my wife told me she likes it a little rough. i can't do that to her. that is why women need more than one lover. this way, they get all the boxes checked.
A Catholic Wife's Decay
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Yes. And don't matter how much you (the husband, as it is my case) love to think about giving the wife a rough time or love the idea of being dominant towards her, when it comes the time to play you just simply can't act.
I can recall endlessly times that I tried to put to reality a more rough roleplay with my wife or even girlfriends and it just wouldn't come out as expected. Not even nearly as expected. It fells you are misplaced, or being a jerk or that you just aren't that much of a naughty man to manhandle a woman.
On the contrary the men able to do so almost perform on automatic or natural.
One friend from here (WWTP) asked us about the steps should a man or a couple which wants to have our lifestyle might pay attention to or need to be concerned about at first. We are happy to answer (although we aren't any kind of expert) but we decided to do it here through an open post. And in the absence of a specific thread about this, then it goes hereby:
1. You must already know that you will face and take risks.
2. The transition is much easier if your wife is a bit of a slut.
3. Have you ever exposed yourselves in any way? Have you tried exhibitionism?
4. Don't start playing during a crisis.
5. Take the Movie Theater/Cinema Test.
1. You must know that no matter how stable and enjoyable your marriage or union may be, by slamming the doors to a lifestyle of open, casual sex or cuckold roleplay, you run the risk of drastically (and even irreversibly) changing the dynamics of your relationship. The man might face regret feelings beyond repair. She might fall in love for other men or simple get tired from having the husband nearby whenever she will be in intimacy with another fellow.
Risks are calculated, yes. But you can't control every bit of a thing.
So, if you both just can't stand or handle risks like these, jump out of the fucking other people ideas.
2. Yes. If your wife is a woman who has tasted a good variety of penises over the time, and already has enjoyed some naughty kinks regardless of the married sex life you enjoy, then it will be MUCH EASIER to talk about the idea of having sex with other people. And MUCH MORE LIKELY that you will come to an agreement and she will try new things.
This doesn´t mean a woman who is less experienced in terms of partner's quantity or even a bit prudish can't loosen up through interaction with her husband and other naughty men. However, in addition to being less likely to occur, the process of transformation and acceptance is usually more painful, time-consuming and risky. We know personally more traditional-like couples who only started to "open up" when they were nearing 50 years old. Precisely because this process takes time.
3. You recognize those porn scenes where the husband had a revealing conversation with his wife one night, and the next one she's in a gangbang with 3 black guys, 2 blonde dudes and an extra asian man in a big pool, well it is...literally and just porn. Couples don't just dive into their deepest, riskiest fantasies overnight, and without a test bed.
Therefore you might offer the partner with some most practical test beds available today. Practical and hot. Take and share photos (show them you can blur their faces or wear masks if you want), chatting with other couples and singles about fetishes. Who knows, maybe take a vacation and shot some naughty photos outdoors? Try and see. It usually has greater effects than talking repeatedly.
4. Don't do what we did, and don't decide to show off and open up the relationship right after a cheating crisis. No, do it differently, please. We got lucky. We're sure that luck has helped us then.
Because after a relationship crisis feelings are all mixed and distorted. We usually think about the several possibilities and extreme scenarios (like divorce or having sex with other people), and there are too many variables for us to process and make the best decision. Good decisions almost are never made during a hard time. Let the worst go and breathe for a while. Then rebuild your desires and fantasies together.
5. If you have moved on to a phase of starting to meet other people (in many cases, meeting another man in person), don't plan on meeting a guy which is eager to fill your beautiful woman's ass with cum. Calm down, small steps.
Look for a patient nice talk guy who is willing to play it slowly, without high expectations to be naked asap. If you find him, I suggest to give a try over the "Movie Theater game" that my wife and I have played with several guys, especially in the beginning.
