What Is This Called?

We are in your exact situation and have been for over 30 years. She needs more, much more that what I can give her. I am not small but I dont last long and her previous boyfriends were very hung indeed. Months into our marriage she fucked her painting teacher, I find out and was so turned on I almost begged her to go on. During such long time I never fucked another woman and she has fucked countless men. Sometimes she tells me, sometimes is evident, and not too many as i would like, I was there watching, filming, wanking or going second. We have tried many things to be comfortable with our marriage, even being in my case pussy free for four years in a row or she not telling me anything for a pair of years. The only certain fact I can tell you is that the more we fuck,, beiing what it is on each occasion, the more she fucks around and the more she tells me and makes me happier. I dont know the name to call it but it works for us.
 
We are in your exact situation and have been for over 30 years. She needs more, much more that what I can give her. I am not small but I dont last long and her previous boyfriends were very hung indeed. Months into our marriage she fucked her painting teacher, I find out and was so turned on I almost begged her to go on. During such long time I never fucked another woman and she has fucked countless men. Sometimes she tells me, sometimes is evident, and not too many as i would like, I was there watching, filming, wanking or going second. We have tried many things to be comfortable with our marriage, even being in my case pussy free for four years in a row or she not telling me anything for a pair of years. The only certain fact I can tell you is that the more we fuck,, beiing what it is on each occasion, the more she fucks around and the more she tells me and makes me happier. I dont know the name to call it but it works for us.
Nice and hot!!!! Espacially if i were your neighbor to fuck her every day!!!
 
I think I would just call swinging or hotwifing which is just a form of swinging anyways. There is probably as many variations of it as can be thought of by two or three people. I’ve found it kind of evolves anyways and changes a bit over time anyways as you may want to try new things and it also depends on the other guy too so I don’t think you need to box yourself into a label. Does a label really matter anyways
No, not really. I was just trying to figure out what I’m wanting, what’s the correct terminology for it. I’d given thought to introduce some reading to my wife about it, attempt to influence or persuade.

I really some positive benefits of us doing whatever you wanna call it, her having a FWB. My explanations haven’t seemed to have much effect, I’m sure she’s thinking about it though or has.
 
So, to be a "cuck" or for it to be considered a "cuck relationship", the male must get NO pussy from the wife? I'm asking these questions because I'd like to come up with some way of presenting this idea to my wife that I could possibly persuade her into seeing it as a good thing. We've had something similar to this years ago but it was never "official", I guess is the correct way to term that.
GF & I have a similar situ. She has a FWB who's younger & stronger (and larger) than I.
She sees him regularly for fuck-sessions, then delights in returning to me a mess from his cum. I get sloppy seconds after licking her clean.
 
I’d like that with mine as well. Sadly I just don’t see it happening at this point. Take a lot of work, lot of hope.
Don’t be disheartened. When it rains it pours they say. Every cloud has a silver lining..
Earlier in your posts you mentioned if these terms Hotwife, cuck, stag , bull matters? To that I will say , these are all mere labels and to each one their own. Whatever makes them happy. Some of the new couples I played with were not into labels at all. They just wanted to have a good time. Take time with your wife. You have planted the seed. Nurture it well. Nothing you both mutually decide for yourselves is bad or good as long as you both are happy. Enjoy the ride !!!
 
When you don't want to be "cucked", you want to have sex with your wife but you know you're not big enough to satisfy her like someone else can (or has)? Like, if she was willing to take on another guy for a somewhat regular thing and she included you totally without keeping it a secret, lying or cheating... She comes home and allows you to reclaim her and she has sex with you too, tells you about what she's done with this other person...

What is that called? Is that still a hotwife/cuck situation or is that something different? I guess the better way to word it, the husband/wife both love each other and love sex with each other but the wife fucks around, the husband does not. So again, what would that be called or considered?
The perfect marraige.id own it
 
