My wife is cool with having sex with other guys and telling me about the experiences but is uncomfortable with the cuckold aspects such as taking and sharing photos/videos, humiliating me, having sex in front of me, ordering me around, etc. She currently isn't seeing anyone and her sex drive has plummeted due to work stress and my work schedule being abnormal. Any advice would be huge, I've written stories about by fantasy of it and she is supportive of it but her love and appreciation of me makes it so she is uncomfortable with the stuff I previously mentioned
Wife is open to getting laid but hesitant to the cuckold part
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STOP talking about all that "cuckold" stuff and just let her know it's ok for her to have sex with other guys whenever she wants.
Once she starts that (assuming she does) then you can have her tell you about it, details, etc. If things go well then perhaps slowly introduce
more brazen fantasies. Most people, including wives, find all of that "cuckold" stuff off putting. It's "normalized" here but in reality, all of this
is pretty "out there" for most people. (In reality anyway).
Once she starts that (assuming she does) then you can have her tell you about it, details, etc. If things go well then perhaps slowly introduce
more brazen fantasies. Most people, including wives, find all of that "cuckold" stuff off putting. It's "normalized" here but in reality, all of this
is pretty "out there" for most people. (In reality anyway).
I feel like this is the best advice you will get. Make it enjoyable for her and things might work out for you. Let her find someone she is comfortable with and perhaps he is familiar with the cuckold lifestyle and can help bring her around to it. But to throw everything at her all at once is pretty stressful and that's the last thing anyone wants.
My guess is once she has a new lover and is enjoying it then she will want to do things you enjoy as well.
I don’t think you’ll get a better answer than this one - nailed it in one.
J.
Thank you so very much for this advice, it makes a lot of sense, she's had sex with a lot of people in her past before we met but she's never been in a relationship where she truly love someone so it's definitely different and she's different because that was nearly 10 years ago lol Thank you so much I will be patient and just let it rest, and let her become comfortable with it for herself in time.
Thank you very much for your feedback too, I greatly appreciate it, having more perspectives on it helps greatly. I am definitely hopeful someone worthy will come along, One of the challenges is she feels that there's no way to find someone by normal means who's comfortable by that style of relationship, She believes most guys wanted to be just her and him and not all the extra stuff which I assume is true but it discourages her.
Men can be found. The man who started this journey with us, my wife had known him for awhile. They were friends who met up and played Pokémon Go together. I did not know him at all until after he started being with my wife. He knew she was married and my wife basically propositioned him and he agreed. Over 5 years later and he is still with my wife and they are enjoying each other.
Wow that is an awesome story, thank you for sharing. It is very encouraging to know. There is one guy who is basically her best friend but she told me she doesn't want to actively fuck him because he smells but she doesn't have the heart to tell him that's why she would never make it a all the time thing 😅
There is NO Cuckold part, if she is your wife and ...... with other men then she is in the main more like a Cuckoldress which makes you a Cuck.
Taking pictures, ordering you about or having sex infront of you makes you less of a Cuck not more of one as by true definition a cuck normally is a man unaware his wife has lovers.
From what you say, she is happy to fuck other men and tell you but not with your desire to be involved. Thats her choice a true cuck never get any say anyway.
You should consider yourself lucky, a lot on here will ...... to be where you are anyway.
Taking pictures, ordering you about or having sex infront of you makes you less of a Cuck not more of one as by true definition a cuck normally is a man unaware his wife has lovers.
From what you say, she is happy to fuck other men and tell you but not with your desire to be involved. Thats her choice a true cuck never get any say anyway.
You should consider yourself lucky, a lot on here will ...... to be where you are anyway.
Thank you for your input, I do absolutely go wild hearing her sexual experiences and you make great points
A good cuckold stay focus on pleasing your wife no matter what she wants -- you should start licking her pussy clean after you fuck her then after a few times while you are licking her pussy say - I want to lick your pussy clean every time you fuck another cock.
That is a fantastic idea and thing to note, I appreciate it so very much!
This is a lifestyle meant to be lived as a couple, not one-sided. Make sure to let her experiment and try new things she is comfortable with, build her self confidence, learn how to feel pleasure with other men again. The watching/recording/humiliation part will eventually pop up if she feels like it.
Those are really great points, just like every relationship it takes both to make it work, I definitely love to be supportive and patient, wish I could help her build her confidence in herself.
it takes time since it will be a different dynamic. Just be patient and you will be well rewarded..
Thank you for the encouragement I greatly appreciate it 😊
jthompson1234
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Wishing you the best of luck my friend, hope you can both find enjoyment together 👍
nobs99
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Literally start watching porn constantly don't give her a orgasam unless it's the part you're wanting and tell her to listen how she speaks to her husband while being gangbanged.
Also take her to a adult bookstore and let her blow a few different men and colors and if she needs convincing you want this as much as you can get her to do start sucking black cock in front of her as you're fingering her slit.
Very soon you're going to get your desired results.
I'm talking I walked my girlfriend 3rd date into a club and walked straight into the men's restroom and pulled her skit down bent her over slammed into her pussy about three minutes before the line started forming and I stepped aside and let 23 black guys wreck the slut and made her fall in love with me since she's well aware I love to see her sexually satisfied and physically happy with having a husband who worships and adores her body.
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