Interesting, we keep our private life under wrap outside of a couple of very close friends. One is a couple that she did fool around with a bit, at least they guy hence obviously they know. My wife has a hotwife friend who is well versed in the lifestyle that knows all about our situation and who has even offered some advice and pointers as well as offered some "options" for expanding our horizons beyond what our limited exposure has been. I for one am interested in some of the options and my wife is open to discussion.