Is female clothing an option or a need?

[nicebiguy]

I am female lead and I am denied of any sexual relief for up to a month at a time and when I am allowed to cum I have to jerk off on her or her boyfriends cocks and clean up

Lucky you.

 

[Robbiann_CD]

Check out all the cute young fembois on Reddit that are supported and dressed by their loving mothers

Link to that? I’d love to see that.

 

[Snoopsissy]

It is sad but the road you take doesn't mean you have to be single. You may separate from her but it will free you to seek out someone who accepts you for who you are. Let people see the real you first and let them decide if they want to proceed. I think that is how you will find genuine love. You have time to figure this out and sort out your feelings.

I agree about letting her see the real you . I made and served dinner for my then girl fully dressed and made up , had told her about my little hobby but she didn’t know yo believe it or not - that was about 2 months into relationship - maybe different matter altogether with a long time partner - hope she understands

 

[Thomas H.]

My wife's Bull is into fetish clothing. That's why my wife always wears something made of patent leather for him when they meet. Sometimes a buddy of him is also there with similar preferences. When I get involved, both of them want to see me in feminine clothing when I have to please them. My wife usually helps me get dressed. I'm wearing a pink French maid costume, fishnet tights, high heels and a short hair wig. Usually also white patent gloves. The other day my wife put lipstick on me. But all of this only in our apartment. At first it was very humiliating for me the bull or his friend seeing me in that outfit. But over time I got used to it. Otherwise, I don't wear any feminine clothing. As a wish from the bull my wife and me are discussing a PVC raincoat and overknee boots for me.

 

[droopy1]

My wife's Bull is into fetish clothing. That's why my wife always wears something made of patent leather for him when they meet. Sometimes a buddy of him is also there with similar preferences. When I get involved, both of them want to see me in feminine clothing when I have to please them. My wife usually helps me get dressed. I'm wearing a pink French maid costume, fishnet tights, high heels and a short hair wig. Usually also white patent gloves. The other day my wife put lipstick on me. But all of this only in our apartment. At first it was very humiliating for me the bull or his friend seeing me in that outfit. But over time I got used to it. Otherwise, I don't wear any feminine clothing. As a wish from the bull my wife and me are discussing a PVC raincoat and overknee boots for me.

My wife and I both love all kinds of leather and latex and vinyl clothing. She is so sexy in that stuff and I love wearing it as well. My wife's closet has more PVC than a shower curtain factory.

 

[nicebiguy]

My cuckoldress started dressing me in female clothes many years since. She is a tomboy and has herself always worn jeans.

Therefore for us my feminisation has followed the same route and i wear knickers, female jeans sometimes tight or semi tight fitting ones, cage and collar everyday of my life.
If i am lucky i am allocated suspenders/ a garter belt occasionally under my female jeans as a treat. Regularly i wear a female hoodies in female bright colours.

I ...... in female pink silky PJs and on holiday alone wear bikini bottoms or female brightly coloured shorts.

I do have mens clothes, one pair of jeans and a couple of pairs of undies, a couple of pair of shorts thats it, rarely worn but just in case.

If we are going out with friends and i am allocated suspenders sometimes i wear mens tight fitting jeans, the pockets hid the straps at the front as we dont want anyone to know.

Its not as extreme as most here but she would never dress me in a skirt or dress as they are rarely worn by her anyway.

I do like it when we go out, matching knickers, me in female jeans and her tightish mens jeans, i think thats rather kinky.

Lucky you.💋

 

[nicebiguy]

Very true but here lately it seems more and more people are more accepting and it's being pushed to be "the norm". I'm not really into be outed and people knowing, the only people that I really want to know and approve are my wife and any possible FWB that I might acquire. As a genetic male, my hands and feet are rather big, definitely couldn't pass easily in public but I think I'd be a fun time for a special guy if it were just the two of us alone.

I'd love for my wife to approve of my dressing and take part in it with me, wouldn't even have to be an "all the time" thing either.

The only problem being out in public is you could be harassed by the assholes.

