She's already cheating on you..
Nah that's not the case. We are super domestic. Work and taking care of our kids. There is literally no time to socialize with other adults unless we explicitly make time to do it.
I also probably have a way different definition of cheating then you do. If she went out there and fucked around on me, that's not cheating, she knows there is a consent and a desire on my part for her to do that. Mostly i'd just want to be clued into the details and how it happened.
I am literally trying to encourage her to make time to do things with her friends and asking her to be a little slutty while she is out with them. So far that's been a miss most the time, she is far more interested in doing things as a couple and scoping out the scene that way. Right now, that seems to be what we are planning on doing once we get to the summer months.
You know I finally got her to do some vids/pictures too. She doesn't want to post/share anything yet, but even that was a huge step in the last couple months. Things have been moving along great honestly.