Oh man, the way you have described her, it's like she is a dream come true! She checks every box in my list and I can't ask for more!
A Catholic Wife's Decay
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Husband wasn't on his knees but in another couch. It was very intense and erotic however not that much dramatic.
Oh we see your point.
We did some encouragement like you mentioned.
During our connections and conversations with like minded people, and interested or curious people and couples online also. We love to chat about the aspects of LS with people in the same way we love to talk here in the forum. We are open to keep doing it so.
I'd like to know more about what you (both) were thinking and feeling when you chose to do this from your original post?
My wife said about the following week when we finally met again that she felt kinda bad, not because the dirty sex (cheating) with that guy but because I suddenly seemed... boring to her eyes. As a remedy, she then decided to cut off all textings and sex encounters with the guy mainly because wife was afraid otherwise it would really sour the way she saw me as a man or a lover. A decision which according to her actually worked out pretty well.
What have you (or your wife) done to keep those notions of feeling like you were boring from being a problem?
My wife said about the following week when we finally met again that she felt kinda bad, not because the dirty sex (cheating) with that guy but because I suddenly seemed... boring to her eyes. As a remedy, she then decided to cut off all textings and sex encounters with the guy mainly because wife was afraid otherwise it would really sour the way she saw me as a man or a lover. A decision which according to her actually worked out pretty well.
What have you (or your wife) done to keep those notions of feeling like you were boring from being a problem?
Well, husband responding.
I just didn't know she had sex with other guys during our dating or engagement phase. I mean, I didn't know at the time. This was a recent confession - we were already in LS until she spoked about it.
I can only say that I never felt "left behind" or neglected by her while we were dating. On the contrary, she was my most attentive and caring girlfriend, despite the fact that I had accumulated a good deal of past relationships prior meeting my wife, and I mean sexually attentive. I used to call her a "blowjob machine" since it only took myself to ask for to gain one instantly. When she told me all of this I was the one asking questions similar to yours now...like, how did she manage to keep our relationship and the excitement so warmed and kept things going?
Wife responds and justifies that the affection and love she already felt for me kept her interested in everything, including the sex, despite to had realized she certainly wouldn't experience some pleasurable sensations that she loved to feel from the hands of other men.
My personal take on this is a little different and wife knows. I sense she just put up with it for the simple fact that she loves (any) willingly cock, and would rather have some from me than risking being without one around. Since one of her dreams was to get married and my wife wanted to marry me, then she got content with the cock she had... therefore she put up with this deal for a long time, until my wife cheated on me after some time of marriage.
That is her at that time -- the sweet and almost shy smile from the girl I thought that would keep giving blowjobs just for me and no one else. From an epoch that I thought she only had prior sex with two ex-bfs plus 2 or maybe 3 guys that she seemengly regretted about. Oh yes...
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Thanks for you reply. Without some context it's really difficult to understand. I still would like to know if you (the husband) if you still think of yourself as "boring in her eyes"? Did you share this feeling with her? How did she respond if you mentioned it?
I don't see myself as boring to her eyes now, even more so since our relationship became open and exhibitionist. And in the beggining I didn't feel that way either, because for all intents and purposes we always had frequent sex and no fights. Or so I thought. My wife never voiced her discontent, even though there was some.
But I felt quite a sucker when we face the first time I found she was cheating on me, already married. To cheat on a husband just didn't seem like something that suited her persona, so I got demolished. Even worse was to have her finally telling me the reasons were purely sexual. I felt a limp-dick douche. It hurt like a hell the day she said sex was "just fiery" with some other men. To be honest, until now this term "fiery" whenever I hear brings me visual or sensory memories from that nasty chat.
So back then there were times she recognized seeing me as an absent husband who might not feel quite "fired up" the way she knows other men can feel it. Despite this, wife said she wasn't thinking about divorce at any point and would like to amend.
