I totally disagree with this statement. You make it sound like cuckolding is immoral. It is consentsual among all members and hurts no one.Some in the vanilla community of course will be judgmental because they feel that everyone should fit into the same box -their box- and those that don't are perverts.Expressing your open marriage cuckold lifestyle in public should be no different than any other relationship be it gay, lesbian , straight, trans, or whatever. Cuckoldism is simply an alternative lifestyle and if one lifestyle is singled out as unfit for public acceptance then maybe we all should go back into the closet. I'm not saying anyone of us should go out and display a vulgar or flamboyant behavior, that's what fet fests are for but a simple subtle tee shirt or piece of jewery should be fine for sure.For one thing it helps us to find and socialize others that are likeminded.
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That's an interesting point. Instead of the kink a lot of us get by being locked up and physically controlled by our wives or gfs your wife's angle is one of obedience. A discipline that you are trained in to show her your commitment to her. I like that idea as much as the cage but to me the cage acts as a physical symbol that my wife owns me and controls my freedom. Let me ask you do you ever cheat or ever had a moments of weakness where you gave in to temptation? And if so did you confess to her? Were you ever caught or found out and how would she react?
I suppose it depends on your age which social circles you move in etc and if you actively want to indicate to everyone who you are. We have no issues in displaying suttley our involvement in this life style, this is visable as my cuckoldress has her real padlock keys x2 around her neck. Sometimes she wears them over her clothing and othertimes, the majority of the time underneath especially at work or with close friends or family.
My comment was more aimed at those that choose or may choose to openly wearing a cuckold themed t shirt and the like,to walk down a street i am not against this, each to their own.
I know that in me wearing tight female jeans virtually permanently, sometimes suspenders underneath, collared with the bulge of my cage pressing through the fabric is probably seen by most as a sign i am gay, but i am not. These are items my cuckoldress choses for me as her semi feminised cuck husband. The last time i wore i suit, i wore it with knickers and suspenders as we stood holding hands at a wedding, that was rather kinky.
We have for years met people into BDSM at events we have attended, i do gain a large amount of enjoyment when asked which area of BDSM i am into, when i reply none of it really, its my wife that enjoys BDSM and she is her masters sexual submissive, even they are sometimes shocked.
It is even better when she explains infront of me her 6ft 3 husband, XXXX is my loving locked cuck husband who gains his sexual pleasures from allowing me to play with my masters or lovers. He is caged and wears my collar as a sign of his sexual sub and loyality to me. However this is often greeted with, Oh, whats a cuck?
Do some find the idea of a married couple where the wife has lovers and the husband accepts or encourages this immoral? i know most would find this immoral and disapprove in the same way if i advertised the fact i only ever wear female clothing and if im only wear one item of clothing its a female one, they would find this wierd too.
Sorry if ive gone on a bit.....
There are people who will find almost anything immoral. Fuck them! Who are they to judge us or the kind of relationship we wish to have with another consenting adult partner or the way we choose to dress. I cross too. Most of these judgmental people are probably miserable straight laced conservatives who think they are better than everyone else and bringing others down is there only pleasure in life. I do understand the importance of being discrete around friends and work colleagues that is different if you choose not to be out. I like to give small subtle hints around some of my friends but l don't go too far. l like wearing stockings under my jeans too. Do you wear socks to hide them when you go out or do you like to take a chance they will be noticed ?
I have never gone out without socks, im English and its cold here! suspenders here are called a garter belt in the US.
I usually wear pantyhose my favorite is Leggs, you mey have heard of them. They come packaged in these white plastic eggs. When l was a teen l used to wear the hose under my jeans and place the plastic eggs inside my bra. It was exciting to go out like that. Are there never any warm days in England?
That is the way I see it too. I like the idea of being caged, but by the same measure the act of giving up getting to cum because it makes her happy that I don't.
I have certainly been tempted, but I have not given in. My guaranteed punishment is if she finds out I jerked off then I don't get to clean for as long as it takes for her to feel like I have been properly punished. She didn't clarify how long that would be, but the threat of being denied the right to clean just one time is enough to convince me that it isn't worth it.
Another thing l was thinking about this is by breaking your promise to her you fail her and at least in my case l would feel really guilty and sad that l let her down. I pride myself in showing my wife perfect obedience and l think you are the same kind of guy. If l did anything to gravely disappoint her l would expect a severe punishment to follow but my worst punishment would be my own angst over how l let let her down. As of now she keeps me locked cuz she loves the power it gives her but if she ever does let me go on the honor system l would consider it great privilege. She milks me regularly but if l was freed of my cage l would probably need it more often to take the edge off. Especially when she teases me which is a lot. l can't look at her or think about her without getting very horny and getting a stiffey but my cage gets tight and helps to quell things down.If l was on the honor system and cheated when she wasn't home l wouldn't be able to hide my gulit no matter how well l cleaned up. She could read the guilt on my face and make me confess.
Yeah I wouldn't be able to lie to her about it. They're are other things she would do to punish me other than just cutting me off from cleaning, but the guilt would be terrible.
Sheer or small panties so the small penis of the cuck can be seen by the happy wife and bull to reinforce the need for a real man’s cock.
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