 

[dickhurtz]

My wife decides what I wear every day. At home it's usually a dress or skirt and blouse especially if her lover is planning on visiting. She want's me in a dress for his amusement. When she takes me out it depends on where we go. Sometimes it's a skirt and blouse other times jeans or slacks or leggings. At work I dress like most of the other women there which is usually leggings and blouse. I also tote a handbag. I work a traditionally female job as a seamstress in a shop with mostly women and I'm generally considered the shop sissy but all the girls are nice to me. They treat me like one of the girls and things are mostly nonchalant. I pass very easily so being in public isn't a big deal usually.

have you ever posted pictures of you, dressed?

 

[dickhurtz]

Check out all the cute young fembois on Reddit that are supported and dressed by their loving mothers

i've never been on reddit. can you send me a link? i'd love to see them.

 

[droopy1]

have you ever posted pictures of you, dressed?

No she won't let me.

 

[Snoopsissy]

my dressing up seems to go in cycles not only for me but my wife as well . I’m sure all cds are aware and have done ‘ the purge ‘ on all your femme clothes and stuff only for it to come back , sometimes even stronger than before . Sometimes that’s due to personal feelings or even a partners influence . Where my internal conflict lies is mostly the latter . I’ve been a crossdresser for around 15 odd years in total , 7 of which as a single guy and the next 8 years with my wife ,so she is well aware of my ‘ hobby ‘ lol . She confuses me as sometimes she helps me with it - picking / suggesting clothing etc etc but other times does her own purging of feelings towards the femme side of me , sometimes accepting - it’s inside of you and so nothing you can do about it - sometimes not - I’m not a real man - half man - half woman , next she switches back showing me two tops she bought and telling me the other colours etc the shop has . She refuses to buy me any female clothing but will help me in a shop . Says it’s ok to dress but only when She is out but it’s ok to fully dress and have a drink / karaoke with her stating - it’s not ok but the drink helps her !!!?? . As some will know your in a mental limbo wrestling with lots of feelings towards it in general without having to deal with an on /off partner who you think is understanding and one in a million to a partner who seems disgusted with what you do and who you are . I have been out dressed a few times again with my wife and as far as I know we both had a great time - then she didn’t want to do that again - then it was dressing only in the house , then only when she wasn’t in - but is ok with me wearing a T-shirt and bra with my tits sticking out !. The latest one is she is ok with it as long as it’s not ‘ in her face ‘ . She says she was ok with it but it’s getting more and more - but I’d have thought that was only natural if you thought your partner was ok with things and again understanding and supportive of your femme side . She knows full well I just want to dress like a normal everyday woman not hooker heels and micro minis etc . Like most things regarding sexual stuff I just don’t get her fucking attitude and double standards - anyone had the same and sorry it’s a novel lol

 

[Snoopsissy]

No she won't let me.

Here is me - be gentle ha ha

 

[Jeanswatcher]

my dressing up seems to go in cycles not only for me but my wife as well . I’m sure all cds are aware and have done ‘ the purge ‘ on all your femme clothes and stuff only for it to come back , sometimes even stronger than before . Sometimes that’s due to personal feelings or even a partners influence . Where my internal conflict lies is mostly the latter . I’ve been a crossdresser for around 15 odd years in total , 7 of which as a single guy and the next 8 years with my wife ,so she is well aware of my ‘ hobby ‘ lol . She confuses me as sometimes she helps me with it - picking / suggesting clothing etc etc but other times does her own purging of feelings towards the femme side of me , sometimes accepting - it’s inside of you and so nothing you can do about it - sometimes not - I’m not a real man - half man - half woman , next she switches back showing me two tops she bought and telling me the other colours etc the shop has . She refuses to buy me any female clothing but will help me in a shop . Says it’s ok to dress but only when She is out but it’s ok to fully dress and have a drink / karaoke with her stating - it’s not ok but the drink helps her !!!?? . As some will know your in a mental limbo wrestling with lots of feelings towards it in general without having to deal with an on /off partner who you think is understanding and one in a million to a partner who seems disgusted with what you do and who you are . I have been out dressed a few times again with my wife and as far as I know we both had a great time - then she didn’t want to do that again - then it was dressing only in the house , then only when she wasn’t in - but is ok with me wearing a T-shirt and bra with my tits sticking out !. The latest one is she is ok with it as long as it’s not ‘ in her face ‘ . She says she was ok with it but it’s getting more and more - but I’d have thought that was only natural if you thought your partner was ok with things and again understanding and supportive of your femme side . She knows full well I just want to dress like a normal everyday woman not hooker heels and micro minis etc . Like most things regarding sexual stuff I just don’t get her fucking attitude and double standards - anyone had the same and sorry it’s a novel lol

