Wife Might Be Inching Closer to the Isea of Cucking Me

[405cuck]

Oh man, this has been a fantasy for over 25 years.

We married young at 18,19 and just celebrated our 25 year wedding anniversary this year.

I am very inadequate,(3.75” erect) and also have premature ejaculation. Not only am I small, but also don’t last long. I’ve never given her an orgasm during sex, but can satisfy her with my mouth or fingers just fine.

She is the only girl I’ve ever been with, and she has been with 6 guys before we met. So she has experienced good sex.

Our marriage is rock solid and we are great together. She has remained faithful throughout our marriage and has refused to even talk about cuckolding with me. She knows about my fantasy and it’s been in the back of her head since before we married.

I told her many years ago that I just feel like she deserves more than I can offer sexually and I wanted her to be able to get a sexual release with someone that I just can’t give her. She would always get upset and it got to the point to almost ending our marriage.

Finally about 5 years ago I just dropped it and never pushed the issue. It’s always on my mind, and here recently with our kids getting older we have been spending more time together and having more sex and fun. She has started to show some frustration with sex and I feel like she may be starting to consider cuckolding. I don’t want to say anything to her, and really want her to bring it up to me.

Does anyone have any advice? She is really attractive and has been a stay at home mom for many, many years. I would love nothing more than her to have some amazing sex for the first time in over 25 years.

-Cuckfull in Oklahoma

 

[Motoman]

I hope it happens for you. Set her up. Take her somewhere and have someone flirt and hit on her.

 

[danum]

take it easy bud. encourage her but never push her. let her decide and make the move. you? just guide her in the right diection and offer words of encouragement and praise.

do this right and you will reach your goal.

 

[seduce_my_wife]

Don't push by any means. Your wife is extremely loyal. Most wives are including mine.

I suggested casually onetime, baby let's try lifestyle club, just to see and not do anything. I would love to watch people having sex. Nothing wrong in that.

She agreed after few times and strictly said , I will not do anything. After third visit, one of the party she kissed a a tall white guy and in the same week he came to our house and had sex. She is now talking to other guys. She kissed a different guy in swingers club.

We are meeting two guys in upcoming week's.

I have all the post in this site with details.

It will happen , just takes time.. I would start with watching people having sex. Just my experience.

 

[robbiewillsucku]

I am Robbie in Norman Oklahoma

 

[danum]

Oh man, this has been a fantasy for over 25 years.

We married young at 18,19 and just celebrated our 25 year wedding anniversary this year.

I am very inadequate,(3.75” erect) and also have premature ejaculation. Not only am I small, but also don’t last long. I’ve never given her an orgasm during sex, but can satisfy her with my mouth or fingers just fine.

She is the only girl I’ve ever been with, and she has been with 6 guys before we met. So she has experienced good sex.

Our marriage is rock solid and we are great together. She has remained faithful throughout our marriage and has refused to even talk about cuckolding with me. She knows about my fantasy and it’s been in the back of her head since before we married.

Does anyone have any advice? She is really attractive and has been a stay at home mom for many, many years. I would love nothing more than her to have some amazing sex for the first time in over 25 years.

-Cuckfull in Oklahoma

hello there cuckful,

first, the impt question is whether she is able to fantasise. this is never an easy question to answer as it involves many factors. most impt of which is whether she IS ABLE to at the very least, fantasise with you about being a hotwife. THIS IS KEY.

if she has not, then it is a harder hill to climb. but i think in your case, and if i read you right, the door is already open so it is merely a matter of guiding her in. not pushing her in. let her take her time, and in her own terms.

1. there are some things that you must first learn - patience and persistence. these are your tools to help you achieve this. i think you know this well.

2. never push her. you must be very very patient in getting your fantasy to be a reality. always let her think she is in control of it. this means that if she does not want to talk or fantasise anymore, stop. respect her wishes. start again another time. but be persistent. she will give in eventually.

this is a slow and steady process and your Mrs MUST always have the feeling that she is in control. ALWAYS! This reassures her that should she want to stop, IT WILL BE STOPPED. only then will she trust you.

3. AGAIN REMEMBER that the focus here is your wife. not you and what you desire her to do for you (please understand this as they will learn the truth).

this was one of the methods i used on my wife......

my mrs loves to suck cock. she really loves it as she can go for an hour or more just sucking on one. and you will only enjoy having your cock sucked IF the person sucking enjoys what she is doing. i should know this as im her hubby. she loves to swallow too. and not the porn you watch type where they spit it out! she love to taste it and swallow (i suppose this was the thing that turned me bi too as i loved watching her do it so much that i too got hooked).

so during my convincing her to join a swing party, i bought a vibrator and when she was sucking my cock, i used the vibrator on her. now when she sucks she is in heaven and then applying the vibe on her pussy was the ultimate for her. i used that moment to fantasise that it was a mutual friends. an american guy that we knew (she is partial to orang putih). this method me a great deal in convincing her that another cock or cocks would be great in our sex life. so i did this time and time again. this was the persistent part. as long as she likes sex, half the battle is won.

about 4th month - the reluctance soon gave way. and she began to allow me to talk to her about a third person.

about 8th month - then i began to ask her things. and she answered!!

with this i knew i was doing the right things.