The main reason she gave as explanation was my absence due to work travels and lack in intimacy talking. Today I know that she also felt a bit frustrated or blocked in sex terms. But it was the betrayal that made us open up and reveal certain things. Until then, I had no idea how much her sex life was experienced and slutty prior meeting me. To save the marriage and sustain our will to remain together, we decided to be very frank and see if "perverting out" could fix things for the good.
My wife has had experiences with some very naughty and dominant guys, men who didn't "ask for a blowjob", but just took their dicks out and rub them in the girl's face. Guys who took their dates to an off-road exit and fuck them in the ass while bending some ass over the car's hood, unlike me who would first think of a nice restaurant and such for a special date. And the truth is that my wife likes naughty men attitude, she always has.
I mean, I felt hurted for some time but didn't think of me as boring. I was (and I am) just a more ordinary person to sex...she is the hidden fiery one!
It is well rested and fixed now since we begin to be naughtier with one another. Our sexual lives as a sharing couple combined with the roleplays that we play among us and within other people, well they have fixed the boredom long gone.
Fuck. I bet you jerk off like mad when you (husband) is out of town. You use the wifes encounters as source material. I know I would use all that time!
Could you show us what was your latest jerk off material from her stuff?
Oh yes grab those hips and throw her ass up a little ways and then proceed to fuck thoroughly while she is sucking on that cock in front of her
I do. I cum many times watching her or talking with her recollecting whatever filthy she has done.
Lately I am crazy about this photo - and fact. Wife went hometown and fooled around quite a bit with an ex-lover there. I was kinda holding this away from sharing because I don't know if this would make you horny or whatever, but fact is she was bending her ass and offering her pussy to him in a dirty basement while she was on her period. It's been months but this view is just too much thrilling.
You can see in this photo near the yellow markings:
Sorry baby. But it isn't dirty, it is beautiful too.
Man fuck!! Otherwise had her didn't prove herself to be a lady before then I would call her a trailer park whore. Just fuck!!
Will she logs now? Could you nudge her to?
I have a questionnaire for her (wife). Simple yes or no but comments are welcome.
1: Is your husband in Top 5 best fucks you had?
2: Is your husband at least in Top 10 best fucks you had?
3: Is your husband in Top 10 bigger dicks you know?
4: Is your husband in Top 10 hotter men you have laid?
5: You mean you had boyfriends for real. Is your husband the most handsome of them? The most hung?
6: Do you prefer to fuck your husband than your friends?
7: Would you call your husband a cuck?
8: Would he see himself as a cuck?
9: Do you and your friends call your husband a cuck while getting messy away from him?
10: Does husband cums while you talk or jerking him off with cuck or humiliation stuff?
Please do answer 😎
Hola
I have a questionnaire for her (wife). Simple yes or no but comments are welcome.
1: Is your husband in Top 5 best fucks you had?
No
2: Is your husband at least in Top 10 best fucks you had?
No
3: Is your husband in Top 10 bigger dicks you know?
No
4: Is your husband in Top 10 hotter men you have laid?
I think my husband is handsome but I think you mean hotter in sexy way. No
5: You mean you had boyfriends for real. Is your husband the most handsome of them? The most hung?
Boyfriends that I showed to family and friends? i had two and my husband. No. I think the ex boyfriends were more manly and my husband knows I think like this because he has asked too before
6: Do you prefer to fuck your husband than your friends?
I like sex with my husband. like it more now than before. But I like even more with my friends.
7: Would you call your husband a cuck?
Call like to say everyday it to him? I do not wake up and say it to my husband and I would not do to any men. Calling bad names without pleasure or reason is mean. But I call him cornudo that is cuckold in Argentina during sex time or when we are talking about sex
8: Would he see himself as a cuck?
Yes. husband is a cornudo. he does not like other people to call him like that and he prefer voyeur or that we share couple. but I see him as cuckold and I like it. I like that it arouses him and I like to be a wife of a cuckold in private.
9: Do you and your friends call your husband a cuck while getting messy away from him?