Hi,

You dress in more feminine clothing than i ever have, my wife is naturally a tomboy, so she dresses me in the type of clothes she normally wears, knickers, tight female jeans, sometimes suspenders or tights under my jeans and sometimes brightly coloured female hoodies.

I am permanently caged, collared with painted toe nails. It was she my cuckoldress that actually wanted her tall masculine husband to become caged and semi feminised. I had never till then had any desires to wear female clothes or heard of a chastity cage.

She has driven this for many years buying me female clothing so we now wear most of the time the same stuff, even matching female silky PJs.

The one item i am not allowed is an invisable bra top, one that would just give me an A cup, which i probably could fill naturally . This is a red line for her, she couldnt accept it and has said thats too weird, though for me it would be ideal as then i wouldnt show my pierced nipples through some of my female clothing and a bra is feminine.

So i am caged, collared, wear knickers everyday, 95% of the time tight or semi tight female jeans, suspenders, or tights, female shorts and sometimes matching bikini bottoms and female tops or hoodies, ...... together in female PJs but a small invisable bra top... she finds that weird?.

A semi common phrase of hers is, i married a masculine, dominant man and want you to remain the man i married, i understand sort of, last time she said this i was fully dressed in female clothing, bought by her and laid out on the bed for me by her to go shopping in.....

Not that long since as i stood in a tight pair of girlie jeans, as she calls them a pair i have worn to go out in many times, allocated and bought by her: she said,

i think these tight jeans make you look gay, are you bi? followed by, i wont mind if you were, ive always thought you probably might be.
When i expressed my surprise at this especially as she has never said this before and we had been together for so many years, she said i will move you away from very tight jeans into the more modern female baggy girlfriend style. OK.

Within days stood in a shop she held up a pair of jeans, i looked, and mentioned these are the same size, tight female jeans?, i questioned, i thought you were moving away from this size being so tight, she replied nah, its not often i see these your size, so we will have them.

Confused? i was, i later took them back as ive about 12 pairs of these already.

She still allocates the same tight jeans when we go out, dispite what she said, now she looks and says..they look fine.

Christmas day a large family gathering here, she laid out my knickers and MALE jeans as her parents were coming she wanted me to be more masculine, yet still caged freshly painted toe nails. She bought me two new permanent collar for christmas and removed my old one, a collarless day, first for years. umm ok.

New years eve party, most of the same people inc her parents, plus friends, she allocated me, knickers, semi tight female jeans and suspenders, collared, and caged.

Late new years day here, another gathering the same family attended inc her parents, this time:, collared, caged, knickers, she allocated me a pink hoodie, semi tight female jeans and tights for under them.

Three different sets of clothing to greet the same people in a week!.

She also wears and likes mens clothing, she always has, she sometimes wears male boyshorts under her mens jeans and a male top to go out in. Obviously this is more socially acceptable, but i do find it rather kinky that she is wearing masculine clothes, out with her husband that she has dressed, in female clothing and tight female jeans.

I have for years felt that her mind works on variable voltage what she says and then does can change by the minute and that covers areas away from our clothing and kinky life as a cuckold couple.

 

[paulhallirl]

Here is me - be gentle ha ha

Gorgeous!

 

[Snoopsissy]

Hi,

You dress in more feminine clothing than i ever have, my wife is naturally a tomboy, so she dresses me in the type of clothes she normally wears, knickers, tight female jeans, sometimes suspenders or tights under my jeans and sometimes brightly coloured female hoodies.

I am permanently caged, collared with painted toe nails. It was she my cuckoldress that actually wanted her tall masculine husband to become caged and semi feminised. I had never till then had any desires to wear female clothes or heard of a chastity cage.

She has driven this for many years buying me female clothing so we now wear most of the time the same stuff, even matching female silky PJs.

