Ok, understand. I can tell you from experience, you’ll want to try the ‘pie. Not necessarily because you desire to eat cum but because it is one of the most erotic experiences you will ever have. I don’t know of a more intimate way to connect with your wife in this little game. It is probably the most powerful thing you can do to reclaim her as yours. I can almost guarantee that she will have a gut wrenching orgasm and when you then enter her, you will, too. Some guys cum just from eating the pie.