Next steps

[Jacksy]

So I'm a long time lurker on this site. I've been very interested in having my wife in the lifestyle and finally brought it up to her. To my relief she was more intrigued than upset.

Anyway, we talked about it for a few weeks but she came to the conclusion she wouldn't be comfortable talking to random men. She would have to know the person. The problem is, we aren't the most social people. Any advice for this situation would be much appreciated

 

[Fredposer2017]

Hi Jennifer and Sean here. Look for clubs and meet ups for your hobbies and activities. It gives you common ground to meet and talk to potential playmates. You can then steer those conversations and meets to a more intimate level.

 

[SngleBullMaster]

Just ease into it as friends and do friend activities , dinner , movies , hit the bars , just get to know each other then ease yourself into it