So, I’ll try and keep this as short as I can. Been thinking about getting my wife into the lifestyle I’ve mentioned it, she bat it away. I’ve seen stories of how men slowly over years got her there. Because they knew how much better a ‘big cock’ would be. I make my wife cum tonnes, dripping wet, mouth open. I’m six inches and a little girthy. Some positions we could do with me taking an inch off ‘doggy’ then there are more complicated position where an extra inch would help. So I was chatting to a guy and he invited me to attend a few of his swingers nights. I said I just wanted to observe, my wife doesn’t know. I did get naked as it would have been weird if I didn’t. I saw guys with huge cocks pounding women. Not one decent orgasm observed. Loud noises and grunts. But no orgasms. UNLESS he was playing with her clit while banging her or she was grinding him! I saw guys with average cocks and big ones fuck the same women and guess what, exactly the same outcome in terms of the women having an orgasm regardless of size! Some women were in pain with the big ones but seemed to like it, some who were a lot more vocal with the big ones seemed way more relaxed and at home with the more average ones. One guy had a really long thin cock and he got loads of attention and showed me a thing or two! All in all. I’ve been 3 times and not seen A SINGLE WOMAN have an orgasm from penetration only. Unless there was clit grinding cowgirl style or toys and fingers used while being fucked. Can’t lie. The women seemed to love the variety of men and were certainly loving it. But big dicks bringing orgasms never happened. I read so many bulls and ducks writing ‘he slid in her and she came 5 times on five thrusts’. I’m calling this nonsense now. Whereas before I was believing it! Certainly has ruined a few sexual fantasies that got me hot though. Any thoughts? Females, especially VERIFIED ones would be AMAZING.
Big cocks bringing orgasms is a myth.
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I agree
I never have any trouble making a woman cum with my 7” cock
In the past my wife has complained because longer for her is painful
Her 8” dildo is never used
She wanted girth 😉
I agree
I never have any trouble making a woman cum with my 7” cock
In the past my wife has complained because longer for her is painful
Her 8” dildo is never used
She wanted girth 😉
orbitxxx
Male
Imo any cock above 5" should be more than enough, to make any women orgasm.
There is a lot more than just cock size to the full picture.
I'm 6.2" long with around 5.5" in girth and my wife has no problems in reaching multiple orgasms when we fuck, with toys or not.
Certain positions (like doggy) will make her uncomfortable with pain if I get all the way deep.
There is a lot more than just cock size to the full picture.
I'm 6.2" long with around 5.5" in girth and my wife has no problems in reaching multiple orgasms when we fuck, with toys or not.
Certain positions (like doggy) will make her uncomfortable with pain if I get all the way deep.
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I think you need a woman’s opinion on this for anything approaching a definitive answer.
For what it’s worth, I know my wife tends to have different types of orgasms if, for example, I bring her off with two fingers on her g-spot or if I work my entire hand into her and fist her slowly. The first is specific to her g-spot whereas the second stretches her vagina because of the greater width. Both types of orgasms are beautiful but to me they feel different (the fist tends to produce more powerful ones, but with the g-spot several orgasms just flow one after the other and can go on for ages). It always ends with me penetrating her and giving her more that way too. I do love how hyper sensitive her body is.
I’ve never asked her if she feels any difference. Perhaps I should.
For what it’s worth, I know my wife tends to have different types of orgasms if, for example, I bring her off with two fingers on her g-spot or if I work my entire hand into her and fist her slowly. The first is specific to her g-spot whereas the second stretches her vagina because of the greater width. Both types of orgasms are beautiful but to me they feel different (the fist tends to produce more powerful ones, but with the g-spot several orgasms just flow one after the other and can go on for ages). It always ends with me penetrating her and giving her more that way too. I do love how hyper sensitive her body is.
I’ve never asked her if she feels any difference. Perhaps I should.
Informal stuff for sure. But like a fist and a cock can’t ever compare. Like fisting someone and putting your cock in someone will never be the same. It’s not my gripe with these cuckold sites.
My wife doesn't cum from penetration at all. We've tried everything. I don't think a bigger cock is going to change that. Having said that though, her pussy definitely responds differently to her bigger dildo. I don't know why.
