How do I convince my husband?

[coastalkid]

Seems like it is uncommon that the wife is the one wanting to get into cuckolding.
Are there any women here who can chime in how you convinced your husband to let you play?
Small background, moved to US 3 yrs ago, and eager to try interracial. Husband is insecure because…well, he feels emasculated (which actually turns me on to do that to him). Any tips?

Thats a tough one. If he's insecure he's already on the road to cuckoldry.
You have to address & calm his insecurities.
You should begin ladies nite out. Dress up sexy, go out (with girlfriends?) and see how he reacts.
GO SLOW & EASY. Seduce him into being your cuckold!

Sgt. Ray is right here. You gotta make him want it more than once and the only way that can happen is if he has fun too. I can't see a real couple truly enjoying themselves if one is miserable enough to dread it.

If your husband is insecure it's because he knows he has a lot lose. Since he knows you are interested he's probably running all kinds of worst case scenarios in his head. He's probably spun himself into anxiety. It seems like a hard sell, unless you can make your husband feel confident enough to convince him that he won't be given less sexual attention for his own satisfaction. Like I said he knows he has a lot to lose, that's a big deal! If you simply ignore his feelings and needs it will be much more difficult and you may not like the person your husband became because of how this came about.

 

[calicolombia69]

Sgt. Ray is right here. You gotta make him want it more than once and the only way that can happen is if he has fun too. I can't see a real couple truly enjoying themselves if one is miserable enough to dread it.

If your husband is insecure it's because he knows he has a lot lose. Since he knows you are interested he's probably running all kinds of worst case scenarios in his head. He's probably spun himself into anxiety. It seems like a hard sell, unless you can make your husband feel confident enough to convince him that he won't be given less sexual attention for his own satisfaction. Like I said he knows he has a lot to lose, that's a big deal! If you simply ignore his feelings and needs it will be much more difficult and you may not like the person your husband became because of how this came about.

I have a very close example at home. My adult stepson and his "wife". Not married but 14yrs together and 2 small kids. When she walked in our door, she had just turned 15 and was NO virgin. Our own stepson told us so. She was fond of him because he didnt pressure for sex like half her male classroom did.
She used to wear normal teen clothes, cheeky shorts, minis, slinky tops and way too small bikinis at beach. So be it.

But once she was living permanently under our roof, things changed. With all due respect but she could be mistaken for a muslim for the way she dresses in baggy clothes and grandma swuimsuits.

Not too long ago, I accidentally had a very intimate conversation with her. Our step ...... stopped her from seeing her female friends, much less HS classmates, no more tight clothes. And she got into trouble any time she giggled or even smiled at jokes made by his own brother or male cousins who frequented out house.

My point: Some men are excessively jealous and/or possessive and are not going to budge an inch. (By the way, she confessed that she had to go to plan B on 2 occassions --> short flings with other guys) The desire is in her and no amount of control is going to ...... that flame.

Oh, her mom is a slut and so is my wife, so she has had to perfect examples of the life she wishes for.

 

[robbiewillsucku]

Every woman should have lots of lovers. March 2023 Hello Males - Hubby(s), BF, subs, sissy, bimales --- If you love her -- you should focus on her and doing anything and everything that will make her happy and that includes her sucking and fucking any cock or pussy that she wants 1on1 or 3way or 4way. That includes you sucking cocks for her and licking her pussy clean after every cock she fucks and even putting your cock in a cock-cage and letting a man fuck your sissy-pussy. It is important that she fucks you with a strapon (weekly). It is all about making her happy. Any type of sex should be fun for both of you and everyone.

If you are still trying to get her to agree to fuck other cocks - try this. Every time you fuck her then lick your cum from her pussy -- after the sixth time - while you are licking her pussy - say I am fantasizing. Hoping she ask what you are fantasizing about - if not just say it again - I am fantasizing you fucked another male earlier in the day and now I am licking his cum from your pussy.

When she does go out - tell her to have a good time and ride your face when she returns and shares the details.