Yes. The men involved with me and husband are respectful but when it is just me and them we call husband cornudo and it is erotic. i love to hear
10: Does husband cums while you talk or jerking him off with cuck or humiliation stuff?
Do not understand well what you say by humilliation. We do not like these thinks like people caged tied or with knees and head near the floor. I do not feel good calling horrible names to my husband or other men. so these things No. But I like to tell him about sex things I did with other men and say that he is a cuckold and other men made very hard sex with me and he does not. these things we like and we say during make sex.
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Great baby!! Love to hear it from you!!
So forgive me if I confused you about humiliation stuff. Nothing harsh I was intended but you two (and your friends) must have some little games and sexual desires. I believe you or the husband said before that you darling loves to be dominated and fucked hard by those guys. I am talking about that (not gangraping beatings). How much you and your husband get thrilled by you going hardcore in another man hands?
Hola
My feelings about this are a little more simple than my husband said. and I know that sounds strange because I am a woman someone may say.
I prefer bad men like in bad boy term for sex. Sorry I am not good in english but I think you understand. If not tell me. And I had bad or brave men as lovers since I became sexually active. but I also always think that I would not marry one of those men because they are in majority selfish and dangerous. I mean by that I always dated seriously more normal or average men. And normal or nice men like my husband sometimes they feel boring to me for sex.
It does not mean I can not have pleasure with my husband or other men but always will be something missing. I am living better sex life since me and husband became open to many things sexual in past years.
**kisses
I like it. Not those monstrous things and I do not like being totally tied up.
But I love it when men grab me really hard and make me horny. then I encourage them to call me names and try other things. I meant that I do not enjoy to curse or call names on husband and other men but I do like to be treated badly or naughty during sex. I am the one submissive and I really like men who do not hold back and use me whatever the way they want. I like to be degraded to a certain point.
I think it is funny sometimes. Because many men say they will do this and that with the partner during sex. but when they are finally together with a woman who really likes to be dominated and used then they literally frozen. I had asked certain things for men and they got scared and just did not do it or did it with a bit of fear.
Husband is like this. he asks for this and that but he just could not spank me harder if I ask. There is why women keep meeting the same bad guy they know is capable to do it.
**kisses
This.
This is what I want for my wife. I know that she is sub but I'm just too afraid of hurting her and I don't ever want to demean her. If she found a Dom guy that would treat her the way she likes, I would be so happy for her. Not to mention totally turned on.
Simple is a lot easier to understand no matter what the gender is. And yes I do understand you.
You "prefer" bad boy sex. That's where you get the most satisfaction sexually speaking. That doesn't mean you if can't have "bad boy" sex you would rather not have sex at all, right? I would guess that your husband also has a preference as to what type of sex is the most exciting for him too. I'm sure you're aware of that too and want to give him that as much as he wants it for you.
It really sounds like you and your husband have made the mental leap of appreciating sex for different purposes at different times, like enjoying sex for purely recreational purposes and nothing more than that. When you said that you wouldn't want to marry those bad boys I could tell that you only valued them for sex and not for their character. That's why you value your husband. You've probably discovered that there are plenty of men to have sex with but it's a lot harder to find a man that gives you the love and security you need to survive. The pleasure YOU have with your husband is probably a totally different kind of satisfaction for you. I'll bet you do your very best to give your husband the best experience he could hope for whether it's sex or anything else.
You expressed so well many things I said or tried to say. Thank you!
Yes I like intimacy with my husband and other men but intimacy has many ways to be expressed. You say mental leap and it is a fortunate term. but I have to be honest and admit that we were lucky too. Because when we married I did not think our relation would turn to be open. i feared if I perhaps cheat on husband it could end badly.
when we had crisis and decided to try experiment other people we were lucky that almost everything resulted to be better than we think it could be.
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You got me thinking about you and looking to your pictures!!
Picturing your cute face while blowing and working over a nasty big cock till it spurts.
Sorry if if I was invasive (if you want I can delete the material!)
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