The one item i am not allowed is an invisable bra top, one that would just give me an A cup, which i probably could fill naturally . This is a red line for her, she couldnt accept it and has said thats too weird, though for me it would be ideal as then i wouldnt show my pierced nipples through some of my female clothing and a bra is feminine.

So i am caged, collared, wear knickers everyday, 95% of the time tight or semi tight female jeans, suspenders, or tights, female shorts and sometimes matching bikini bottoms and female tops or hoodies, ...... together in female PJs but a small invisable bra top... she finds that weird?.

A semi common phrase of hers is, i married a masculine, dominant man and want you to remain the man i married, i understand sort of, last time she said this i was fully dressed in female clothing, bought by her and laid out on the bed for me by her to go shopping in.....

Not that long since as i stood in a tight pair of girlie jeans, as she calls them a pair i have worn to go out in many times, allocated and bought by her: she said,

i think these tight jeans make you look gay, are you bi? followed by, i wont mind if you were, ive always thought you probably might be.
When i expressed my surprise at this especially as she has never said this before and we had been together for so many years, she said i will move you away from very tight jeans into the more modern female baggy girlfriend style. OK.

Within days stood in a shop she held up a pair of jeans, i looked, and mentioned these are the same size, tight female jeans?, i questioned, i thought you were moving away from this size being so tight, she replied nah, its not often i see these your size, so we will have them.

Confused? i was, i later took them back as ive about 12 pairs of these already.

She still allocates the same tight jeans when we go out, dispite what she said, now she looks and says..they look fine.

Christmas day a large family gathering here, she laid out my knickers and MALE jeans as her parents were coming she wanted me to be more masculine, yet still caged freshly painted toe nails. She bought me two new permanent collar for christmas and removed my old one, a collarless day, first for years. umm ok.

New years eve party, most of the same people inc her parents, plus friends, she allocated me, knickers, semi tight female jeans and suspenders, collared, and caged.

Late new years day here, another gathering the same family attended inc her parents, this time:, collared, caged, knickers, she allocated me a pink hoodie, semi tight female jeans and tights for under them.

Three different sets of clothing to greet the same people in a week!.

She also wears and likes mens clothing, she always has, she sometimes wears male boyshorts under her mens jeans and a male top to go out in. Obviously this is more socially acceptable, but i do find it rather kinky that she is wearing masculine clothes, out with her husband that she has dressed, in female clothing and tight female jeans.

I have for years felt that her mind works on variable voltage what she says and then does can change by the minute and that covers areas away from our clothing and kinky life as a cuckold couple.

Very interesting

Hi,

You dress in more feminine clothing than i ever have, my wife is naturally a tomboy, so she dresses me in the type of clothes she normally wears, knickers, tight female jeans, sometimes suspenders or tights under my jeans and sometimes brightly coloured female hoodies.

I am permanently caged, collared with painted toe nails. It was she my cuckoldress that actually wanted her tall masculine husband to become caged and semi feminised. I had never till then had any desires to wear female clothes or heard of a chastity cage.

She has driven this for many years buying me female clothing so we now wear most of the time the same stuff, even matching female silky PJs.

The one item i am not allowed is an invisable bra top, one that would just give me an A cup, which i probably could fill naturally . This is a red line for her, she couldnt accept it and has said thats too weird, though for me it would be ideal as then i wouldnt show my pierced nipples through some of my female clothing and a bra is feminine.

So i am caged, collared, wear knickers everyday, 95% of the time tight or semi tight female jeans, suspenders, or tights, female shorts and sometimes matching bikini bottoms and female tops or hoodies, ...... together in female PJs but a small invisable bra top... she finds that weird?.

A semi common phrase of hers is, i married a masculine, dominant man and want you to remain the man i married, i understand sort of, last time she said this i was fully dressed in female clothing, bought by her and laid out on the bed for me by her to go shopping in.....

Not that long since as i stood in a tight pair of girlie jeans, as she calls them a pair i have worn to go out in many times, allocated and bought by her: she said,

i think these tight jeans make you look gay, are you bi? followed by, i wont mind if you were, ive always thought you probably might be.
When i expressed my surprise at this especially as she has never said this before and we had been together for so many years, she said i will move you away from very tight jeans into the more modern female baggy girlfriend style. OK.

