So, I’ll try and keep this as short as I can. Been thinking about getting my wife into the lifestyle I’ve mentioned it, she bat it away. I’ve seen stories of how men slowly over years got her there. Because they knew how much better a ‘big cock’ would be. I make my wife cum tonnes, dripping wet, mouth open. I’m six inches and a little girthy. Some positions we could do with me taking an inch off ‘doggy’ then there are more complicated position where an extra inch would help. So I was chatting to a guy and he invited me to attend a few of his swingers nights. I said I just wanted to observe, my wife doesn’t know. I did get naked as it would have been weird if I didn’t. I saw guys with huge cocks pounding women. Not one decent orgasm observed. Loud noises and grunts. But no orgasms. UNLESS he was playing with her clit while banging her or she was grinding him! I saw guys with average cocks and big ones fuck the same women and guess what, exactly the same outcome in terms of the women having an orgasm regardless of size! Some women were in pain with the big ones but seemed to like it, some who were a lot more vocal with the big ones seemed way more relaxed and at home with the more average ones. One guy had a really long thin cock and he got loads of attention and showed me a thing or two! All in all. I’ve been 3 times and not seen A SINGLE WOMAN have an orgasm from penetration only. Unless there was clit grinding cowgirl style or toys and fingers used while being fucked. Can’t lie. The women seemed to love the variety of men and were certainly loving it. But big dicks bringing orgasms never happened. I read so many bulls and ducks writing ‘he slid in her and she came 5 times on five thrusts’. I’m calling this nonsense now. Whereas before I was believing it! Certainly has ruined a few sexual fantasies that got me hot though. Any thoughts? Females, especially VERIFIED ones would be AMAZING.