I'm in the same situation, dildos and fantasy role play, hoping she will agree to another man one day. She does seem to be getting wilder and more in our fantasy play each time though so maybe it will happen soon.
She started as hotwife in May 2023. Since septembre i am in chastity. She is 24. I am 44.
She fucked 245 times with other men. 203 different guys.
So yes... it happens every week several times.