Pick a movie theater that offers many rooms-screens and buy tickets for a movie with almost no audience at the time. Chat a bit, have a coffee, and then the three of you (you, wife and friend) go inside the movie theater. Sit on either side of your wife and gradually start touching, squeezing her hands, touching her thighs, touching her breasts. Well, if she wants, she can grab your dicks or even kiss each other. Do it discreetly because nowadays the bastards have cams aiming the seats.
If the game goes smoothly and your wife doesn't feel scared or embarrassed, and you don't feel overwhelmed with jealousy or regret, then that's a good sign. You might proceed with your friend to a hotel or arrange another meeting for some good sexy time.
However if the game played at the movies gets just weird, especially if it gets to the point where she (or you) frozes in fear, or if there's a lot of jealousy around, then the best thing to do is to give up on it and keep the sexual game just between the two of you!
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Following a photo...
1. You must already know that you will face and take risks.
2. The transition is much easier if your wife is a bit of a slut.
3. Have you ever exposed yourselves in any way? Have you tried exhibitionism?
4. Don't start playing during a crisis.
5. Take the Movie Theater/Cinema Test.
1. You must know that no matter how stable and enjoyable your marriage or union may be, by slamming the doors to a lifestyle of open, casual sex or cuckold roleplay, you run the risk of drastically (and even irreversibly) changing the dynamics of your relationship. The man might face regret feelings beyond repair. She might fall in love for other men or simple get tired from having the husband nearby whenever she will be in intimacy with another fellow.
Risks are calculated, yes. But you can't control every bit of a thing.
So, if you both just can't stand or handle risks like these, jump out of the fucking other people ideas.
2. Yes. If your wife is a woman who has tasted a good variety of penises over the time, and already has enjoyed some naughty kinks regardless of the married sex life you enjoy, then it will be MUCH EASIER to talk about the idea of having sex with other people. And MUCH MORE LIKELY that you will come to an agreement and she will try new things.
This doesn´t mean a woman who is less experienced in terms of partner's quantity or even a bit prudish can't loosen up through interaction with her husband and other naughty men. However, in addition to being less likely to occur, the process of transformation and acceptance is usually more painful, time-consuming and risky. We know personally more traditional-like couples who only started to "open up" when they were nearing 50 years old. Precisely because this process takes time.
3. You recognize those porn scenes where the husband had a revealing conversation with his wife one night, and the next one she's in a gangbang with 3 black guys, 2 blonde dudes and an extra asian man in a big pool, well it is...literally and just porn. Couples don't just dive into their deepest, riskiest fantasies overnight, and without a test bed.
Therefore you might offer the partner with some most practical test beds available today. Practical and hot. Take and share photos (show them you can blur their faces or wear masks if you want), chatting with other couples and singles about fetishes. Who knows, maybe take a vacation and shot some naughty photos outdoors? Try and see. It usually has greater effects than talking repeatedly.
4. Don't do what we did, and don't decide to show off and open up the relationship right after a cheating crisis. No, do it differently, please. We got lucky. We're sure that luck has helped us then.
Because after a relationship crisis feelings are all mixed and distorted. We usually think about the several possibilities and extreme scenarios (like divorce or having sex with other people), and there are too many variables for us to process and make the best decision. Good decisions almost are never made during a hard time. Let the worst go and breathe for a while. Then rebuild your desires and fantasies together.
5. If you have moved on to a phase of starting to meet other people (in many cases, meeting another man in person), don't plan on meeting a guy which is eager to fill your beautiful woman's ass with cum. Calm down, small steps.
Look for a patient nice talk guy who is willing to play it slowly, without high expectations to be naked asap. If you find him, I suggest to give a try over the "Movie Theater game" that my wife and I have played with several guys, especially in the beginning.
Pick a movie theater that offers many rooms-screens and buy tickets for a movie with almost no audience at the time. Chat a bit, have a coffee, and then the three of you (you, wife and friend) go inside the movie theater. Sit on either side of your wife and gradually start touching, squeezing her hands, touching her thighs, touching her breasts. Well, if she wants, she can grab your dicks or even kiss each other. Do it discreetly because nowadays the bastards have cams aiming the seats.
