Who are you fucking?
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The majority of my wife's encounter partners are solicited via Internet sources, primarily Craig's List, for planned events.
Over the years we've developed a fairly refined process that works well for us. She has a slight latex allergy, and prefers bareback sex - the combination of the latex irritation, and her desire for skin-on-skin intimacy drives that preference, and we have found an acceptable mitigation for the risk - health screening for STI/STD's.
Our screening is a process my wife calls "shopping for cock." It begins with an ad/posting that includes very specific criteria, response instructions, and at least one good photograph of my wife. These posts usually generate somewhere between 300 - 600 responses, most of which get filtered out because they don't meet the response instructions.
Out of the initial filtered responses, she will chat/.../sext with those that interest her, and narrow it down to one, sometimes two candidates. They work through a testing network that we recommend for STI/STD screening. This step we've found to be important in weeding out fakes/flakes - the testing requires skin in the game, so to speak on their part, to pay the testing fee, make the appointment, and provide us a link and code to the results. Once we're sure that the testing got done, she arranges a time and place to meet for face-to-face screening, in a public place. We generally use a coffee shop or wine bar that we're familiar with.
If they click in the face-to-face meet, the next step is usually immediate - we take a drive in our vehicle, to a secluded place.
My wife and the encounter candidate ride in the back seat, and I drive. They will generally make out during the drive, and when we arrive at our "spot," she performs what she calls "the cock inspection." This serves several purposes; it allows her to verify the cock, its owner's hygiene, that he's smooth, and free of obvious health problems like sores or blisters, etc. It also gives her the chance to stroke and suck her candidate's package. She rarely fucks on the screening meet-up, unless she's over-the-top hot for the cock. They do their thing, I watch, and after a half-hour or so, we head back to the initial meeting location and drop the guy off. If everything went well, he gets the time and instructions for the real, main-event meet-up, which 99.9% of the time we're doing at our hotel suite.
Fewer partners are recruited as pick-ups, from hotel or resort bars, lounges and dance clubs - that generally rules out a bareback encounter, because real-time pick-ups don't allow for thorough health screening.
A handful of times she's fucked a co-worker, like her editor, or a model (she is a photographer). She doesn't fuck friends or relatives...
Over the years we've developed a fairly refined process that works well for us. She has a slight latex allergy, and prefers bareback sex - the combination of the latex irritation, and her desire for skin-on-skin intimacy drives that preference, and we have found an acceptable mitigation for the risk - health screening for STI/STD's.
Our screening is a process my wife calls "shopping for cock." It begins with an ad/posting that includes very specific criteria, response instructions, and at least one good photograph of my wife. These posts usually generate somewhere between 300 - 600 responses, most of which get filtered out because they don't meet the response instructions.
Out of the initial filtered responses, she will chat/.../sext with those that interest her, and narrow it down to one, sometimes two candidates. They work through a testing network that we recommend for STI/STD screening. This step we've found to be important in weeding out fakes/flakes - the testing requires skin in the game, so to speak on their part, to pay the testing fee, make the appointment, and provide us a link and code to the results. Once we're sure that the testing got done, she arranges a time and place to meet for face-to-face screening, in a public place. We generally use a coffee shop or wine bar that we're familiar with.
If they click in the face-to-face meet, the next step is usually immediate - we take a drive in our vehicle, to a secluded place.
My wife and the encounter candidate ride in the back seat, and I drive. They will generally make out during the drive, and when we arrive at our "spot," she performs what she calls "the cock inspection." This serves several purposes; it allows her to verify the cock, its owner's hygiene, that he's smooth, and free of obvious health problems like sores or blisters, etc. It also gives her the chance to stroke and suck her candidate's package. She rarely fucks on the screening meet-up, unless she's over-the-top hot for the cock. They do their thing, I watch, and after a half-hour or so, we head back to the initial meeting location and drop the guy off. If everything went well, he gets the time and instructions for the real, main-event meet-up, which 99.9% of the time we're doing at our hotel suite.
Fewer partners are recruited as pick-ups, from hotel or resort bars, lounges and dance clubs - that generally rules out a bareback encounter, because real-time pick-ups don't allow for thorough health screening.
A handful of times she's fucked a co-worker, like her editor, or a model (she is a photographer). She doesn't fuck friends or relatives...
Thank you for your comments, its always nice to hear about someone's experiences and preferences
hotwifeandhubby
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Luis9096
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Luis9096
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At first ours was complete strangers we would pick and have fun with then she would fuck two of her co workers until they got girlfriemds then what really tunred me on was when my friends started fucking her the one a I could trust and knew were the lime was and what not to cross so now its just those friends its been fun so we voted for those three lol
Luis9096
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Dam thats awesome I really miss the wife would have had sexual partners before me I was her first boyfriend first lay all that
Sounds great
You can enjoy sex with other person but nobody can influence your relationship👍🏼
I have voted but on behalf of my exwife, mainly. Her favorite thing was to pull one of her mates husbands, either at a party or wedding reception or even at a BBQ. She would then fuck them in secret, a very chosen few, over many months. The family thing was her cousin who she developed an uneasy crush on and was desperate to fuck him. I was unhappy with the arrangement but she went ahead without my permission Hence she is my ex
I didn't realize how old this poll is until after I voted. It's still interesting though. I had to check every box but immediate family member. 😛
I had to tick all but immediate family members and husbands work colleague. However, the two affairs I had with my bosses were a long time ago so I'm not sure if that counts but I have ticked it as it is something I have done xx
