I began fantasizing about it 5 years into our marriage. I began to create short fantasies and while we had sex I told my wife about it as if it were a dream. This way I didn’t have to worry about being judged, it was just a dream. I also downloaded sex stories into Word, rewrote parts to meet my desires, even changed names. Then read them to her. I played the long game, with random fantasies over the next 15 years. Finally she had a dream and it was pretty profound. It did happen, so much to share.
From Dream To Reality
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At night in bed I’d mention I saw someone checking her out. Always a stranger she wouldn’t know, so not to create any uneasiness. Goal was to make sure she knew she was desirable. The fantasies I shared evolved over time. I took note of the things that seemed to turn her on and stayed away from mentioning things that didn’t. That’s how I planted the seeds. Took a long while. She was loyal, beautiful, & the ...... of our children. But in bed I’d fantasize with her about her getting laid. Eventually it was the normal warm up to sex. As for what all happened, that’s for another thred.
I’d get pictures from the internet of men with larger dicks and would have a kind of slide show in bed on the laptop, with her looking at them with me. I’d mix in pictures of couples having sex, and pics of husbands watching their wives having sex. I’d only use pics of women with wedding rings on. I’d ask her, “I wonder what it would feel like if that big cock was pushed inside of you”. I guess I brought her into my world of porn.
No one asked about the dreams I told her, but someone asked about her dream. So here it is, as she told it to me. Again,this is her talking to me.
“A man appeared and overpowered you, then he overpowered me. I tried to fight him but it just felt so good”. Short and sweet. We had great sex talking about “the dream”. Note: we didn’t talk about forced sex, tho the dream did highlight her desire to be taken.
I think many women are reluctant to express that longing to submit. That a man’s hunger and desire being a thing that can trigger and open up her desire is a lost or missing element for many people in their relationships. When my wife was my girlfriend she cheated on me a number of times and it became very clear how responsive she was in the moment to being wanted sexually by those other guys who came on to her very strong. Guys she barely knew or had just met.
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