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Hi, i am looking for advice on how to open up my wife to the idea of another man in bed.
My wife is pretty shy about her body and a bit close minded when it comes to sex.

a few months ago i told her that it turns me on when she wear sexy clothes on the street and guys look at her.
a bit later i told her that again and asked her if she will be willing to wear only underwear when i open the door for the delivery guy.
she didn't agree to wear only underwear but she did agree to be with underwear and a blanket and to show her legs.

i was a bit surprised she wasn't mad and she partly aggreed. she also said that she doesn't want to do it at home because the delivery guy might know us.
it got me thinking that maybe there is a chance but at a hotel or somthing like it.

today i orderd i couples massage to our house. I booked a male masseuse for her and female for me.
she was a bit surprised that i got her a guy, and after the massage she asked me if i did it because i wanted another guy to touch her.
i said yes and asked if this is ok. she said yes.
i asked if it is ok that she will get massages from guys again and she agreed.

how do i turn the massages to something more? i am thinking maybe ask her about tantric massage but i am not sure..
 
Hi, i am looking for advice on how to open up my wife to the idea of another man in bed.
My wife is pretty shy about her body and a bit close minded when it comes to sex.

a few months ago i told her that it turns me on when she wear sexy clothes on the street and guys look at her.
a bit later i told her that again and asked her if she will be willing to wear only underwear when i open the door for the delivery guy.
she didn't agree to wear only underwear but she did agree to be with underwear and a blanket and to show her legs.

i was a bit surprised she wasn't mad and she partly aggreed. she also said that she doesn't want to do it at home because the delivery guy might know us.
it got me thinking that maybe there is a chance but at a hotel or somthing like it.

today i orderd i couples massage to our house. I booked a male masseuse for her and female for me.
she was a bit surprised that i got her a guy, and after the massage she asked me if i did it because i wanted another guy to touch her.
i said yes and asked if this is ok. she said yes.
i asked if it is ok that she will get massages from guys again and she agreed.

how do i turn the massages to something more? i am thinking maybe ask her about tantric massage but i am not sure..
I understand it's your fantasy, but it's important to let her free and to don't push her to much.
Try again with massage and be open to any scenari
 
Hi, i am looking for advice on how to open up my wife to the idea of another man in bed.
My wife is pretty shy about her body and a bit close minded when it comes to sex.

a few months ago i told her that it turns me on when she wear sexy clothes on the street and guys look at her.
a bit later i told her that again and asked her if she will be willing to wear only underwear when i open the door for the delivery guy.
she didn't agree to wear only underwear but she did agree to be with underwear and a blanket and to show her legs.

i was a bit surprised she wasn't mad and she partly aggreed. she also said that she doesn't want to do it at home because the delivery guy might know us.
it got me thinking that maybe there is a chance but at a hotel or somthing like it.

today i orderd i couples massage to our house. I booked a male masseuse for her and female for me.
she was a bit surprised that i got her a guy, and after the massage she asked me if i did it because i wanted another guy to touch her.
i said yes and asked if this is ok. she said yes.
i asked if it is ok that she will get massages from guys again and she agreed.

how do i turn the massages to something more? i am thinking maybe ask her about tantric massage but i am not sure..
The way I introduced my wife to get engaged is by suggesting that we go to a swinger party. She agreed to attend and after we were there ended up having sex with three guys.

It doesn't hurt to try.
 

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Hi, i am looking for advice on how to open up my wife to the idea of another man in bed.
My wife is pretty shy about her body and a bit close minded when it comes to sex.

a few months ago i told her that it turns me on when she wear sexy clothes on the street and guys look at her.
a bit later i told her that again and asked her if she will be willing to wear only underwear when i open the door for the delivery guy.
she didn't agree to wear only underwear but she did agree to be with underwear and a blanket and to show her legs.

i was a bit surprised she wasn't mad and she partly aggreed. she also said that she doesn't want to do it at home because the delivery guy might know us.
it got me thinking that maybe there is a chance but at a hotel or somthing like it.

today i orderd i couples massage to our house. I booked a male masseuse for her and female for me.
she was a bit surprised that i got her a guy, and after the massage she asked me if i did it because i wanted another guy to touch her.
i said yes and asked if this is ok. she said yes.
i asked if it is ok that she will get massages from guys again and she agreed.