If the game goes smoothly and your wife doesn't feel scared or embarrassed, and you don't feel overwhelmed with jealousy or regret, then that's a good sign. You might proceed with your friend to a hotel or arrange another meeting for some good sexy time.
However if the game played at the movies gets just weird, especially if it gets to the point where she (or you) frozes in fear, or if there's a lot of jealousy around, then the best thing to do is to give up on it and keep the sexual game just between the two of you!
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Following a photo...
Another one I have to ask. Who took the picture? Whose phone or camera? Was picture taken while still fresh and warm? If photographer was anyone other than Mr CW was picture forwarded while still fresh and warm?
It was shot by wife's regular friend.
The picture was forwarded when they were still together that night.
She is a horny babe. Keep coming!
About 3 years ago, I (husband) looked to change my car and I found a good deal at a very talkative and amicable - like many other salesmen - car's dealer. The interesting thing was the fact my wife seemed very impressed when we met him - the owner. Since I travel a lot, she had to give me a hand and deal directly with the owner until it cleared the documents, licenses and we could pick up the vehicle in a timely manner.
I noticed that she was aroused, sexually interested in him. She was always mentioning about the guy. Back then I didn't like to let my wife going out with guys we met through our "civil life", you know, acquaintances from daily activities or professionals, etc. But gradually she started going solo with new male-friends she showed some interest at the time, so we agreed that she also would chat with him to probe his potential to become one of "our friends".
The guy is about my age but he is a much stronger and taller guy. He must be 6'4 tall (I am 5'8 tall and my wife is just 5'2), he is kind of a boomer playboy with lots of cars around. Very upbeat person but also very straightforward. I confess that he is not the kind of man I usually empathize with to let my wife be used. However, he was been very appealing to her.
Wife kept in touch with him after the transaction was complete. A few weeks later on, I asked her about the conversations with the shop's owner if she saw any ways he could get into our game nice and slow. But she simply stated that it just wouldn't happen. Then I inquired why she thought that, but my wife strangely downturned the subject.
I thought the subject had dried down, but after I took two or three journeys working out of town (maybe two months) my wife pleaded to talk with me in a somewhat seriously tone. This request made my heart race and she seemed quite distressed, too.
We sat down and I finally found out she had going out with the car dealer man and was having sex with him, just like an ordinary cheating wife does having an affair. She apologized for not telling me explaining she felt afraid that I might wouldn't accept. I asked her why she had kind of broken our agreement since we were suppose to only have sex with people we both knew and agreed. Wife said it happened because "she just really wanted to enjoy the experience of being with him by her own."
We calmed down, and I questioned when and how they started seeing each other intimately. She answered me yet apprehensive: "The first time happened while we were still picking up the car and the paperwork...the second time I met him in the shop. Sorry."
I couldn't imagine it. I felt like a betrayed man once again, but no longer surprised and then I feel quite excited to hear all of that.
... -- if you feel like to read more about this wife's escapade, let us know. You might point out what exciting details you want to know about!
wife's pussy picture back then:
I noticed that she was aroused, sexually interested in him. She was always mentioning about the guy. Back then I didn't like to let my wife going out with guys we met through our "civil life", you know, acquaintances from daily activities or professionals, etc. But gradually she started going solo with new male-friends she showed some interest at the time, so we agreed that she also would chat with him to probe his potential to become one of "our friends".
The guy is about my age but he is a much stronger and taller guy. He must be 6'4 tall (I am 5'8 tall and my wife is just 5'2), he is kind of a boomer playboy with lots of cars around. Very upbeat person but also very straightforward. I confess that he is not the kind of man I usually empathize with to let my wife be used. However, he was been very appealing to her.
Wife kept in touch with him after the transaction was complete. A few weeks later on, I asked her about the conversations with the shop's owner if she saw any ways he could get into our game nice and slow. But she simply stated that it just wouldn't happen. Then I inquired why she thought that, but my wife strangely downturned the subject.