Next step: I want you to try this on your wife of GF -- suck her tit like a cock. Bounce or bobb your head on her tit just like you would if you were sucking a cock. Do this at least once a week. Third week, start sucking her tit then tell her that you are fantasizing. Hoping she says what are you fantasizing about. If not, suck her tit like a cock then just say -- I am fantasizing that I am sucking your tit like a cock. Don't wait - you say - tell me to suck your tit like a cock. When she tells you to suck her tit like a cock -- sucked harder and deeper.

Do this every time when you suck her tit. Three more weeks -- start sucking her tit then you say - tell me to ask --- may I please suck your tit like a cock cause I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker. Repeat it often to yourself and to her while you are sucking her tit. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker - yes I am sucking your tit like a cock.

Dry hump her while you are sucking her tit like a cock and you might just cum on her leg or in your panties.

I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma - I have photos on my profile page on fetlife - email me your past sex and kinky fantasies to robbiewillsucku at gm ail -- I also chat on google-chat.

 

[Maybinterested]

Every woman should have lots of lovers. March 2023 Hello Males - Hubby(s), BF, subs, sissy, bimales --- If you love her -- you should focus on her and doing anything and everything that will make her happy and that includes her sucking and fucking any cock or pussy that she wants 1on1 or 3way or 4way. That includes you sucking cocks for her and licking her pussy clean after every cock she fucks and even putting your cock in a cock-cage and letting a man fuck your sissy-pussy. It is important that she fucks you with a strapon (weekly). It is all about making her happy. Any type of sex should be fun for both of you and everyone.

If you are still trying to get her to agree to fuck other cocks - try this. Every time you fuck her then lick your cum from her pussy -- after the sixth time - while you are licking her pussy - say I am fantasizing. Hoping she ask what you are fantasizing about - if not just say it again - I am fantasizing you fucked another male earlier in the day and now I am licking his cum from your pussy.

When she does go out - tell her to have a good time and ride your face when she returns and shares the details.

Next step: I want you to try this on your wife of GF -- suck her tit like a cock. Bounce or bobb your head on her tit just like you would if you were sucking a cock. Do this at least once a week. Third week, start sucking her tit then tell her that you are fantasizing. Hoping she says what are you fantasizing about. If not, suck her tit like a cock then just say -- I am fantasizing that I am sucking your tit like a cock. Don't wait - you say - tell me to suck your tit like a cock. When she tells you to suck her tit like a cock -- sucked harder and deeper.

Do this every time when you suck her tit. Three more weeks -- start sucking her tit then you say - tell me to ask --- may I please suck your tit like a cock cause I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker. Repeat it often to yourself and to her while you are sucking her tit. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker - yes I am sucking your tit like a cock.

Dry hump her while you are sucking her tit like a cock and you might just cum on her leg or in your panties.

I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma - I have photos on my profile page on fetlife - email me your past sex and kinky fantasies to robbiewillsucku at gm ail -- I also chat on google-chat.

Don't listen to this one ,,
As he obviously didn't even read that You are a woman asking for advice on how to get your husband to agree with it.

Dude read and understand what is being asked ,

 

[cucky boy]

Seems like it is uncommon that the wife is the one wanting to get into cuckolding.
Are there any women here who can chime in how you convinced your husband to let you play?
Small background, moved to US 3 yrs ago, and eager to try interracial. Husband is insecure because…well, he feels emasculated (which actually turns me on to do that to him). Any tips?

I'm a want to be cuck. Wish my wife would make me clean up.

 

[du_sabot]

Seems like it is uncommon that the wife is the one wanting to get into cuckolding.
Are there any women here who can chime in how you convinced your husband to let you play?
Small background, moved to US 3 yrs ago, and eager to try interracial. Husband is insecure because…well, he feels emasculated (which actually turns me on to do that to him). Any tips?

You would be surprised the number of women that do want and request it. id Start with going to clubs. Maybe convince him to go to a swingers club. He might be more into the idea if he thinks there’s something in it for him. Maybe your husband isn’t into being a humiliated Cunk. Maybe he is a stag.