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I’d like that with mine as well. Sadly I just don’t see it happening at this point. Take a lot of work, lot of hope.
Yeh for sure . I groomed my betrothed for years and I finally wore her down.i stayed with it. Since even before we were married I fantasized about her in the nude with other men, legs spread accommodating them. One night she was preparing to go out and meet friends for a drinky-winky, regrettably i had to work the good ‘ol graveyard shift,04:00- high noon and was unable to accompany her. she was bathing in our Roman love tub and I finally got up the nerve and confessed my desires for her to give it a go. She was a straight little church girl and practically a virgin when we wed. She gave me the blankest look. She seriously didn’t get it. We had a subsequent sober chat,fully clothed across the kitchen table and she asked,‘“are you sure you really want me to do this, I’ve been thinking about it since the other night when you’d first mentioned it to me”. She shared talking to her girlfriends about it and they were giddy and encouraging her to do it at the same hoping that down the road if it went well with dianne their hubby’s might reward them with a hall pass like I’d just gifted Diane with.we went over what I anticipated from her and she shared her vision for a what a perfect night would entail. She reserved the right to back out. Once we crossed the t’ s and dotted the eyes on our new contract she wasted little to no time registering herself on a few vanilla dating sites. That’s pretty much all there was in those days and hit up a couple of ex- bf’s in an effort to recycle them. She was ok with a date or ...... with a man from her past but then she recalled a mechanic that she relied on to work on her car who used to oogle her pert breasts and lust over her nice bottom. And fine hips. They both knew she was married but he didn’t care or have any regard for me. He just wanted to fuck my sweet little innocent wife and ...... to our four kids. she relished provoking him with plunging necklines, no bra ,tight jeans ,high heels. I even took her over there in her micro mini and he let out a low Moan. When she stepoed out of the car and spread her legs right in front of his face.he commented later that she “took his picture”. Who knew.he had a horrible erection and Dianne was certain he was a bigger man.bigger then me,but that doesn’t take much effort. I’m barely 5/inches . She calls it her little cocktail weiner. So humiliating.shes even done that in front of her friends that drew a giggle and in front of my friends that drew a racious deep throated chuckle. They don’t call me cuck the cuck for nothing. So long story long she ambled down to manny)s garage on the guise of getting an oil change and lube and teased him mercilessly. Bending over showing off her nude nips and walking around on the street level garage while manny was down below in the pit where he was draining the oil. .she bent over the rail and her short skirt rode up her ass and it was no challenge for him to look up her dress and see what all she had as she walked around the van and planted herself above him. He had no choice but to look up at her French cut bikini lace panties that were trans Lucent and he easily could look right through them getting a fabulous view of her privates from his vantage down in the bay.. He closed the shop at noon and instructed her to follow him in her freshly serviced MILF,mommy, soccer mom , Chevy Astro van that I’d just bought for her to cement our “peculiar’ arrangement. she was in love with.that car and there was no backing out this . We were both in at a 90 degree angle., and she didn’t disappoint, failure wasn’t an option.. Now it was her time to be lubed and serviced.he opened up a bottle of expensive dom perignom Champaign. after drinking that fine champagn she literally felt obligated to spread her legs for him. She’d never drank that kind of champagne before and she knew what manny wanted.disclsure , Dianne’s a cheap ...... and after a couple flutes of the bubbly she was tipsy already and losing all inhibitions. I asked her if she felt ok in the run up to their coupling and she laughed that she didn’t give me a second though. Wow, what a gut shot,she was feeling zero remorse as manny stripped her completely naked and as she remarked he “got her on his living room floor”. She said he was huge and as he was shoehorning his manhood into her tight little pussy she said he broke her “cookie jar” and began climaxing when he got it all of his length and girth inside of her.after she said in what seemed like just the right amount of time he erupted inside of her draining his respectively sized testicles inside of her. She said he came in a few voluminous sperts and to add humiliation to insult she remarked the reason that she’d fofgotten about me was her anticipation of accomdating her 1st big man. Ok, I’m used to it by now. She’s a great wife but doesn’t mind cutting me down when she’s pleased too .i don’t mind. For me it’s all good. She’s staying with it.
Don’t be disheartened. When it rains it pours they say. Every cloud has a silver lining..
Earlier in your posts you mentioned if these terms Hotwife, cuck, stag , bull matters? To that I will say , these are all mere labels and to each one their own. Whatever makes them happy. Some of the new couples I played with were not into labels at all. They just wanted to have a good time. Take time with your wife. You have planted the seed. Nurture it well. Nothing you both mutually decide for yourselves is bad or good as long as you both are happy. Enjoy the ride !!!
 
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When you don't want to be "cucked", you want to have sex with your wife but you know you're not big enough to satisfy her like someone else can (or has)? Like, if she was willing to take on another guy for a somewhat regular thing and she included you totally without keeping it a secret, lying or cheating... She comes home and allows you to reclaim her and she has sex with you too, tells you about what she's done with this other person...

What is that called? Is that still a hotwife/cuck situation or is that something different? I guess the better way to word it, the husband/wife both love each other and love sex with each other but the wife fucks around, the husband does not. So again, what would that be called or considered?
I think that's hot, I feel the same way except I want to be involved in the sex. A threesome would be great. I love my wife but I want her to have the best sex life posable. I get my pleasure while she is getting pleasure if that makes since to you. I'm not into humiliation and shaming just hot sex and fun.
 

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We are in your exact situation and have been for over 30 years. She needs more, much more that what I can give her. I am not small but I dont last long and her previous boyfriends were very hung indeed. Months into our marriage she fucked her painting teacher, I find out and was so turned on I almost begged her to go on. During such long time I never fucked another woman and she has fucked countless men. Sometimes she tells me, sometimes is evident, and not too many as i would like, I was there watching, filming, wanking or going second. We have tried many things to be comfortable with our marriage, even being in my case pussy free for four years in a row or she not telling me anything for a pair of years. The only certain fact I can tell you is that the more we fuck,, beiing what it is on each occasion, the more she fucks around and the more she tells me and makes me happier. I dont know the name to call it but it works for us.
Definitely called the perfect marriage.
 
I was going to say Stag/Vixen as that is what we consider ourselves. Mostly we just have guys over to our house for her to fuck. Normally i like to watch to get started then maybe join in for MFM or just wait for sloppy seconds and cleanup. I am free to pursue other people if i wish but i have such a kink out of watching other guys cum in my wife that i normally don't involvle myself with other women etc.
Wife and I are in the same situation, except we don't play at home. Usually when we go out of town for the weekend and get a hotel room.