A small penis is just something what helps into pleasuring a woman or your wife,if she likes to humiliate you it ,s gonna be a big fav of her,i think it,s just one element in many to give pleasure to your wife &women,things like foreplay,fetish&fantasies&other fav from your wife is more important because in my prrsonal experience i like SPH more than my wife,she loves it more when she ,s dressed sexy to tease me &others,forced me into wearing sexy lingerie&high heelsetc,on this moments she loves SPH