So my wife (40) has lost her libido. She never initiated sex and early on in our marriage she was amazing. We even had 2 mfm threesomes in our second year. After 12 years she has lost it altogether. I started experiencing some ED and now take a daily pill which fixes that issue for me. Does anyone have advice on how I can get her to warm up? She even came back from a cruise to the Bahamas today and she only flirted with a guy.
Wife has lost her libido..
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Possible health issues..
Communicate with here ask her what's going on.
Communicate with here ask her what's going on.
My wife went on hormone replacement...it helps! although I'm still a wannabe...she does like sex more now
My wife has seen a doctor and they've changed her anxiety meds. She only wants sex about once a month now if that but I would like to get closer to once a week at least. Maybe hormone therapy would help her.
My wife has done bioidentical hormone replacement several times over the years, but it has been a while. The doc does blood work to check her levels, then implants a pellet with all the stuff to straighten things out into a small incision in her butt cheek. A few days before she has it done, you'd better be eating your Wheaties.....because that ...... works! 😍 In a few days, Susan would start feeling the effects and we'd be back at it. In about 2 weeks, her clit stayed swollen up and hard, resembling a small dick. She was ready to fuck every man she could get ahold of for a month or two before it started wearing off and she would need a new pellet. She timed it just right once, a few weeks before we had vacation at the beach scheduled and booked. She fucked 13 different men that week! We're mid 60's now, and it has been a while since she had a treatment. She keeps talking about getting one, but just stays too busy to call and make an appointment. I hope she will soon, because I'd love to see her go thru a few more phases of getting cock after cock.
it is so hard when yyou marry a slutty girl who will fuck laods of other guys while you watch and then who completely changes. You feel cheated. Very frustating. They are selfish fuckers.
So kind of a check in and hoping someone has ideas. I help my wife out with chores and the young ones. We're busy people but I want to be busy with her as well. She's 40 and has anxiety which she is treated for. She has low self esteem with her body even though I constantly tell her how beautiful she is and I show my desire for her. Is there any supplements that might help her or something that I can try to get her more interested? She does have regular orgasms with me but she just seems to want to jump in bed to relax and then ....... Her energy levels have been low. Looking for any ideas. Doctors haven't done ...... for her.
Her doctor did a full blood panel but nothing was mentioned about her levels. I need to ask her later if she has those results.
For low self-esteem there is nothing you can say - wives tend to believe, since you're they're husband, you have to say positive things, so you don't count lol... Best thing my wife did was get a gym membership. Even though it has not really had much impact on her physical appearance (which was already better than most other woman her age) just going and exercising has made her feel a lot better about herself.
For hormones, you could try DHEA, which is available without a prescription and is a hormone precursor. Depending on the exact source of the issue it may or may not help and she might need actual hormone replacement. For my wife, she had low DHEA, which was causing reduced hormone production and taking an over-the-counter supplement seems to have helped. At least, since she started taking it, we had sex twice in a week for the first time in forever.
To get your wife's hormone levels checked, she will need to ask to get that specifically tested, they don't usually check that in a regular blood panel.
chances are she doesnt give a ...... about her low interest in sex. Her life is sorted through motherhood and having a roof and food. U r stuck due to the kids. She has all she needs without the high sex drive. This is all many women want, so getting her to go get her hormones checked might be hard.
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