10th month - while having sex SHE asked for the vibrator.

after a year of some hard work she finally agreed to join in a swing party. and the rest is history. this was the patience part.

she enjoyed herself at the party. and it was enjoyable to watch her too.

so keep plugging at it. always remember that the focus is on her. not you.

we began with swinging, then moved gradually (as my cuckold side began to emerge) to threesomes and finally cuckolding. this is something i really enjoy. i especially watching the action up close (like in fucklicking) as it is so intoxicating.

as i noted, patience, persistence, and non-pushy.

secondly, compliment her dressing, her beauty, her sexiness. and do it truthfully. women can tell if you are bull-shitting or theres something behind the compliments.

send her flowers, chocolates at her workplace. let her feel proud in front of her friends, family.

this is an entire package of things you need to do. men are different. we only want 1 thing. with women it takes many things. and your heart.

i did all these things to convince, cajole and encourage my wife. it took me more than a year before she agreed to join me in a swing party. happiest moment of my life.

a plan.....as once she starts experiencing all these new things, your sex life will change and then you slowly bring cuckolding into place. so your time will come my friend.

that will be the ultimate. her the tools. and then fuck her with it, while watching a nice cuckold porn movie. find out who she likes to fuck her. colleague, neighbour, friend etc. then introduce the vibrator as the person. in her pussy or mouth while your cock does the free hole. your wish to be cuckolded will come (cum??) true.

because one day when you see a large hard cock plunging in and out of your wifes pussy, and juices spurting everywhere, the wonderful squishing sounds the aroma wafting into your nose as you watch this up close then you know your time has come. and it is just fucking erotic. we had so many wonderful moments too with my wife.

i hope this helps.

dan

 

[405cuck]

hello there cuckful,

first, the impt question is whether she is able to fantasise. this is never an easy question to answer as it involves many factors. most impt of which is whether she IS ABLE to at the very least, fantasise with you about being a hotwife. THIS IS KEY.

if she has not, then it is a harder hill to climb. but i think in your case, and if i read you right, the door is already open so it is merely a matter of guiding her in. not pushing her in. let her take her time, and in her own terms.

1. there are some things that you must first learn - patience and persistence. these are your tools to help you achieve this. i think you know this well.

2. never push her. you must be very very patient in getting your fantasy to be a reality. always let her think she is in control of it. this means that if she does not want to talk or fantasise anymore, stop. respect her wishes. start again another time. but be persistent. she will give in eventually.

this is a slow and steady process and your Mrs MUST always have the feeling that she is in control. ALWAYS! This reassures her that should she want to stop, IT WILL BE STOPPED. only then will she trust you.

3. AGAIN REMEMBER that the focus here is your wife. not you and what you desire her to do for you (please understand this as they will learn the truth).

this was one of the methods i used on my wife......

my mrs loves to suck cock. she really loves it as she can go for an hour or more just sucking on one. and you will only enjoy having your cock sucked IF the person sucking enjoys what she is doing. i should know this as im her hubby. she loves to swallow too. and not the porn you watch type where they spit it out! she love to taste it and swallow (i suppose this was the thing that turned me bi too as i loved watching her do it so much that i too got hooked).

so during my convincing her to join a swing party, i bought a vibrator and when she was sucking my cock, i used the vibrator on her. now when she sucks she is in heaven and then applying the vibe on her pussy was the ultimate for her. i used that moment to fantasise that it was a mutual friends. an american guy that we knew (she is partial to orang putih). this method me a great deal in convincing her that another cock or cocks would be great in our sex life. so i did this time and time again. this was the persistent part. as long as she likes sex, half the battle is won.

about 4th month - the reluctance soon gave way. and she began to allow me to talk to her about a third person.

about 8th month - then i began to ask her things. and she answered!!

with this i knew i was doing the right things.

10th month - while having sex SHE asked for the vibrator.

after a year of some hard work she finally agreed to join in a swing party. and the rest is history. this was the patience part.

she enjoyed herself at the party. and it was enjoyable to watch her too.

so keep plugging at it. always remember that the focus is on her. not you.

we began with swinging, then moved gradually (as my cuckold side began to emerge) to threesomes and finally cuckolding. this is something i really enjoy. i especially watching the action up close (like in fucklicking) as it is so intoxicating.

as i noted, patience, persistence, and non-pushy.

secondly, compliment her dressing, her beauty, her sexiness. and do it truthfully. women can tell if you are bull-shitting or theres something behind the compliments.

send her flowers, chocolates at her workplace. let her feel proud in front of her friends, family.

this is an entire package of things you need to do. men are different. we only want 1 thing. with women it takes many things. and your heart.

i did all these things to convince, cajole and encourage my wife. it took me more than a year before she agreed to join me in a swing party. happiest moment of my life.

a plan.....as once she starts experiencing all these new things, your sex life will change and then you slowly bring cuckolding into place. so your time will come my friend.

that will be the ultimate. her the tools. and then fuck her with it, while watching a nice cuckold porn movie. find out who she likes to fuck her. colleague, neighbour, friend etc. then introduce the vibrator as the person. in her pussy or mouth while your cock does the free hole. your wish to be cuckolded will come (cum??) true.

because one day when you see a large hard cock plunging in and out of your wifes pussy, and juices spurting everywhere, the wonderful squishing sounds the aroma wafting into your nose as you watch this up close then you know your time has come. and it is just fucking erotic. we had so many wonderful moments too with my wife.

i hope this helps.

dan

Thank you. We have been married a very long time, and I tried the more aggressive approach for many years. When I stopped a few years ago things got better, and now I get little hints here and there from her about it. I think your approach is great, and I’ve been doing close to the same.

I hope it happens, and we are closer now than ever. I think I’ve rebuilt the trust, and now she holds the power and can decide if and when to go to the next step.