Everyone comes at this from different perspectives. Back about ten years ago one of my wife's girlfriends wanted to get pregnant and was afraid because on her husband's side of the family three was a recessive gene that caused birth defects and they were told pregnancy had a 50/50 shot of passing that gene. To add to this, she had some fertility issues and they did not want to go the IVF route.
After months of conversations, I agreed to try to get her pregnant. We actually went as far as having a legal document drawn up so that in the future they cannot claim I have any financial or visitation rights. I know this sounds cruel, but it was to protect all of us involved. It took seven tries before the lady became pregnant. She and I would have sex together, in private without my wife or her husband present at her request. We worked for optimal times where she was most fertile. The sex was a lot of fun.
Today, we remain close friends and they are wonderful parents to a nine-year-old ...... who is the center of their life. Her husband is the ......'s father and the ...... could not ask for a better mom or dad. There are a lot of ramifications in getting a lady, who is not your wife pregnant. For us, we took a lot of time and put a lot of thought into our decision.
We hope this works out well for you, and wish you the best of luck and happiness if this is what you truly desire.
Had a situation similar to this happen.....long story, but wife #1 and I were involved in swinging and had a regular group of friends we met with most weekends. One weekend, a couple announced they "were trying to get pregnant" so he could participate, but she could only be with "guys she trusted not to cum in her because it was her fertile time".
She and I had always had fun sexually, she was a hot-blodded petite and SEXY dark haired italian girl that LOVED sex, and several times she confessed to me that the biggest reason she was involved was because her husband was boring sexually, just wanted to lay back and provide a cock for her to ride on but he was a good husband with a GOOD job...whereas we did all kinds of different things together sexually including listening to her fantasies and incorporating them in to sex...not the point.
For whatever reason, she cuddled up with me, and announced to everyone that she KNEW she could trust "CW" which was correct........I generally cum once and I am done, so I was pretty good at delaying it for a LONG time. After some making out, and orally teasing each other, she whispered in my ear "let's go to a room", which wasn't all that unusual for us to do since she liked talking about her fantasies without hubby around.
In the room, she is REALLY getting turned on FAST and a lot more than usual. I asked her if she was fantasizing about something specific, and she told me that fucking someone else when she is fertile REALLY turns her on!! She hissed in my ear, if I didn't want you to be trusted, would you cum in me? I asked a few questions about timing and was she sure she wanted to take that kind of risk and she made it VERY obvious that she DEFINITELY wanted to take the risk!! An extremely HOT woman hissing in your ear that she WANTS to get pregnant by you and not tell her husband and eventually BEGGING for you to cum in her and knock her up with your baby....it worked damn well for me!! LOL And for the first time in YEARS, I came twice!!
She was relentless, sucked me to an erection again all the while begging for a second chance at getting pregnant and she had MASSIVE orgasms both times, and even rode me the second time telling me how she hopes this is the time she gets pregnant because SHE would be the one that got herself pregnant!! Never knew the motivation on her part to want to do this with me specifically.
The following weekend was a repeat of the weekend prior......she came on to me right away, wanted to go off alone, and she was turned on like I had NEVER seen her before and talking about getting pregnant the second we closed the door to the room!! She even brought along a Viagra she wanted me to take so I could stay hard and fuck her more after I came......which worked quite well, I found out, as long as my partner is aggressive and keeps me hard. Even tho mentally I am sexually satisfied, I was able to maintain an erection from her sucking and playing with and being aggressive sexually. Amazing stuff.
Couple months go by, and its summer and we don't see them because of vacations and scheduling, etc but early fall they show up at our friends house and she is VERY pregnant!! Hubby announces she can do anyone now that she is pregnant.......and she hard stares me, winks, rubs her pregnant belly, and winks again!!
I have absolutely no idea for sure whether it was me that got her pregnant or not, and once she had the baby they dropped out of swinging and we never saw them again. But it damned sure was a HOT situation while it lasted, and I assume all went well for them afterwards.
CW