So thought I'd chip in havng tried cock in those hormonal teenage years when experimenting and establishing sexuality.
Basically, I dicovered I'm attracted to women, love pussy (especially cunnilingus) so have never and will never, jerk, suck or fuck a guy since then. BAck then, a friend and I would jerk off together looking at a porn mag. No touching etc, just two guys cumming.
At 56, I've beem completely comfortable with my sexuality for decades and that includes seeing other cocks, big, small, doesn't matter. WHen I see cocks on here, yeah, it's cool, but no more than that. One of my top kinks is that I absolutely love watching videos of a girl jerking off her man - especially is she is skilled like my ex-wife 😉. I imagine that it is my cock that is being stroked by the woman in the video so it turns me on and I can get off to that. However jerking a guy myself - no.
WHen I do tributes, I also like to see the effect it has - usually on hubby - as often as not, wifey doesn't know. So I will sometimes ask to see him jerk off watching the tribute. It doesn't turn me on or anything and won't jerk to it but at least I know my 'work' is appreciated. So many people who ask for tributes immediately ghost you afterwards. And it's frankly just interesting to see others jerk, knowing that they are (probably) real guys getting off on my tribUtes. Not a turn on, just like to see. DM if interested 😈
That's what I like about this site - you get to see REAL women (I know there are lots of fakes too, yes) and guys.
If I was ever in the unlilikely situation where I was playing with a wife and hubby was there, I would not be averse to him sucking/jerking my cock if it turned HER on. But I would not reciprocate. I might even fuck him if SHE wants, but not let him fuck me.
I also enjoy a bit of anal play - if you've never had an object in your ass and cum, you're missing out! I have an 8" for the job. My ex wife and current wife have done that with me - they enjoyed it as much (if not more) than me. I think it's only fair if you get to fuck her in the ass you should feel what it's like too. Again tho' I would not entertain another guys cock in my ass.
So no, positively not gay, I'm attracted only to women and love pussy, but like to watch and see cocks cum and would allow mine to be sucked and fuck a guy etc in the right situation with wifey present- why not?