 

[3xcuck4bbc]

Seems like it is uncommon that the wife is the one wanting to get into cuckolding.
Are there any women here who can chime in how you convinced your husband to let you play?
Small background, moved to US 3 yrs ago, and eager to try interracial. Husband is insecure because…well, he feels emasculated (which actually turns me on to do that to him). Any tips?

Marry someone on here who wants it too

 

[alan13703]

Seems like it is uncommon that the wife is the one wanting to get into cuckolding.
Are there any women here who can chime in how you convinced your husband to let you play?
Small background, moved to US 3 yrs ago, and eager to try interracial. Husband is insecure because…well, he feels emasculated (which actually turns me on to do that to him). Any tips?

Hi, I don't have advice but a couple of questions.

First I commend you for taking the initiative. It took me 8 years to convince my wife to play and when she did she loved it.

How strong is your relationship?
Is your husband the jealous type? (I believe that jealousy is a sign of insecurity.)
Are you sexually satisfied at the moment?
How long have you had these desires?

Other than that I think slowly does it. Try reading Ester Perel's book Mating in Captivity and listen to her podcasts. Bedroom talk hints and watching porn are good ideas.

 

[cuck52]

Seems like it is uncommon that the wife is the one wanting to get into cuckolding.
Are there any women here who can chime in how you convinced your husband to let you play?
Small background, moved to US 3 yrs ago, and eager to try interracial. Husband is insecure because…well, he feels emasculated (which actually turns me on to do that to him). Any tips?

Don't give him a choice

 

[du_sabot]

My advice would be to start off just making comments and see how he reacts. Maybe watch a move with him that has sex and tell him how you would like to be that women with that guy. Maybe bring up a fantasy of a threesome or being with another guy

 

[Maisie&marcus]

Seems like it is uncommon that the wife is the one wanting to get into cuckolding.
Are there any women here who can chime in how you convinced your husband to let you play?
Small background, moved to US 3 yrs ago, and eager to try interracial. Husband is insecure because…well, he feels emasculated (which actually turns me on to do that to him). Any tips?

I told my husband he was going to be my cuckold. He loved the idea, & is even more into it now.

 

[Sgt Ray]

If u believe ur hubby is that way, then just do it!

You'll know right away when u hand him ur panties as u leave for a hot date...and tell
him You'll need cleaning when u get back.

 

[CONST65]

I told my husband he was going to be my cuckold. He loved the idea, & is even more into it now.

The first time i went out hubby was all excited seeing me dreesed up extreme. When i went to.leave he went to kiss me i turned away, i told him no this is not about you tonight its about ne hoing out to play and hopefully some stud wiil.make me take his cock in my mouth and my Pussy.
I returned about 3 an tbe next day we talked about alot of things ..we agreed about me going out with other n
Men and you will help.me at times to get ready. It wasnt long i gave him things to read about the lifestyle that was 3 years ago and ive been a hotwife since then . He is betwen a total cuckold and a stag .It has been great for both of us

 

[GabrielBigHard]

I told my husband he was going to be my cuckold. He loved the idea, & is even more into it now.

Just like this? 😀

 

[2wheel]

Soem good advice here and some bad advice.

 

[thebeginner]

I’m 42 he’s 39, 10 yrs. And yes.

He's one hell of a lucky husband 🙂

 

[gookhotwife]

Just wanted everyone to know I started dating an interracial man last Saturday with my hubby’s blessing. Thanks for your input all

 

[Lance]

Just wanted everyone to know I started dating an interracial man last Saturday with my hubby’s blessing. Thanks for your input all

Hope all goes well and you enjoy the experience.

 

[Bowlerlb]

Just wanted everyone to know I started dating an interracial man last Saturday with my hubby’s blessing. Thanks for your input all

So how did you persuade him to be your cuck.

 

[Sgt Ray]

Yes, please do tell us how you cucked him