There’s some element of me being in the comfort zone with it now, but I wouldn’t say it took much getting used to either. I did have to go through a period of wondering what it would feel like and trying DIY types of things to simulate the experience before I finally gave myself permission to acquire a real cage. I think that’s a very common phase, and it’s more the recognition and self-acceptance part, the mental and emotional coming-to-grips with these feelings that, unfortunately, run
counter to so much of our rigid social conditioning. I do think that can take a while for a lot of us. It certainly did for me.
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But there was such a resounding feeling of affirmation from the very first moment I actually put on a cock cage. I’m talking one of those cosmic tumblers aligning, FUCK, YEAH!!! moments. I think that’s something a LOT of us share as well. Sort of like, whyTF did I ever hesitate and resist, wait so long to do this??
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So if there is one critical piece of advice I could offer to other guys who will grapple with this, it’s to simply trust yourself and your feelings! There is absolutely nothing wrong with you…or those feelings. Be your true self. It’s just so silly and pointless to fight instinct. And it’s ironic and complex and beautiful
and completely incongruous —and I’ve discussed this with other guys too—that caging your dick and balls, especially for us smaller dicked guys, really can feel like a kind of freedom.
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Another important thing, just as critical, is to share your feelings with your partner. Trust her too. There is nothing quite like having her see you in it the first time. I lost my virginity to my wife and the feelings and emotions as she slipped my briefs down to see me caged were of a similar intensity.
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