Sometimes a near miss is just as exciting. My wife had the hots for a guy that worked on our cabin build and they flirted for weeks before she invited him to ride horses with her. He was seperated from his wife and my wife felt sorry for him but was turned on by his "muscular body". After a few rides in her sexy tight outfits he asked her if she would do an overnight camping trip with the horses. We talked about it and decided she should go knowing she would be having sex with him. Being a bit pushy I had to hear it from her, so I asked her one night while we were getting it on if she was planning on having sex with him on the campout. She knew it would turn me on and she said "what do you think, of course I will and I'm ready!" It was the best sex we had in a long time. It all fell through as the guy unexpectedly got back with his wife. My wife was happy they worked it out and she found out later that his wife got jealous and decided he wasn't so bad after all. Even though they never got it in it was great for our sex lives.