how do i turn the massages to something more? i am thinking maybe ask her about tantric massage but i am not sure..
before we started I also had to convince my wife. One of the things she says helped is when I told her to think of the other guy as a sex toy for us. he is someone we are using for our enjoyment. He would be just one lucky guy to have a no strings attached sex thing. after that and once we started to sharing her, all that went out the window
 
before we started I also had to convince my wife. One of the things she says helped is when I told her to think of the other guy as a sex toy for us. he is someone we are using for our enjoyment. He would be just one lucky guy to have a no strings attached sex thing. after that and once we started to sharing her, all that went out the window
 
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Hi there. In the case of my wife, 46, she is more receptive when we have sex after a dinner party for example at home with friends, and she has had a few glasses of wine. It became a reality quite unexpectedly when we were having sex just after our friends had left and I asked her if she wished Robert was still here to screw her. She certainly got off on the idea, and reached orgasm while we were talking about it. During sex, I asked her if I should ring him the morning to come over for a threesome, and she said yes. I just thought this was the wine and excitement at play. However, she woke me at about 7 the next day, and asked me, ‘are you going to give Rob a ring?’
I was very surprised. I did. He came over, and when he arrived I asked if he would like like to share Jo, because she was still very turned on, and in bed dressed in her lingerie. To cut a long story short, we lived out our fantasy for about 3 hours. Never regretted it.
 
Hi, i am looking for advice on how to open up my wife to the idea of another man in bed.
My wife is pretty shy about her body and a bit close minded when it comes to sex.

a few months ago i told her that it turns me on when she wear sexy clothes on the street and guys look at her.
a bit later i told her that again and asked her if she will be willing to wear only underwear when i open the door for the delivery guy.
she didn't agree to wear only underwear but she did agree to be with underwear and a blanket and to show her legs.

i was a bit surprised she wasn't mad and she partly aggreed. she also said that she doesn't want to do it at home because the delivery guy might know us.
it got me thinking that maybe there is a chance but at a hotel or somthing like it.

today i orderd i couples massage to our house. I booked a male masseuse for her and female for me.
she was a bit surprised that i got her a guy, and after the massage she asked me if i did it because i wanted another guy to touch her.
i said yes and asked if this is ok. she said yes.
i asked if it is ok that she will get massages from guys again and she agreed.

how do i turn the massages to something more? i am thinking maybe ask her about tantric massage but i am not sure..
wow, I think you are pretty much on your way, but speaking as a woman (almost a hotwife) dont rush it or she'll turn off the desire. We are right at the same stage as you, and even tried the couple's massage, but for now we are using role play to help get me into the idea of fucking another guy. Luckily my hub is patient and I think he gets a lot out of our role play adventures even though he periodically checks to see which guy I would fuck given the chance.
Doing hot wife challenges from a book has moved me closer to making the leap to actually fucking someone other than my hub.
 
August 2024, Hello wantabe cuckold(s). I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma, a bimale with a nice c*ck and nice tits.

If you want her to fuck other cocks then after you fuck her - start licking her pussy clean - do this every time you fuck her then after the 10th time - while you are licking her pussy - I am fantasizing that you fucked a cock earlier in the day and I am licking his cum from your pussy. It is all about pleasing you not my cock. I am OK being a sissy cuckold.

I want you to try this on your wife or GF - do this every time when you suck her tit. Suck her tit like a cock. Bounce or bobb your head on her tit just like you would if you were sucking a cock. Do this at least once a week. Third week, start sucking her tit then tell her that you are fantasizing. Hoping she says what are you fantasizing about. If not, suck her tit like a cock then just say -- I am fantasizing that I am sucking your tit like a cock. Don't wait - you say - tell me to suck your tit like a cock. When she tells you to suck her tit like a cock -- sucked harder and deeper.

Three more weeks -- start sucking her tit then you say - tell me to ask --- May I please suck your tit like a cock cause I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker. Repeat it often to yourself and to her while you are sucking her tit. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker - yes I am sucking your tit like a cock. Dry hump her while you are sucking her tit like a cock and you might just cum on her leg or in your panties.

Email me back (robbiewillsucku at gm ail) and tell me how she responded and what you are doing now to please her.
 