I thought the subject had dried down, but after I took two or three journeys working out of town (maybe two months) my wife pleaded to talk with me in a somewhat seriously tone. This request made my heart race and she seemed quite distressed, too.
We sat down and I finally found out she had going out with the car dealer man and was having sex with him, just like an ordinary cheating wife does having an affair. She apologized for not telling me explaining she felt afraid that I might wouldn't accept. I asked her why she had kind of broken our agreement since we were suppose to only have sex with people we both knew and agreed. Wife said it happened because "she just really wanted to enjoy the experience of being with him by her own."
We calmed down, and I questioned when and how they started seeing each other intimately. She answered me yet apprehensive: "The first time happened while we were still picking up the car and the paperwork...the second time I met him in the shop. Sorry."
I couldn't imagine it. I felt like a betrayed man once again, but no longer surprised and then I feel quite excited to hear all of that.
... -- if you feel like to read more about this wife's escapade, let us know. You might point out what exciting details you want to know about!
wife's pussy picture back then:
Like the saying goes, "There's no putting the genie back in the bottle."
I love the fact that she got used to exploring her sexuality and couldn't resist expanding the base of men she wanted to explore with. Even if it was breaking the rules.
You're very lucky that she is an attractive woman with a wide variety of men she can do this with. I'm happy for you that you could come to grips with the situation and see it for what it was, a horny woman sowing the seeds of her fortune.
BTW, beautiful woman with a lovely pussy.
I love the fact that she got used to exploring her sexuality and couldn't resist expanding the base of men she wanted to explore with. Even if it was breaking the rules.
You're very lucky that she is an attractive woman with a wide variety of men she can do this with. I'm happy for you that you could come to grips with the situation and see it for what it was, a horny woman sowing the seeds of her fortune.
BTW, beautiful woman with a lovely pussy.
I apologize if this has been asked and answered before. Do you do any kind of denial or chastity?
We don't do chastity nor deal with caging etc.
That's because we do have sex with each other (couple) frequently and although it involves talking about or even recollecting the sex encounters wife has with other men we love to have intercourse and passionate just between us, too.
About denial we do have some games between us. Nothing that we insist or strictly follow like any rules or something, but we do have.
Recently we've been playing a monthly cards game. It's like this: My wife and I each choose a number from 1 to 10 and sum them up (for example, 5 + 6 = 11). Then I shuffle the cards and count to 11 cards, finally flipping this one over.
If the card is a suit of hearts = Husband won't have pussy for 1 month
If the card is a suit of diamonds = Husband won't have blowjobs for 1 month
If the card is a suit of clubs = Husband won't have anal sex or any anal play for 1 month
If the card is a suit of spades = Husband won't have any kind penetration for 1 month
We got this idea a while ago and it's been quite fun and thrilling. Ok, some months we ended dropping the rules but that's just fine since we play this looking to spice up and create goosebumps.
Thanks for the reply. I can see that your relationship is more about being "sex positive" than it is about control or controlling.
As to the "denial game", I can understand how it would "spice up" things because it's not one of those "never again" or permanent kind of things. In your game does it ever go beyond a month? Do you play the game back to back each month? Is there potential for you to go more than a month with some sort of restriction?
Yes, it isn't about permanent scenarios.
Well we've been having fun with the cards maybe about 1 year or so. Every month's beginning we remind to renew the "card". So we have to play again and draw another card which will become the new "rule" or denial for another month. And we keep repeating. Yes, there is the risky to draw the same suits again and again.
There were times we dropped the restriction on purpose or without even knowing. But it is exciting to keep the rule on.
For example, the last two months I flipped hearts twice therefore we followed accordingly (husband couldn't fuck pussy by his cock). During one night we were having sex while she was giving a blowjob and I was fucking her with a dildo, but wife got in a very need to feel the real thing so she suddenly jumped over me and just let the pussy slide on my cock. It was a very hot and surprising feeling.
But right after that night we restated the "rule" until its end.
That's how we play this.
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