We are pretty heavy into mfm fun with a guy we know, on and off for about 4 years. During covid we did it a LOT with him, 3 or 4 nights a week. Now it's 2 or 3 times a month.
We only do this with him. It's VERY obvious my wife is REALLY into all this but she NEVER would talk about it. I'd ask her and she would say it's OK but that was it. When he's with us she goes into full on slut mode and fucks us both till we're beat. Then she's horny as hell for days after. It's improved our sex life like crazy.
He was with us last Friday, as usual it was sex for about 3 1/2 hours. Tonight, Tuesday, we get home from work, we shared a can of beer, she asked if we can talk...usually bad, right? She says how she likes when he's with us but doesn't want to hurt my feelings....I said I'm good with it. Crap...he's fucked her many, many, many times in every way you can imagine, they kiss, make out, she swallows his load, he's fucked her butt. It's a very hot night for all of us.
Then she kinda suggests "we might try a black guy" ? I about threw up, I'm scared to death.
I'm good with the idea but how do we find a guy? We are definitely not the swinger type and have never gone "looking" for a guy.
I'm scared we might go too far with all this.