Within days stood in a shop she held up a pair of jeans, i looked, and mentioned these are the same size, tight female jeans?, i questioned, i thought you were moving away from this size being so tight, she replied nah, its not often i see these your size, so we will have them.

Confused? i was, i later took them back as ive about 12 pairs of these already.

She still allocates the same tight jeans when we go out, dispite what she said, now she looks and says..they look fine.

Christmas day a large family gathering here, she laid out my knickers and MALE jeans as her parents were coming she wanted me to be more masculine, yet still caged freshly painted toe nails. She bought me two new permanent collar for christmas and removed my old one, a collarless day, first for years. umm ok.

New years eve party, most of the same people inc her parents, plus friends, she allocated me, knickers, semi tight female jeans and suspenders, collared, and caged.

Late new years day here, another gathering the same family attended inc her parents, this time:, collared, caged, knickers, she allocated me a pink hoodie, semi tight female jeans and tights for under them.

Three different sets of clothing to greet the same people in a week!.

She also wears and likes mens clothing, she always has, she sometimes wears male boyshorts under her mens jeans and a male top to go out in. Obviously this is more socially acceptable, but i do find it rather kinky that she is wearing masculine clothes, out with her husband that she has dressed, in female clothing and tight female jeans.

I have for years felt that her mind works on variable voltage what she says and then does can change by the minute and that covers areas away from our clothing and kinky life as a cuckold couple.

very interesting and thank you for your informative insight . I think my wife is similar to yours in as much as she dresses like a tomboy too , I wish my wife would be involved in my hobby even like yours to allocating me knickers or something - u fortunately my wife has not one kinky bone it seems in her body and I think that was down somewhat to her ...... who was and still is overweight and for the past 8 years I have known her has only ever dressed in baggy tops and leggings so skirts / heels and tights / stockings were somewhat frowned upon . I on the other hand not only as a cd but before loved them on women - I’m sure most men do . My wife I think Just can’t seem to let herself go and please her cd husband - so do you think your wife will push you into doing stuff with other men as I think she was testing the water with those comments . As a straight guy who just loves everything about female clothing and make up etc I see it as a sort of escapism but my wife I think views it as abnormal .

 

[nicebiguy]

Very interesting

very interesting and thank you for your informative insight . I think my wife is similar to yours in as much as she dresses like a tomboy too , I wish my wife would be involved in my hobby even like yours to allocating me knickers or something - u fortunately my wife has not one kinky bone it seems in her body and I think that was down somewhat to her ...... who was and still is overweight and for the past 8 years I have known her has only ever dressed in baggy tops and leggings so skirts / heels and tights / stockings were somewhat frowned upon . I on the other hand not only as a cd but before loved them on women - I’m sure most men do . My wife I think Just can’t seem to let herself go and please her cd husband - so do you think your wife will push you into doing stuff with other men as I think she was testing the water with those comments . As a straight guy who just loves everything about female clothing and make up etc I see it as a sort of escapism but my wife I think views it as abnormal .

I think a better word describing the feelings I get acting,dressing and being fem is liberating. Nice relief from having to be the stud all the time. Feels good too.

 

[wifelovesbbc69]

I love wearing heels and hovering over my BBC dildos

 

[nicebiguy]

I love wearing heels and hovering over my BBC dildos

Hoovering over? How about riding them like a 10 cent whore?😍

 

[Snoopsissy]

I think a better word describing the feelings I get acting,dressing and being fem is liberating. Nice relief from having to be the stud all the time. Feels good too.

Yes exactly - I view it like an actor playing a part - just feel so relaxed and happy inside if that’s the right term . The clothes just feel so good on - unless your doing it all it’s hard to explain fully - I don’t feel like I want to do anything with a man as im straight but just sit fully dressed / made up and my legs crossed etc is heaven - as you say an escape

 

[cuckoldlatino22]

VerDressing as a woman in public is a mixture of eroticism and a lot of adrenaline when that fetish is your most intimate secret, imagine driving your car and being stopped by a traffic policeman.