I think we've touched on this topic before. For the longest time my wife didn't orgasm from penetration. She had no trouble cumming from oral. Once she got her Hitachi Magic Wand she broke that barrier. My wife doesn't like dildos or other vibrators, only her magic wand. Typically we'd do it doggy style with her magic wand pressed up against her clit and me doing her from behind. She got to where having 6 or more orgasms that way was a typical result. Sometimes it was a lot more. I'd even joke with her that I didn't even get 10 strokes in before she was quivering again from an orgasm.
After a few years she got to where she didn't need the magic wand to cum from penetration. Believe it or not I think it's taken most of her adult life to learn her own body. Now days if she wants to have fun we can do it without any mechanical assistance. When she really wants to have fun she'll get out her trusty Hitachi Magic Wand.
Girth is more important than length for my wife. But the guy still needs to know how to use it first and foremost.
bluejay88
Couple
I once asked my wife what the perfect fuck would be for her, and she replied any guy that is half decent looking, ht/wt proportioned, smells clean and not over-cologned, firm but not rough, and has a thick cock that stays hard a good while. So cock size was thrown in there as a desired element. A bigger cock may not be the entire reason she's getting an orgasm, but it definitely seems to be a part of the formula when she's having a good one.
I seen guys thicker than you fucking women and no orgasms were witnessed and it wasn’t one dude and one woman it was MANY. I was shocked how lose it can get in this lifestyle. Not judging at all. Anything anyone wants to enjoy that doesn’t hurt others is worth doing. But like after all was said and done I’m sitting talking to what you would perceive as very ‘Normal people’ and I’ve just watched 4 of them take about 12 different cocks in 5 hours.
Ok and no doubt. If I could chose to have a ‘tight vagina’ in my top 6 things a woman could have when meeting it would be there. But a tight vagina doesn’t give me an orgasm I can feel in my face. 55 minutes of a woman who is skilled with her mouth and hands is the ONLY thing that’s going to give me an orgasm which I feel all over. Don’t get me wrong I love the sensation of fucking. But fucking doesn’t bring my best orgasms personally speaking. I’ve also only had multiple orgasms while edging myself. How can anyone else know EXACTLY when to stop and continue?
7 inches is BIG. Avge European is 5. 5, Asians less. I am 7+ and my wife can cum easily riding it, no clit play. She has a bull 8in and she cums constantly as he pumps her.
Most women can cum riding any sized cock. Hell women ride each other with no cock and cum. Again I’ve not seen one genuine real life example of big cocks creating orgasms. Only time I fuck a woman and she cums is if in some way I am balls deep grinding on her clit.
But to be honest I love a big thick long cock in my ass fucking me REAL HARD
I read of a female researcher who found out the the size most purchased dildo. Claims it was 6". They say the average size of cocks is 5 to 6 inches. That being said, it seems to me the biggest sex organ is the brain.
Regarding our experiences (both wife and husband) the size of a cock does matter, but only to a degree or extent.
Size matters when the male organ is unfortunately too small. We mean the clinically small ones, not talking about the 5 incher which is probably the median or average for many people and is very able to satisfy.
Size matters when the male organ is big and thick, because it is alluring for most women. They expect more pleasure, excitement, and to pose proud before other women as a conqueror of the big scary one-eyed monster. Yes, a big cock male is indeed some kind of a trophy for playful wives.
Size matters when the woman is satisfied with her partners sizes and mainly because they know how to handle their girth and reach in her favor, making her cum good.
So, a big cock brings orgams and probably more allure and excitement than an average joe one (not an offense, husband has a 6 inches and is fine). Therefore, it is not a myth.
The myth is to believe that just a big dong hanging between any male legs would be enough to transform him into a Bull or Casanova!
Size matters when the male organ is unfortunately too small. We mean the clinically small ones, not talking about the 5 incher which is probably the median or average for many people and is very able to satisfy.
Size matters when the male organ is big and thick, because it is alluring for most women. They expect more pleasure, excitement, and to pose proud before other women as a conqueror of the big scary one-eyed monster. Yes, a big cock male is indeed some kind of a trophy for playful wives.
Size matters when the woman is satisfied with her partners sizes and mainly because they know how to handle their girth and reach in her favor, making her cum good.
So, a big cock brings orgams and probably more allure and excitement than an average joe one (not an offense, husband has a 6 inches and is fine). Therefore, it is not a myth.
The myth is to believe that just a big dong hanging between any male legs would be enough to transform him into a Bull or Casanova!