My wife loves to edge me first thing in the morning, then right at the peak she stops and sends me out to make her coffee. I can hear her cumming with her vibrator all the way from the kitchen, and by the time I bring her coffee to the bedroom she is fucking her favorite dildo and makes me wait at the threshold and watch.
She loves fucking "Jamie" in front of me, and when she's had enough it's my task to wash her toys and put them away, after I eat her pussy out.
Her dildo play has taken her from vanilla wife to a bit more of a dominatrix role playing hotwife. It's working for both of us.