Ive been cucked for 23 years and still feel insecure sometimes. Its not about the cock. Its about what is going on between their minds that you are not privy to? A woman transforms when she is in lust (love). Its beautiful to watch but very unnerving. We, men, think to ourselves, what does he have that causes this and I cant? We forget we also caused that in her many years ago.
What helps is for her to remind me, like a ......, how much she loves me and is grateful for my support. Then promises lots of creampies and loose pussy fucking. She makes it about "me" Yes, ego stroking. Also repeats that she can only do this because I am there.
I am fine if Im watching or in the room. But I hate it when I get left out of the room or bathroom. Even though she moans hard so I can hear. So, if you can still put your husbands feelings and ego first, you may be able to convince him.