who found out and made her feel guilty so she then started sleeping with him she liked the attention there

 

[Catholic_Wife]

yes it was. i had more than one business client's wife approach me. i never would have approach, or ever flirt, with a client's wife. bad for business.

let me add, they were very aggressive. there was no ambiguity about their intentions. surprised the hell out of me. other guys in the office had the same experiences.

Here, both wife and husband had a share of sexual adventures due to people that we get to know while working. Wife had a female coworker who was fired because she used to fuck some guys in the fire escapes of the building. Oh, and she was married.

Sex outside marriage is kinda a prescription to office (and life) boredom.