We're a role-playing hw-cuckold couple and it was me that suggested I perform cleanup on my wife's creampie, which didn't go over very well at first. She couldn't believe I would want to eat my own cum (she's into oral but not tasting it). Even though it was my fantasy I'll admit that I always checked out from eating my own cum after I orgasmed.
Something about seeing cum in my wife's pussy has always been a turn on for me, and now that I realize I'm a cuckold, the fantasy of eating her lover's cum is super arousing to me.
It's been a little journey to get her to the point where she'll work me up by telling me how she's going to make me eat her lover's cum then after I fuck her she "forces" my head down there, and even though it was my fantasy it took a little while for me to actually eat my own cum.
Hint* We got here by role-playing me eating cum by using this vanilla flavored lotion that is white and looks just like cum. I would squirt some of it between her parted pussy lips and just look at it before she allowed me to gently lap it up.
Sometimes she'd fuck her dildo and I'd add some "cum" to it so when she pulled it out it looked like a freshly fucked cunt.... which made me want to suck it all the more... and eventually fuck it then eat it... so by then I was eating my cum mixed with her "lover's" cum.
So now that I'm actually doing cleanup duty on my wife, it was her idea to ramp it up and have me suck that fake cum off her dildos.
I'm loving it, but be forewarned how far this can go once you awaken your once vanilla wife.
 
wow, I think you are pretty much on your way, but speaking as a woman (almost a hotwife) dont rush it or she'll turn off the desire. We are right at the same stage as you, and even tried the couple's massage, but for now we are using role play to help get me into the idea of fucking another guy. Luckily my hub is patient and I think he gets a lot out of our role play adventures even though he periodically checks to see which guy I would fuck given the chance.
Doing hot wife challenges from a book has moved me closer to making the leap to actually fucking someone other than my hub.
I like how you think, Good luck and i hope this eXciting Taboo becums a Real Event for you Soon.
 
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August 2024, Hello wantabe cuckold(s). I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma, a bimale with a nice c*ck and nice tits.

If you want her to fuck other cocks then after you fuck her - start licking her pussy clean - do this every time you fuck her then after the 10th time - while you are licking her pussy - I am fantasizing that you fucked a cock earlier in the day and I am licking his cum from your pussy. It is all about pleasing you not my cock. I am OK being a sissy cuckold.

I want you to try this on your wife or GF - do this every time when you suck her tit. Suck her tit like a cock. Bounce or bobb your head on her tit just like you would if you were sucking a cock. Do this at least once a week. Third week, start sucking her tit then tell her that you are fantasizing. Hoping she says what are you fantasizing about. If not, suck her tit like a cock then just say -- I am fantasizing that I am sucking your tit like a cock. Don't wait - you say - tell me to suck your tit like a cock. When she tells you to suck her tit like a cock -- sucked harder and deeper.

Three more weeks -- start sucking her tit then you say - tell me to ask --- May I please suck your tit like a cock cause I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker. Repeat it often to yourself and to her while you are sucking her tit. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker - yes I am sucking your tit like a cock. Dry hump her while you are sucking her tit like a cock and you might just cum on her leg or in your panties.
 
Hi, i am looking for advice on how to open up my wife to the idea of another man in bed.
My wife is pretty shy about her body and a bit close minded when it comes to sex.

a few months ago i told her that it turns me on when she wear sexy clothes on the street and guys look at her.
a bit later i told her that again and asked her if she will be willing to wear only underwear when i open the door for the delivery guy.
she didn't agree to wear only underwear but she did agree to be with underwear and a blanket and to show her legs.

i was a bit surprised she wasn't mad and she partly aggreed. she also said that she doesn't want to do it at home because the delivery guy might know us.
it got me thinking that maybe there is a chance but at a hotel or somthing like it.

today i orderd i couples massage to our house. I booked a male masseuse for her and female for me.
she was a bit surprised that i got her a guy, and after the massage she asked me if i did it because i wanted another guy to touch her.
i said yes and asked if this is ok. she said yes.
i asked if it is ok that she will get massages from guys again and she agreed.

how do i turn the massages to something more? i am thinking maybe ask her about tantric massage but i am not sure..
I was trying to get my girl to do it for like 3 years. Chance had us staying in a hotel for a week. That made it happen lol